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This loser today says hell give me 250/visit includes dinner and private time later at his house and I say "your not looking for an sb your looking for a cheap escort" and his response was "some girls have a very high expectation of what an sb is, good luck" LMAo, What a fuckin loser! Yea its hard to find a winner on these sites, very hard. Full of cheap losers
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^^^^ Been there! Word of advice, never do more than 3 email exchanges with a potential. Otherwise, he's not serious.
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UGH! I've been searching for a good, genuine SD for about a month now. I'm on SA, SD.com, and quite a few others. It is SO hard when you are blatant about your refusal to have sex. I still think it's better to be up front though, as it's better to get maybe 1 good prospect a week as opposed to 50 people wanting something you aren't willing to do.
What I am constantly finding though, is people just do not READ my profile, so they STILL ask for sex. OR they are so obvious in their manipulation to GET sex from me. I've had one guy sending me 2 messages a day saying he wants to cuddle and reassure me and comfort me. From what!?? I don't need comfort from someone I don't even know! lol.
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Attention:Ladies be aware of Ariani Daniels he drugs and rapes women his profile is listed on seeking arrangements he is actually not a sugardaddy at all he is charming so he will act calm and collected but not at all he is
A human sex trafficker , I called local authorities and he is under investigation i almost lost my life .
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Oh, sorry that happened! Take care.
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Thanks just warning ladies in vegas area using s.a.
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are you a member of VH? - if not you need to be ASAP - pm me if you need details - so sorry love
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k.redd
Attention:Ladies be aware of Ariani Daniels he drugs and rapes women his profile is listed on seeking arrangements he is actually not a sugardaddy at all he is charming so he will act calm and collected but not at all he is
A human sex trafficker , I called local authorities and he is under investigation i almost lost my life .
Thank you for sharing. Please be careful.
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I hate dealing with those sites, so I only log in every once in a blue moon when I'm bored to "find" dudes who post shit like:
"With that said, I will not be treated like an ATM, I prefer to be wanted than needed. If your expectation is to meet and play then please do not waste my time. I seek a friend first and foremost, a lover and confidant secondly. I do not need your drama, nor do I care for your hardluck story. If you cannot maintain simple things in your life there is no way for you to assure me you can maintain this type of relationship. I expect honesty in your situation and in our interactions. If this can not be done please move along."
Wow, if he don't want to be treated like an ATM, go elsewhere! SA is for arrangements! If he wants some ass on the side, he can go to Ashley Madison, or to Craigslist.
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^^^^^^^^^ x2
I had a old motherfucker email me 3 fucking times yesterday and I didn't even bother to respond. If I didn't know any better, I would have thought this was Eharmony; "looking for love" on a sugardaddy website...really? He messaged me that he's looking for a live in girlfriend "who isn't afraid of hard work" and that he wants her to work in his office and this would be a unpaid arrangement because this would be out of love. Then he went about how I was perfect and told me to give him a number he could reach me at. Took me a lot not to respond on how pathetic I think he is.
And today I got a guy offering me 2k per week. I'm not naīve' as I once was, so I started asking him questions by phone. A medical researcher doesn't make 2k per week, let alone be able to afford forking it over. Then he tells me that he will give me $500 just for dinner and if I choose to go back home with him, I will get the full 2k. Then he tells me "when you get to dinner, you are not to wear any panties" he said that shit in a degrading and demanding tone, I told that fucker I'm speechless in a sarcastic tone and he goes "oh, is that going to be a problem" as if he had power over me. I laughed and hung the phone up in his face. A real sugardaddy treats his sugarbaby with respect. I find this shit to be amusing at this point.
I also was back and forth messaging with a guy who had a user name "Max" who claimed his name was Peter but was trying to be discreet (that's understandable), then he messaged me by phone "hey, this is Todd"...he ended up trying to cover up his lies saying that his friends call him Todd... glad he did that, for I can just cut my loss right then and there, after hours of back and forth messaging...ugh Lots of fucking games that I do not wish to play. This is the internet, where you can be whoever you want to be and unfortunately, that privilege is abused tremendously on the site.
