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Hellppppp!!!!
Hi!
I am freaking out! I know this is my first post but I've been lurking on here for months. I love you guys by the ways. *cyber hug* Anyways I finally decided to try my luck as an independent escort, but SURPRISE I already MESSED UP. I was sending multiple emails between my work and personal email, and accidentally signed an inquiry with my real name. I'm so mortified! :-(
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Re: Hellppppp!!!!
It is ok. Don't multitask with business and personal. No damage control needed. It was have maybe been a situation if you emailed your mother and signed your working name. Slow down!
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you didn't sign your first and last did you?
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Hopefully you didn't sign your first and last, like BANHammerGoddess asked, but if you did it's not the end of the world. I once cancelled on a client last minute, but since I was right down the street he wanted to at least see my face and introduce himself (long story, don't ask), and when he said 'Hi, I'm *name*', I stupidly responded with my own name--and that was after multiple emails, so he obviously knew my working name and that I had just effed up. I stammered out some kind of gibberish about having used that name (my real name) in a different state, but the damage was done and I never saw him again. Ultimately, you could just admit to having used the wrong name, or you could pretend nothing happened. Up to you, but don't freak out yet!! I'm sure it will blow over. :)
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Smh I did in fact post my first and last name, and later on that night my laptop broke while I was replying to another email. I believe in signs and these are just not good! Thank you ladies for the support, I still haven't gotten a client, and I may stop now while I'm ahead. I just NEED the money!
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Are there no clubs in your area to start dancing? Just a thought ...
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I guess if he were to ask, you could say it was your old escort name, but that you are using this one now? Worth a try at least...I guess.
ETA: but yeah, dont stress... definitely not a good idea to multi-task biz / personal life stuff cause you're bound to mess up like that. Also, not sure how long you have been working, but it took me two weeks to get my first date, and another 2 weeks to get my second date.
I guess some ladies can jump right in and make bank, but more often than not, it takes some time for guys to warm up to TOFFT and to build up enough of a reputation to start drawing in regular business. So if you need fast money right now, escorting is likely not the best route to go. On top of which...this is def not something to do when your desperate for funds, because thats when bad choices are made that can put you in harms way.
Hope things start turning around for you!
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>this is def not something to do when your desperate for funds, because thats when bad choices are made that can put you in harms way.
Yep. There is a saying I heard in a casino once: Scared money doesn't win.
I think it applies to us as well. Desperation stinks and no one wants to be around it. ;-}
That said, take a deep breath, walk away from the computer, eat something healthy and get some sleep. You can tackle this tomorrow. Also, if it helps, a girl local to me put her hotel location and room number in her ad, then was *shocked* and *astounded* when she got robbed. THAT'S stupid. Signing your real name to your email isn't even in the same Universe.
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Make 2 more email accounts with 2 different names and just send him emails with all kinds of different names. Then he'll have no idea what your real name is. I'm not an escort, but I have a bunch of email accounts with all different names. Between dancing, selling nasty shoes, a brief and pathetic camming career, etc., I have a whole pile of aliases. I accidentally send people messages from the wrong one all the time. Sometimes it's awkward if I send my sister an email from [email protected]. But oh well.
Whatever you decide to do, I wouldn't stress too much. Most sex industry customers know we have a million names. I've got my stage name, my fake real name (which I use when guys INSIST on knowing my real name), my work nickname, my real nickname....
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Thank you ladies so much for the advice! Sorry it took so long for me to reply, you guys really helped me from having a mental breakdown
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I'm actually located about 40 min out of Atlanta, but the (3) clubs I tried weren't hiring and I was really stretching limited funds thin driving to speak to different managers and a lot of people who know of me &/or know me personally frequently visit the major black clubs here. Ugh I've now considered getting into camming until I can get off the ground with escorting. Sex work is an industry that I have been excited, but anxious about entering....it's completely different from my background and as you all are familiar with, I'd like to remain as anonymous as possible.
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Re: Hellppppp!!!!
try with bodywork I have been doing well avg 4-7 hundred a day and u don't even have to use anything other than your hands :)
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Is bodywork the name of the site?
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no .. body work is same as sensual touch ( body rubs) .
sessions can be outcalls or incalls . usually on a massage table
since u mentioned escorting I think u should look into that ..same money more or less but way less contact w the clients
if u want to start camming I d sign up with myfreecams or streamate
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the money in dancing has grown real thin imo.