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Accidentally on purpose hurting customers...
So the other night I was doing a private dance for this fella. He was being really handsy, and I kept moving his hands away, reminding him the rules (no kitty, no boobies). While I was straddling him, face forward and kind of blowing on his ear, he full on grabbed my boob. I wish I would say what happened next was entirely an accident, but I'm not really sure to be honest. I felt a huge rush of annoyance and bit down on his earlobe. Hard. I didn't draw blood, but he definitely made a noise and jerked away (also released my boob). He was pretty drunk so I don't think he processed it entirely, though he did make a comment later about it. Anyway, I felt sort of bad mostly because I wanted him to spend more money, but also like he deserved it, and I was really annoyed dancing for him anyway. He came back another night, more sobar, and was totally terrified of me, which I found quite delightful actually...
I was curious if anyone else had stories (or even suggestions) about those kind of accidental moments when you've injured a customer and how you've played it off or laughed about it.
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Yep I did something similar just last week! A fat old Santa Claus looking business man was sitting at the bar. I went up and stood sort of between his knees and was being flirty, trying to sell a dance. He just reached down in the middle of a sentence and grabbed my crotch. I sort of giggled and said, "Hey now, I hardly know you!" and pulled away so contact was broken. He did it one more time and I said, "Okay that's enough." and I sat in the bar stool next to him without touching any more. I guess I should have walked away at that point but there were literally no other customers in the club so I made a bad call and stayed. He started telling me I needed to come work for him and quit this shitty job and just as I was getting really annoyed and ready to leave, he grabbed my pussy again and hard this time. I took his fingers in one hand and bent them backwards and grabbed his ball sack through his pants in the other hand and twisted it hard. His face sort of turned purple but he was too shocked to move and he said, "You have a boyfriend at home and you're scared. That's it, isn't it!". I burst out laughing really loud because that is the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard (yeah, I really want your fat old Santa Claus cock but my husband will be so mad at me!). Then I leaned into his ear and whispered, "If you think this job has ANYTHING to do with my sex life then you are one desperate, delusional old fuck. If you want to touch me, you do it where I said you can and you pay me. Do you go to your office every day and work for free? I didn't think so. This is my JOB and I deserve to feel safe while I'm here". He stuttered some bullshit like, "Errmmm uh well why do you get to touch me and I don't get to touch you!" and I said, "Because this is self defense. I can crush your testicles through your pants and you'd die from internal hemorrhage before paramedics had time to get here". I then walked away to get a manager and he got up VERY quickly and left. And guess what, he came in every single day after that and the managers didn't do shit. Apparently he's a regular who never tips any girls, ever and does nothing but buy one drink but they are so desperate for business they don't give a shit. And obviously I do not work there anymore.
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The guy never said another word to me by the way! And I never saw him grab any of the girls he talked to after me.
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i had a huge guy, probably 6'5 pick me up by my ass and start trying to lick my pussy in the private dance area, so i started to pull his hair and slam him on the top of his head hard as i could. don't think it made much of an impact though grrr
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I had a dude stiff me on money. And I guess this was an accident because I don't usually get violent ever but I damn near got into it with a customer and manager.
I was kinda tipsy and pissed knowing I worked hard for free so when he stood up I grabbed him at the neck - I could have kicked his ass bc I caught him off guard but something snapped me to reality when I felt him grab me and kinda push me I realized he could over power me and shit could get ugly.
I didn't realized he was drunk or high till I told another dancer she knew I was like damn! Next time warn a sista.
I told on him and managers was like nothing we can do if u don't get the cash upfront. Damn them. And those cheap ass customers.
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Sometimes at my club there isn't a chair next to the customer and I don't want to just sit on his lap while we're talking so I'll sit on my knees in the floor. I've tripped so many customers that way. It's always accidental but a lot of the time it turns out to be an asshole who gets tripped!
Other than that most of the time when I've hurt someone it's been on stage. If somebody tries to touch me on stage they are likely to get a smack with my 7" heels on the arm. The worst I ever did was I was on all fours and this guy stuck his face right up to my vagina. Well I didn't realize he was doing that so when I moved positions I literally kicked him in the head with my heels. He was fucking pissed and had a bump but that's what you get!
On purpose the worst I've done was purposely give a guy a hickey who was married. Like, a big ol' red and black one high enough on the neck that there's no way to cover it up. I imagine he had fun explaining that to his wife!
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No 'accidentally on purpose' abt it. I am naturally pretty clumsy & have been known to plant a heel, an elbow or God knows what else, sm where entirely by accident, to the point where I would literally give a disclaimer at the beginning of my dances. However, when a guy goes to grab smtg he shouldn't, or commits any other invasion of my boundaries, all bets are off. The extent of the dmg may not be entirely intentional (I have knocked out teeth, hit jaws & sternums hard enough to hear/feel them crack, & possibly ruptured one guy's eardrums), but my reactions certainly are.