On the bright side, I did manage to land a nice sugar daddy who gives me $750 a week allowance (weither I see him that week or not) and he buys me lavish gifts and most importantly treats me with respect. I actually enjoy being with him and he's very attractive. Took me about a month to land him. its definitely a lot of time, effort, mental energy, frustration and weeding out to do; but I'm just happy I have found one good one in a deep sea of losers. I want another one, but I'm seriously exhausted from the new messages and wasting my time on that site.
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You know what's funny (on a lighter note) a LOT of these guys are just social retarded, whether they realize it or not. Some are just born with terrible personalities and some have been married so long to one woman they have literally forgotten how to talk to other women.
Not making excuses for them, just trying to explain some of the inane things they say and do.
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Check out my latest message.
Message:
Hi, I'm a dominant married man looking for a very passionate woman to see on a long term basis. I can offer you $600 per month or $150 per week. Would you like to get to know one another?
Lol, I guess you're right as in they don't realize how ridiculous they sound. Lord give me patience. I'm gonna need me a nice glass of wine after this.
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LOL :) Those are the type of offers you get in high school :)
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Originally Posted by
kassie
Check out my latest message.
Message:
Hi, I'm a dominant married man looking for a very passionate woman to see on a long term basis. I can offer you $600 per month or $150 per week. Would you like to get to know one another?
Lol, I guess you're right as in they don't realize how ridiculous they sound. Lord give me patience. I'm gonna need me a nice glass of wine after this.
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Im on sugardaddyforme, which obviously is filled with a bunch of guys looking for discount dinner dates with overnight sex involved, along with some hopeless romantics... Anyways, I normally log in with my iPad but used my laptop today instead. My god, I was bombarded with video IM request from these fake ass sugar daddies. I declined all of them so fast like nope nope nope nope!
Why the hell would I want to video chat with some random ugly ass dude who lives far as fuck from me? These guys are sick in the head. I'm willing to bet that they sit there searching for hours just hoping some naive girl will click accept, so that their cheap asses could hopefully slick their way into some free webcam action. They don't want to pay webcam models because they're BROKE and these are the guys that can't fork over $5.99 a minute and are claiming to be sugar daddies...good grief.
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SnuffleUffleGrass
You know what's funny (on a lighter note) a LOT of these guys are just social retarded, whether they realize it or not. Some are just born with terrible personalities and some have been married so long to one woman they have literally forgotten how to talk to other women.
Not making excuses for them, just trying to explain some of the inane things they say and do.
Snuffle i absolutely could not agree with this anymore. Its a common thread ive noticed amongst many "sds". Theres one in particular that i dont want to see anymore because he has absolutely no sense of what to say in front of a woman and so much of what he has said to me has been an epic fail that i cant even decide what makes my stomach turn more....his face....or the stupid shit that comes out of his mouth (i dont bone him but still). Even his compliments are backwards. I swear i can hear tires screech and me doing multiple facepalms everytime he speaks. Needless to say ive refrained from contacting him whether i need money or not.
Theres another guy off the site ive been seeing on and off for years but the more i spent time with him the more i was repelled by him as a person and decided he has a couple screws loose. Hard to carry on when you have disgust for these guys
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I have to say that SA is a huge disappointment for me. I have been a SB since I was 19...(i'm 43) except for the 8 years I was with my soon-to-be ex husband. I always found them in the club when I was dancing. Then "in their natural environment" after I quit dancing. ie.....expensive bars and restaurants by high priced office buildings. I have never had sex with my SD. The current one though, I picked back up from before the husband.....now he's getting up there and wants a more serious arrangement. I'm kinda hanging on to him till I can find a replacement. The relationship definitely has a shelf life. So I went on SA and all these pigs want is sex! When did it turn to this? I have not done much communicating with any of them as I am just in shock! Just reading their profiles make me cringe. A few are listed as making less then $100,000 and are married....how much do you really have to spend on me? This just completely blows my mind! I can't see this as actually working. It seems like a time waster to me.
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These sites are pretty much a joke anyway. Like the guy who ran sowet. He just got busted by CBI here and is going to jail for a decade.
