-
Re: I know these sugar daddy sites don't have the best reputations, but...
I went on sa.com last night. I have an old profile but am thinking of making a new one. and I don't like that you can only put $5,000-$10,000, more than $10,000 or negotiable (only naming these cause those are the ones I consider). It puts you in a category, I feel like it would be better if you had the option to use multiple... How do you guys handle that?
-
Re: I know these sugar daddy sites don't have the best reputations, but...
I don't know about this particular site, but beware. Most do not verify financial information. I know this because I had browsed locals on one of these sites and came across a guy that I personally knew who lived in the projects, with 3-4 kids and no job. He took some pics of himself in "upscale" clothing and proclaimed to make 800k a year and then some. His pitch was that he would reimburse his sugar baby to fly out to see him after he met her to make sure she was the real deal. Pos would not even hold down a job to support his kids, so be very careful!
-
Re: I know these sugar daddy sites don't have the best reputations, but...
I have been looking into this online sugar daddy thing too, how did your experience end up going?
-
Re: I know these sugar daddy sites don't have the best reputations, but...
Allow for me to talk about financial arrangements.com and there are tons of spenda daddies on this site. However, I did receive some good offers but I am still looking :)
-
Re: I know these sugar daddy sites don't have the best reputations, but...
Anyone had any luck with getting them to pay you a deposit before your first meet? I tried that with a supposed millionaire from seekingarrangement and he got all psychotic on me. Honestly having a FREE socially awkward conversation in public with a random dude older than my dad "to see if we have chemistry" makes me cringe...
At least if you're dancing or escorting it's easier to charge a "social donation"
-
Re: I know these sugar daddy sites don't have the best reputations, but...
^^ugh, none of these guys have done this for me, I've tried the site also and they all say the wanna meet to c about "chemistry" first. Thats bs tho, I bet the girls who actually go for it almost always end up disappointed, they just want a free date or cheap hooker. I was banned from the site too, they said they detected fraud in my account. Im guessing cause I signed up with my stripper name, not my real one but really who would sign up with a real name, theres all kinds of psychos on that site.
-
Re: I know these sugar daddy sites don't have the best reputations, but...
Quote:
Originally Posted by
DonaDiabla
Allow for me to talk about financial arrangements.com and there are tons of spenda daddies on this site. However, I did receive some good offers but I am still looking :)
This one makes you pay for a membership right?
-
Re: I know these sugar daddy sites don't have the best reputations, but...
Quote:
Originally Posted by
DonaDiabla
Allow for me to talk about financial arrangements.com and there are tons of spenda daddies on this site. However, I did receive some good offers but I am still looking :)
This one makes you pay for a membership right?
-
Re: I know these sugar daddy sites don't have the best reputations, but...
Ava$, you do not have to pay to join financial arrangements.com
Quote:
Originally Posted by
ava$
This one makes you pay for a membership right?
-
Re: I know these sugar daddy sites don't have the best reputations, but...
No, I know u don't have to pay but you have to pay to reply to their messages, right?
-
Re: I know these sugar daddy sites don't have the best reputations, but...
I don't think you can fault the men for not wanting to pay before a meet. Every girl would just make them pay and never show.
-
Re: I know these sugar daddy sites don't have the best reputations, but...
^^Thats y a man who can't afford to make this gamble shouldn't be on a sugar daddy site, he should be on match.com or just call an escort.
-
Re: I know these sugar daddy sites don't have the best reputations, but...
I don't think it's about being able to afford it or not, it's more that the website won't work because no girl would go on dates, they'd just get all the guys to pay and leave them high and dry. I guess we'll have to agree to disagree though.
-
Re: I know these sugar daddy sites don't have the best reputations, but...
Ava$, you do not have to pay to apply to their messages either. It is totally free...I believe :)
Here is the link below:
http://www.financialarrangement.com/
Quote:
Originally Posted by
ava$
No, I know u don't have to pay but you have to pay to reply to their messages, right?
-
Re: I know these sugar daddy sites don't have the best reputations, but...
I could not agree with you more :)
Quote:
Originally Posted by
ava$
^^Thats y a man who can't afford to make this gamble shouldn't be on a sugar daddy site, he should be on match.com or just call an escort.
-
Re: I know these sugar daddy sites don't have the best reputations, but...
ava i think youre thinking about sudardaddie.com
you have to pay to read and reply to messages on that one
i paid for a month and i found the guys on there to be much more genuine than on seeking arrangement
-
Re: I know these sugar daddy sites don't have the best reputations, but...
@newb2, I agree, a lot of girls may just get all the guys to pay and then leave um high and dry but if your really in this to bank you won't, I would go out with the guys who paid me well before the meeting cause I know thats just the beginning of the payments to come, I would make much more off these guys and therefore it would make me wanna go. I am just not gonna be motivated to go out on any date with one of these sd if they have not paid. And yea I did join that sugardaddie.com too but didn't pay so it didn't work. I pretty much got time wasters on sa.com
@donadiabla, I will have to check the site out, I thought it looked like one Im already on, like millionareforme or something which you have to pay to respond. Thanks girl
-
Re: I know these sugar daddy sites don't have the best reputations, but...
