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Feeling Lost.. Need some direction....
So I'm still on the road as of now I went down to Nola last week & worked one shift & did great. However, I ended up just packing up & heading up to AL to stay with my good friend for a short while to help relax & get out of my post break - up funk I've been in. So I have money & I'm planning on heading up north to work along the way in a few days & hopefully land myself in NYC to escape this wierd "anxiety funk" I've been in. I'm just confused as of where I really want to go.. part of me wants to head up to NYC but the other half wants to head back west to CA somewhere(not LA). Another part of my anxiety is the fear of not getting hired in the cities I drive thru due to my alt look (even though I tone it down) and maybe getting stuck somewhere :( I guess I'm just scarred from my recent experience in nola, only one club hired me which was Barely Legal & although I did great there, I'm scared of the same thing happening wherever I go... So what would you guys do??? No I'm NOT able to work in Alabama (due to having to have a license) & I'm really wanting to go either direction to make a life again somewhere new with new surroundings & new people.... Pm's are always welcome :)
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Go back to Nola. Barely legal had great money potential and oct is good there and your already hired so you don't have to worry about that.
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* I say all this with Love *
You did great in a club. Why would you leave it for fucking NYC? Are you out of your mind? Do you know how much hotels cost here? Do you know how much parking costs here? Do you know how high the house-fees are here? Do you know how much the gowns and tip-outs are here? All those things cost a LOT. You found a club where you do well... Holy Moly! Get back to work and start making bank!
Alt looks don't do too well in Manhattan... maybe in the outer boroughs (boros? I still don't know how to spell that word), but I'd imagine earnings potentials are limited. For the love of all that is good and right, think about your bank account and go to NOLA again.
When you find something that WORKS... work it!
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I know but when I worked there I wasn't happy. I wanted to work in a city that I haven't yet. I'm not gonna end up working in NYC bc I did extensive research on here last night & decided it wasn't worth it to me. I do wanna head north though up towards new england area & work in Philly.
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xxxGothBarbie
I know but when I worked there I wasn't happy. I wanted to work in a city that I haven't yet. I'm not gonna end up working in NYC bc I did extensive research on here last night & decided it wasn't worth it to me. I do wanna head north though up towards new england area & work in Philly.
I'm glad you did your research... It's tough in the NYC. I'm just looking out for you. :) But I have a question: Why do you want to go up north so much?
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Sophia_Starina
I'm glad you did your research... It's tough in the NYC. I'm just looking out for you. :) But I have a question: Why do you want to go up north so much?
Because I've never really gotten to travel thru there & enjoy the scenery or work there. I'm going thru a tough time & it helps if I travel to new places.
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michele11
Go back to Nola. Barely legal had great money potential and oct is good there and your already hired so you don't have to worry about that.
yea I did good for the dayshift I worked last fri but I started getting bad anxiety after I left & just wanted to leave.... I might still go back there I just need to make a decision. I have yet to try the South Carolina this fall which I really wanted to.
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xxxGothBarbie
Because I've never really gotten to travel thru there & enjoy the scenery or work there. I'm going thru a tough time & it helps if I travel to new places.
I wish you the best of luck on your adventure.
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Then go to myrtle beach, I'm sure you'll get hired somewhere there but if you have anxiety you need you need to address that or moving from place to place isn't going to matter.
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yea Myrtle is on my hit list :) my anxiety comes in waves & it's not all the time. I just need to get out there & do it! season is over in Nov right?
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Also. New Orleans has cheap places and you probably just had anxiety because you haven't worked In so long so you may just want to go back there and get your mojo back and make some money before you travel on to other places. It really won't help your anxiety wondering from place to place not knowing where to work or if your going to get hired.
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xxxGothBarbie
yea Myrtle is on my hit list :) my anxiety comes in waves & it's not all the time. I just need to get out there & do it! season is over in Nov right?
It depends. I usually go from around oct 18-30 but I've been in nov like 4 years ago and it wasn't as good but it's still 85 degrees up north so nov may actually be better? I usually do power boat in key west in nov.
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xxxGothBarbie
yea you're right michelle :) I'm going back there I've decided. I did find a nice cheap place to stay in & was right by the street car trolley which was dirt cheap round trip to go back & forth to work :) Are you going there this season?
I usually work in Nola dec-feb and I'm getting my boobs done in dec so probably not. I get extreme anxiety there and had trouble with a manger who actually blacklisted me so....
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well my problem i had was I had a veery drunk custy during the day shift & he got a room with one girl & when he came out he wanted several reg dances with me , & so we went back there & he was too drunk to pull the cash out of his pocket so I reached in to help him & thye floor guy scolded me for doing so. Then on top of that he wanted a vip room with me & the mngr said no he needed to sober up more but yet he was falling asleep in the last room with the other girl, so I got pissed bc it seemed like they were trying to deter me from making money. Then after maybe 20 mins the mngr ok's it for him to go in the vip room with both me & the other girl with him. I didn't like that, I've never been treated like that in a club so that's half the reason I didn't want to return. It was easy pulling dances though...
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Nola is very picky about that. They do that to prevent charge backs. Hell the club I worked this summer in St Louis was cracking down on it too! Nola is a big tourist city I had a guy spend 12,000 in 2 days on me and had to wait 30 days for it. The club I was just at I had to fill out an incident report because the guy , didn't dispute we did 3 half hours, only that he got 300 to tip me. So the waitress and I had to fill out reports. Also I wasted 2 hours one night because the guy must sign exactly like his I.D. signature and these 2 assholes couldn't! I blame the waitress because they've been specifically told not to even run a room if the guy seems to drunk. I'm sure it wasn't you they are owned by Dejavue, Huslter it's policy.
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ah. that explains alot then. They seemed all about it for that other girl though & his card got declined when they tried to run it for $2400 for the both of us. ugh sucked ass! Is myrtle strict like that in most of their clubs?
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No not at all. Infact me and another stripperwebber got 4000 each from a customer and they gave us more than half the money that night and the next I got the rest. The also don't care about the signature but most my guys there use the ATM so that helps.
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NICE!!! thanks alot I may just go there instead of returning to NOLA.. I've never worked up there before so it'd be an experience at that :) Is Thee Dollhouse a gown club?
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If you end up heading north through Indiana offer still stands for my club. I just went back Wednesday and it was decent. I'll let you know what the weekend looks like. It's not like a grand a night (unless you're the super hustler) but it seems like it's getting better.
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Aurora14
If you end up heading north through Indiana offer still stands for my club. I just went back Wednesday and it was decent. I'll let you know what the weekend looks like. It's not like a grand a night (unless you're the super hustler) but it seems like it's getting better.
thanks girl! I'm def gonna travel thru there if the north doesn't pan out. I'd love to see the midwest :)
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Anyone else have suggestions or ever go thru this?
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Stay in NOLA or go to Myrtle. NYC is too expensive and a lot of the philly girls travel here to work anyways. At least in Myrtle and NOla, you can get a cheap hotel with free parking.