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& On a sinister note, I need to remind ladies that some of these guys just have poor character (like pathological lying, or basic sociopathy) & their marriages failed for pretty understandable reasons. You *must* remember that people who are deeply personality disordered don't feel as if they are "wrong" or "bad"- the way they are is normal to them. So when you waste time on telling some of these guys off, they either 1) enjoy it b/c they are attention whores for ANY attention from a woman, whether it be good or bad attention OR 2) they don't hear your complaints- they have already prejudged you as inferior and stupid so your anger/unhappiness is the same as listening to a barking Chihuahana dog to them.
I mentioned it in another thread that I am having some harrassment issues from my last sugardaddy- he is just deeply troubled and obviously irrational. I never cheated him but in his mind he feels justified in trying to bother me...for whatever fucked up reason he is rationalizing his actions with....
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Addison Lynne
I have to say that SA is a huge disappointment for me. I have been a SB since I was 19...(i'm 43) except for the 8 years I was with my soon-to-be ex husband. I always found them in the club when I was dancing. Then "in their natural environment" after I quit dancing. ie.....expensive bars and restaurants by high priced office buildings. I have never had sex with my SD. The current one though, I picked back up from before the husband.....now he's getting up there and wants a more serious arrangement. I'm kinda hanging on to him till I can find a replacement. The relationship definitely has a shelf life. So I went on SA and all these pigs want is sex! When did it turn to this? I have not done much communicating with any of them as I am just in shock! Just reading their profiles make me cringe. A few are listed as making less then $100,000 and are married....how much do you really have to spend on me? This just completely blows my mind! I can't see this as actually working. It seems like a time waster to me.
lol, I saw some with profiles saying they make 80-100k too, like thats just enough money to get by for me but how are they on an sd site, I am thinking this site is actually for prostitutes now that I've experienced them myself. Like girls that charge 300/an hour for sex, Ive had many offers like that… I tell them they want a hooker, not an SB!
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Originally Posted by
Addison Lynne
I have to say that SA is a huge disappointment for me. I have been a SB since I was 19...(i'm 43) except for the 8 years I was with my soon-to-be ex husband. I always found them in the club when I was dancing. Then "in their natural environment" after I quit dancing. ie.....expensive bars and restaurants by high priced office buildings. I have never had sex with my SD. The current one though, I picked back up from before the husband.....now he's getting up there and wants a more serious arrangement. I'm kinda hanging on to him till I can find a replacement. The relationship definitely has a shelf life. So I went on SA and all these pigs want is sex! When did it turn to this? I have not done much communicating with any of them as I am just in shock! Just reading their profiles make me cringe. A few are listed as making less then 0,000 and are married....how much do you really have to spend on me? This just completely blows my mind! I can't see this as actually working. It seems like a time waster to me.
And the worst part is that the majority of the "serious sd's" are willing to fork over 2k monthly max. They expect you to stay overnight every week and want sex. For $500 a week, it's not worth it. And even those who do make 300k salary can't afford to take care of his sugar baby. They often have a wife, kids, mortgages to take care of and trust me, that shit burns a hole in your wallet. This last potential sugar daddy I met was in that range and was telling me that his daughter was turning 16 years old and he had to buy her a brand new car; while he wanted to give me a mere $500 per week for dating and overnight stays, that's fucking insulting.
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Originally Posted by
kassie
And the worst part is that the majority of the "serious sd's" are willing to fork over 2k monthly max. They expect you to stay overnight every week and want sex. For $500 a week, it's not worth it. And even those who do make 300k salary can't afford to take care of his sugar baby. They often have a wife, kids, mortgages to take care of and trust me, that shit burns a hole in your wallet. This last potential sugar daddy I met was in that range and was telling me that his daughter was turning 16 years old and he had to buy her a brand new car; while he wanted to give me a mere $500 per week for dating and overnight stays, that's fucking insulting.
Yeah my first wanna-be sugardaddy was cheap and very gross, but he told me during a date that he was paying to send his daughter to a very expensive private university (one of the most famous ones in my state.) It was really offensive to hear that- like, dude...either accept your lot in life & prioritize your spending, or do more for me since you can have intimacy with ME but not your daughter obviously. (BTW it was all a moot point because the guy was so disgusting in hygiene and behavior that I cut ties with him as fast as possible, even telling my agency boss not to send me to see him.)