@newb2, I agree, a lot of girls may just get all the guys to pay and then leave um high and dry but if your really in this to bank you won't, I would go out with the guys who paid me well before the meeting cause I know thats just the beginning of the payments to come, I would make much more off these guys and therefore it would make me wanna go. I am just not gonna be motivated to go out on any date with one of these sd if they have not paid. And yea I did join that sugardaddie.com too but didn't pay so it didn't work. I pretty much got time wasters on sa.com
@donadiabla, I will have to check the site out, I thought it looked like one Im already on, like millionareforme or something which you have to pay to respond. Thanks girl
-
Re: I know these sugar daddy sites don't have the best reputations, but...
Seeking Arrangements is filled with frauds. I warned my bff about that site, bc she had a profile. She met up with a guy from there at a restaurant to see if there was "chemistry", his words. It turned out to be a waste of time, of course. As i suspected at first.
He told her he has no intention of taking care of girls financially, that his good looks should be suffice rather than being with an old fat man. He told her he's on there , bc the women are hot.
She ripped him a new one.
-
Re: I know these sugar daddy sites don't have the best reputations, but...
^^LMAO!! I hope she did, what a fuckin douch!!
-
Re: I know these sugar daddy sites don't have the best reputations, but...
I always pay $200.00 for the initial meet and greet lunch. I also specify no sex, just talk so we both approach the lunch a little bit more relaxed. No one has asked me for a deposit before meeting and I would be reluctant to do it. I do agree that, based on the conversations I've had with some potential Sugar Babies, that many Men on the SD/SB sites are more like Sugar Free Daddies rather than the real thing.
-
Re: I know these sugar daddy sites don't have the best reputations, but...
I just wanted to add that even though I've never have any experience with the sugar daddy sites directly --- I do know of men who have joined those sites looking.
One of the men I know stated his reasons for using the site was for 'cheaper sex than visiting an escort with younger and less experienced women with the bonus of getting more a girlfriend experience'.
Just sayin'
-
Re: I know these sugar daddy sites don't have the best reputations, but...
I can answer that one. I have one pay me an deposit before we met on financial arrangements.com but after he send me the money....he never showed up for our date. Weird :) Anyways, seekingarrangements.com have such weird ass guys on that site.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
workngirl2014
Anyone had any luck with getting them to pay you a deposit before your first meet? I tried that with a supposed millionaire from seekingarrangement and he got all psychotic on me. Honestly having a FREE socially awkward conversation in public with a random dude older than my dad "to see if we have chemistry" makes me cringe...
At least if you're dancing or escorting it's easier to charge a "social donation"
-
Re: I know these sugar daddy sites don't have the best reputations, but...
I signed up for sugar daddy sites when I got suspended from my club during the summer. Here were my experiences:
First guy wanted me to drive up to his house twice a week to go out to dinner with him, have sex and spend the night with him for a whopping $1400 a month. I told him I'm sorry but after doing the math, he's asking for too much for too little. Waste of time.
Second guy was good looking and by far the best. Gave me $700 just to hang out with Him. We hung out once more after that but he admitted that he had money but wasn't as big as a high roller as he made himself out to be. That was disappointing.
Third guy was a foot surgeon. Told me I would never have anything to worry about as long as I'm with him. Then he told me about how he took care of the last girl who would travel from CT to NY to see him. He took care of her by paying for a business class train ride; all this time I'm thinking to myself, that train ride isn't taking care of her. I would have taken him more seriously if he handed me some money for my time that day. I managed get him to visit me at this other club I was working at just to compensate for that waste of time date I had to endure.
Fourth guy was my last straw. Told me he would give me a couple of hundreds if I drove up to him to hang and get to know one another, I agreed. Drove 40 minutes and spent 4 hours when I told him I'm leaving he hands me $200. I'm like excuse me you said you would give me a couple hundreds. Fucker had the balls to tell me a couple was $200 but he can make it $400 if I blew him. I had to threaten him in order to get at least another $100. So I left with $300 but wasn't worth the trouble I went though to get it. Even had the balls to tell me that I shouldn't be as greedy as I am; instead I should be patient because one day he may be the one to make me rich. Im Sorry but I'm not going to stick by a cheap selfish fuck.
The guys who were legit and willing to spend the most money were a combination of old, fat and just plain disgusting just to be seen with, let alone have sex with; so I never even bothered to reply since I knew I wouldn't be able to stomach them.
So overall, the majority of the messages I got were from men who don't want to pay escort prices for sex; instead they want to pay a naive girl degrading prices. I'm so glad I'm not suspended at my club anymore. Sugar daddy websites are time consuming and can be a complete waste of time. Its also draining and I got a bit depressed after a couple of dates.
-
Re: I know these sugar daddy sites don't have the best reputations, but...
Quote:
Originally Posted by
kassie
So overall, the majority of the messages I got were from men who don't want to pay escort prices for sex; instead they want to pay a naive girl degrading prices. .
Pretty much sums up the game. I've been a sugar baby for close to 2 years now and was very naive and ignorant to the game when I first started. Although I have a great SD there were a lot of financial bumps in the road (him wanting the GFE without forking over GFE rates.) It took the risk of me close to ending our arrangement for him to finally start compensating me fairly. But in my case, my SD is helping me career-wise so there are the pros and cons.
On that note, I suggest any SB to find a potential who works in a field they are interested in pursuing or someone who genuinely cares to help you reach your financial/ business goals. And online sites are a crap shoot.