Do you email the guy to figure out who it was when you get a bad review?
Somebody gave me a 5 in performance and gosh let me say how terrible I feel. Not only that, I just can't see myself acting not into sex during an appointment. The guy gave me the lowest score out of all the ladies he's reviewed so it looks even worse. I'm so frustrated because now nobody is going to book me and this came at a time when I'm not exactly making much money. I had to help my mom out with money this month so all I made to get 1/4 of my credit card paid off just went to her.
I dunno, should I email him to ask him who he is or is it rude? I just can't seem to think I'm that terrible. My rate is very fair too so I don't know why he needed to review me so harshly. He's even reviewed girls who aren't even from America and some only know a few words of English much higher than I. It makes me look even worse. I'm so sad, this has really ruined my day.
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Can you run his username through verifyhim? I think that would come back with an email.
Some of these guys are such jerks. Did you read WHY you got the five? I always think if you deserve it you deserve it. My first review ever gave me a 7 for looks. I wanted to chop my head off. I still managed and never got a 7 again. You will bounce back. As long as your other reviews are consistent.
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I think so long as you do it in a professional way, with an apology that you're sorry that he didn't enjoy himself, and you're wondering what went wrong--
see if he has any constructive criticism.
otherwise just chalk it up to not great chemistry.
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He told me I laid there during DATY and wasn't into it and gave a lackluster bbbj. The fuck!??! How much noise was he expecting me to make? I work in hotel rooms for many reasons and one of the reasons is because I am so loud. I would eventually get in trouble from the noise level if I were to work in an apartment. I do the same thing routine for everyone.
Gahhh I get so upset over reviews sometimes I end up taking my website down because I'm hanging on by a thread with just quitting this altogether and going to a strip club and "escorting" in a brothel type of club. SOOOOO done with reviews. But of course I make nothing without them. Ughhh I hate doing this so so so much and guys never are happy no matter what I do.
I just checked and his handle didn't come up on verifyhim. I just emailed him on TER but he hasn't responded back yet.
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crap. I'm sorry you're so frustrated. *hugs*
that's really shitty on his part. Sounds like you were noisy. Was he expecting some crazy porn star experience where you're literally tearing his and your hair out from his *coughmediocrecoughcough* oral skills?
I dunno how ya'll can stand it. I've gotten enough bad oral in my life from guys in my romantic life I don't think I could open myself up to douchbags like this.
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BANHammerGoddess
crap. I'm sorry you're so frustrated. *hugs*
that's really shitty on his part. Sounds like you were noisy. Was he expecting some crazy porn star experience where you're literally tearing his and your hair out from his *coughmediocrecoughcough* oral skills?
I dunno how ya'll can stand it. I've gotten enough bad oral in my life from guys in my romantic life I don't think I could open myself up to douchbags like this.
I would totally like to go back in time and rip his hair out because of his oral skills. Apparently that is the experience he wants and I would happily deliver at this point in time. LOL!!
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Maybe he hinted at BB and you told him hellll nah and he got pissed. What a jerk.
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strippername
Maybe he hinted at BB and you told him hellll nah and he got pissed. What a jerk.
I have no idea who he is though because his handle is not in my email records? He also said that I got naked while he took a shower. I always have the client undress me so I thought that was odd of him to write. If he doesn't respond to my PM on ter, will ter admin remove his review?
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he might be a faker faking a review.
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But he has a lot of reviews on ladies up until 2011 and then out of the blue he writes my review in 2013. Should I contact ter or wait a few days and then contact them?
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I'm not sure how TER works, but don't men get a free amount of time on TER with each review they write?
I think a friend of mine would do that-- write fake reviews because he wanted access to the members only section. so you might not have seen this guy at all.
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Sounds like he was out of the game for awhile and probably thought writing a recent (fake) review would help him get re-established in the hobbying world/on TER.
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^ I concur. You could always write TER and tell them this guy is a faker, but they tend to be bad about taking down false reviews.
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BANHammerGoddess
^ I concur. You could always write TER and tell them this guy is a faker, but they tend to be bad about taking down false reviews.
Yep I did email them but I'm sure they won't take it down. Admin is not a big fan of me at all. They refused to take down a very obvious fake review on me in the past and actually would ignore my emails to them. I am so burn out from escorting and stupid things like this make me want out even more. I would have a normal job if I made enough being a restaurant waitress but I have so many bills I now have to cover. Especially now that it's starting to look like I'm going to be paying my moms rent for a while.
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how much do you need to absolutely make in a week or a day on a consistent basis?
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6000 per month for all the bills including moms rent. Basically the car I bought during my break really screwed me over financially. My dad was threatening to report mine stolen and wouldn't send me my insurance papers (he had the car under his name and refused to put the car in my name) since we haven't been on speaking terms for a year. So thats where a lot of the money I saved up went and car insurance is pricey too.
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It might be good to supplement your income with dancing to relieve some of the burnout.. $6000 is not completely unachievable, you'd only have to make $250 about five days a week.
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It might be good to supplement your income with dancing to relieve some of the burnout.. $6000 is not completely unachievable, you'd only have to make $250 about five days a week.
I was considering going back to the club but my foot has never been the same since my foot surgery a year ago. Even wearing heels for 1-2 hour appointments is painful. Since my toe now can't fully bend in heels it makes it painful to step with my left foot. I would do massage but of course I crushed my finger in a door 2 weeks ago and I'm not sure if I broke the finger or not. Fun times for me right now lol.
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TER makes it so that it's possible to post under alias. I would email him personally asking. "Sorry I did not give the performance you wanted, I didn't do this and this because of this and this". Be honest, apologetic, ask what you can do to fix it. TER admin isn't very helpful, just curious, do you have a paid account with them? I was thinking maybe I just got treated like shit by them because I was a free member.
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91ShadesofGrey
TER makes it so that it's possible to post under alias. I would email him personally asking. "Sorry I did not give the performance you wanted, I didn't do this and this because of this and this". Be honest, apologetic, ask what you can do to fix it. TER admin isn't very helpful, just curious, do you have a paid account with them? I was thinking maybe I just got treated like shit by them because I was a free member.
Yep I've always had a paid account with them. I did end up contacting the guy on ter asking for his first name and email address to verify who he is and he never responded back. Surprise Surprise. If ter doesn't respond back to my message or try to resolve this problem I will know exactly who set this situation up. I just went through this with my last persona.