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SnuffleUffleGrass
Yeah my first wanna-be sugardaddy was cheap and very gross, but he told me during a date that he was paying to send his daughter to a very expensive private university (one of the most famous ones in my state.) It was really offensive to hear that- like, dude...either accept your lot in life & prioritize your spending, or do more for me since you can have intimacy with ME but not your daughter obviously. (BTW it was all a moot point because the guy was so disgusting in hygiene and behavior that I cut ties with him as fast as possible, even telling my agency boss not to send me to see him.)
If a beautiful lady is taking the time out of her life to provide a lonely man with the intimacy and excitement that he desperately craves in his over worked, dull and miserable life, then she deserves to be cared for just as much as his spoiled brat of a child who does nothing but drain his fucking wallet and who will soon be an adult, leave him while his ass pays for her expensive ass tuition and send her money. Last time I checked, you can't bring back your sanity once it's gone but you can prevent it from going away. We are providing an escape and saving them from going insane, while their family are doing quite the opposite. Fine, whatever floats your boats you cheap selfish fuck. Keep spending that money on the reason for your miserable ass life; I wont be catering to your needs.
Also, Bad hygiene and behavior is absolutely disgusting. Some guys think that just because they're giving us money that it's okay to be a complete pig, well it's not. That same sugar daddy I was speaking of looked completely different from his picture. Nice tanned man with a hairless body and full head of hair in the picture, turned out to be a pale, hair sticking out of his shirt which he should have transferred to his receding hairline. Unbelievable.
I read that allowances should not be discussed before meeting for the first date but I think that rule needs to be changed considering the overwhelming amount of cheap asses on the site. Man I'm so sick of it all.
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The other truth about the world of rich men and women is- "money only marries other money." Wealthy men often marry women from similar backgrounds, or women who "fit in" to the rich man's world. (In the case of footballers/athlete wives..women who will be totally subservient to the husband's cash cow career.)
I saw this myself when I got to crash The Four Seasons hotel- a lot of the dinner date girls there with guys of all ages were not all "lookers" but the girls had the air of snobbery/easy life about them. I got to eat breakfast with a super rich housewife from a nearby state & she was obviously well-cared for (giant diamond ring & not a care in the world.) IMO rich douchebags are looking for a very specific type of woman to get married to....all other women are playthings and arm candy.
I truly hate to quote Charlie Sheen but it's true "Men don't pay women for sex, they pay them to leave." Your fees are what you are collecting for the time a guy "rents" you.
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I have a sweet story to share with you ladies. I have officially given up at finding a second sugar daddy. I fear that I will kill the next narcissistic scum bag who waste my time, I have no patience left. It’s all gone.
So, I met up with a quality guy who is successful and gets to travel the world, even had pictures to prove. Claimed to be generous. Well his idea of generous turned out to be offering an expensive dinner, $500 overnight stays every time he comes to NYC (which is once a month) and paying for all of all of my travel expensive each time I accompany him. I fail to see how I would benefit from being a cheap escort and traveling anywhere with someone who I don’t like for free. Fuck outta here. I became officially infuriated that a rich guy would use his wealth to lure hot girls in, only to offer chump change.
