BDSM/Fetish Camgirls-What works for you? Tips and advice.
Hey ladies! I hope you're all well and meeting targets or "banking" being the common phrase I've picked up!;D
I recently started offering "Alternative" services on AW and I regret not doing so earlier. I prefer it to vanilla camming where Andy wants to jerk off before his sexually frustrated wife comes back from her temp job.
This is because
-I dont need to take off my clothes
-Play with dildos
-Pretend I'm turned on
and I make a hell of a lot more money. I get longer bookings too averaging to about at least 15 minutes so its not those callers that are 2 minutes on the verge of cumming that call me and hang up so abruptly. Subs are polite and compliant, they want to go through the motions of being flaccid to cumming due to domination. Naturally I stretch out this process as long as possible. 1 guy alone spent 100 pounds in one night.
Let me not lie ladies
At first I just wanted to expand my market but I'm fascinated with the bdsm community and fetishes. Dominating subs has come oh so naturally to me due to my creative dark and twisted mind! I love giving out tasks and watching men perform them on skype or hear them squeal with illicit pain. Its so empowering and has done a lot for my self esteem
Due to the hostility to "commercial" adult entertainers on BDSM websites like CollarMe and Fetlife I no longer bother advertising my paid services full guns blazing. I ask online subs to submit pictures of themselves performing my depraved tasks and getting them to label themselves with my handle. Ill use the pics to make blogs/erotica on AWand twitter updates to draw in clientele. Just makes me more legit and I'm learning a lot from these lifestyle subs. A few of them use AW and have asked for my link! 8)
I love camming now! Its no longer a chore to make money that I need, I like what I'm doing and its flooding in yay me haha.
online dommes/switches/subs that cater to BDSM:
-What tasks do you do/like if any?
-Whats your method/approach?
-What are your kink specialties?ie are you better at cum eating commands than forced anal play
ALSO A BIG QUESTION I HAVE:
How the HELL do I deal with female subs/switches? Like I'm lost completely I've got a few sissy sluts wishing to serve me on Fetlife (I'm offering free tasks and short skype sessions in exch for pictures/videos) but I have no idea how to start or what to say:-X
Plus I know this may sound sexist but I wouldnt like to extenuate a females subs lack of self esteem....
For those of you who like BDSM but dont necc use it as their niche online, or do real time what practices can be modified for a virtual exp?
Looking forward to seeing your responses ladies.}:D
Re: BDSM/Fetish Camgirls-What works for you? Tips and advice.
Oh I specialize in sph,forced-bi, and sissy training. I also dabble in race play with limitations. I do a few other things but those are my favorites.
As a real time domme in a long term relationship with a woman who is a switch I'll answer your question about female subs, you say the same things you would to a male. You aren't contributing to anyone's lack of self-esteem, most submissives I know do NOT lack in that department, regardless of sex or gender. I know that for many reasons some dommes are just uncomfortable with same sex subs, if you are then politely refuse them.
Every submissive is an individual and while there are broad similarities if you keep the individual in mind, learn their triggers and get into their head you'll do well.
Read, read, and read some more. You clearly have an interest in kink never stop learning, pursue the the kinks and fetishes that light your fire, and have fun.
PS There are fetlife groups for pro-dommes.
Re: BDSM/Fetish Camgirls-What works for you? Tips and advice.
Whatever the customer wants to buy from me is how I act. It takes time to see what is popular with you. Your customer base will choose it for you (well, if you want to make the most money possible).
Re: BDSM/Fetish Camgirls-What works for you? Tips and advice.
Sissy sluts are generally guys wanting to be feminized. Women rarely pay to be dominated, but as stated above by Rina, you treat them the same as you would a male sub.
I am on collarme and regularly post on the forums. Everyone knows I am pro (but I was there before I went pro, so maybe received more acceptance than the average girl who is *only* there to make money would.) There are also groups in fetlife you can join for pro-domming, phone sex, etc. Look into them. I have gotten customers (and lots of fun ideas!) off of both sites.
Re: BDSM/Fetish Camgirls-What works for you? Tips and advice.
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Re: BDSM/Fetish Camgirls-What works for you? Tips and advice.
As a female submissive both on cam and in real time, I can tell you that I and most of my female submissive friends do not at ALL suffer from self esteem issues. Most of us are pretty damn self confident which is probably why you don't get a lot of women paying to be dominated. I actually see more male submissives with self esteem/confidence issues than I do women.
As for what female submissives are looking for it's honestly very different for everyone. I know that on cam I end up playing the role of the slut/whore being humiliated because guys will pay to be able to talk to me like that. Submitting is how I make my biggest money. Most guys want to give it to me rough. Girls who do go online looking to be dominated seem to be looking for this type of play. Sometimes you'll get masochists who want instructions on how to inflict pain on themselves. Also, a lot of female submissives are very into orgasm control and denial. I had a guy have me tape a vibrator to my clit, turn it on high, and then he told me I wasn't allowed to cum. He basically just wanted me to beg him to let me cum and as a female submissive I get off on that shit lol.