Fed up, I snatched his phone, and stormed out. At first he tried to give me $40 to give him back the phone, I said I don’t want your chump change, I’m sick of guys like you who think it’s okay to take advantage of girls. He then tried blocking me but was stopped by a couple of guys who thought I was being harassed. I was able to get out and threw his precious phone in a bush a few blocks away. Too many girls on the site losing their hope, sanity and precious time on the site by these scum of the earth, it’s about time one of them pays a price. I don’t feel bad at all. I hope I traumatized his bitch ass…
Good sugar daddy sites...you will not be missed
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I did the SD sites for awhile and basically most of the guys there are scam artists, manipulative, lying, cheats. I did SD4Me and did the c2c thing and never came across a naked guy. Problem is they're all trying to run game that is so outdated they all sound dumb. One guy I chatted with was pretty comfortable, sending his daugthers onto prestigious universities. Problem was he was already on MFC not spending shit. There was a forum where guys would get posted and this MFC guy was all over it. I'm just glad I never met him. Everything is about how to get over and spend nothing or chump change. I was surprised thinking it's not like the guy doesn't have the money but when you think about ugly and out of shape you'll come across a guy that would love if hot women would give him the time of day without the money,
Even my big spenders on MFC all went the same way. First they wanted to impress me with their money and got a high off of seeing my reaction. What eventually happens is that money spending no longer feels good for them so the reverse happens. "How much time and attention can I get and not spend anything". Anytime I had a big spender they always end up coming back to collect 10 times whatever they give though stupid long drawn out speeches of "dinner with them" bullshit or they're whining about loveless marriage crap "ie she will not fuck me with good reason", Another thing is lies. The most annoying thing I hate Is when they lie and you catch them up in their bullshit and then they keep coming back to correct the memory that you clearly have of what was said.
So I hung out on SD for a few years just to see and most of those men are JOHNS. Yes even on escort boards they talk about how they can get unprotected sex for under $600 for a month with some young naive woman that doesn't know any better. Even one guy said it perfectly. HE said I can pay less for them because they are so scarred of being called whores which just means more money in my pocked and more sex. An escort has her hourly rate and that's it. No sitting on the phone listening to some John's problems. If he's not booking he needs to get on.
There were other guys on SD sites that I know sit on cam sites. One guy makes less than 30k a year , out of shape nasty looking and stutters so bad that he actually stutters when he types. Yeah thought that was a speech issue but apparently not. He's one of those spends $2 tip and keeps pushing his email in chat. I actually had to block that loser.
I remember an old guy sitting in his "study" offering me $600 with a smirk on his face. I told him that would never work and at the time I was doing pretty damn well with cam. He does this weird smirk smile shit and says oooh welll. I also told him you're out of the age range I would ever consider. Like seriously you're sitting there old as dirt offering me lunch money? He even said some stupid line of mentoring. I thought ooh what field and he's like ooh no I'd mentor you in sex. PFFT! Dumbass you don't even know to have sex with women born in 1918. Get out! Ohh and he told me his last sb had too many guys around. I told him well exactly since you don't have enough she has to be with other men to compensate for what you lack. Be cheap get cheap.
Most of these men are all playing the odds and it's fun for them because where else are they going to get this kind of attention?
Also flying to meet some asshole on your dime? Nope. There was a guy on SA that would have women fly to him and then meet them in a hotel, fuck them and then say "ooh I'll get the money out of my car". Vrrrrrrrrrrrrrooooom off he went leaving that girl behind. Many of those girls were trapped desperately trying to figure out a way to get home.
Others? Rape rape rape. One well know sugar baby on one of the SD blogs talked about how she got into the hotel with the guy he pushed her down raped her and thew $100 on the bed and left. Yup. The $100 was his " If you tell the police I'll just tell them you were a hooker".
Another sb wrote about how the guy said he'd give her $1000 if she's just make it to him. He couldn't even go pick her up but instead she was on some train bus, walking for mile shit only to be given something like $50.
There are so many horror stories that I never met any of these men face to face. One tried to rush me and said " well you come over and we get to know each other, hurry up because I don't have all time". I did the "fuck you loser click".
One year I did speak to some men that appeared better one guy was way too arrogant for my taste so I knew I wouldn't be able to stand him. Another Diamond Daddy contacted me with this weird "what's the weather like I'm flying in on my private jet" crap. I thought you have to be a serious loser if you logged into SA just to ask a SB that question. Fail.
Another was seriously cute. I thought hmm seems rather young but he was pretty clear that he didn't have any money but joined the site to fuck hot women when they got tired of screwing ugly old men. Seems like he's the after dinner mint on a pillow. lol
All of what I see on SD sites is the same exact behavior I see on cam sites. The cons, games, scams. It's worse because you're in person meeting men that in many cases has just a few hundred to hand. Sure it's in some sense tax free because no one knows you met Igor but the frustration and the back and forth seems time consuming.