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These stories bring a huge smile to my face...
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Not an accident at all, but one time when I was on stage a guy touched my crotch. I leaned forward all sexy-like... And punched him in the dick.
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^ omg that reminds me of another one..this little guatemalan dude on stage decides to lean over and lick my pussy..right on stage! for some reason i shout " what??" in disbelief and kick him right in the face with my heels haha. serves the little bugger right
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I never used to have to do this, but lately at my new club during couch dances if a customers hands are roving to unapproved areas I grab their wrists holding their arms down. If the tongue comes out next I dig my sharp finger nails into the undersides of their wrists where the arm is soft and apply some pressure. I really like that moment when they start do get uncomfortable and the mindless lust on their faces is tinged with fear. It makes me feel like a little bit of a monster, but you can only say stop and be ignored so many times before guys need to be reminded that you're serous.
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^^^^ Tho I get quite the kick reading abt you girls giving these assmunches what they deserve, it saddens me that in order to defend ourselves from monsters we sm times have to act like monsters.
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this past month, this idiot got a 2x1 then asked me why I wouldn't show him my pussy. I was angry already. I then went to the table where he was sitting because his friend waved me down. He then told his friends not to dance with me because I didn't give good dances. I got up and walked away. I HATE HATE HATE customers slapping my ass. He literally as spanked my ass so hard it immediately got hot. What happened next was just a reaction vs an action. I used all my strength (I lift) and slapped the fuck out of him across this face. I'm sure this idiot had never been hit that hard and not by a woman especially. I'm glad I didn't get fired and no one but his friends saw. His friends erupted into a chorus of laughter and made fun of him the whole night.
Best night of the month
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this past month, this idiot got a 2x1 then asked me why I wouldn't show him my pussy. I was angry already. I then went to the table where he was sitting because his friend waved me down. He then told his friends not to dance with me because I didn't give good dances. I got up and walked away. I HATE HATE HATE customers slapping my ass. He literally as spanked my ass so hard it immediately got hot. What happened next was just a reaction vs an action. I used all my strength (I lift) and slapped the fuck out of him across this face. I'm sure this idiot had never been hit that hard and not by a woman especially. I'm glad I didn't get fired and no one but his friends saw. His friends erupted into a chorus of laughter and made fun of him the whole night.
Best night of the month
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I slap guys who touch me on stage, I kicked a guy in the balls once and made him give me a dollar for it because he tried to touch my pussy. I also spray hairspray on my tits so when guys try to lick them, they have the most disgusted look on their faces and it makes me laugh so hard.
What is considered sexual assault everywhere in the world is considered normal at strip clubs and this is not okay. We need to be more direct. Enforce your boundaries. I refuse to dance for anyone who does not treat me like a goddess and I have really good regulars who are respectful and decent human beings. If you're having a bad night, it's okay, there will be better ones, keep your chin up and stick to your guns. This is not a job you should have if you need money, this is a job you should do for fun and profit. It's not worth sacrificing your boundaries and self respect for a few hundred dollars. There is no competition (really!), there really are respectful guys who come into the club. You just have to focus on that. Let the extras girls have the nasty ones.
If guys are being disrespectful and treating you like public property, make them pay for it. With money or tears or both. We do not need to put up with shit we do not want to put up with. Treat yourself with respect. You might sell less dances, but your value sky rockets in the long run and you end up cultivating high spending (respectful) regulars, setting a new standard in the club and for dancers everywhere. I refuse to lower my standards for some quick cash, when in the long run it is better for everyone to stick to your personal set of rules.
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Originally Posted by
xcatxbrownx
I slap guys who touch me on stage, I kicked a guy in the balls once and made him give me a dollar for it because he tried to touch my pussy. I also spray hairspray on my tits so when guys try to lick them, they have the most disgusted look on their faces and it makes me laugh so hard.
What is considered sexual assault everywhere in the world is considered normal at strip clubs and this is not okay. We need to be more direct. Enforce your boundaries. I refuse to dance for anyone who does not treat me like a goddess and I have really good regulars who are respectful and decent human beings. If you're having a bad night, it's okay, there will be better ones, keep your chin up and stick to your guns. This is not a job you should have if you need money, this is a job you should do for fun and profit. It's not worth sacrificing your boundaries and self respect for a few hundred dollars. There is no competition (really!), there really are respectful guys who come into the club. You just have to focus on that. Let the extras girls have the nasty ones.
If guys are being disrespectful and treating you like public property, make them pay for it. With money or tears or both. We do not need to put up with shit we do not want to put up with. Treat yourself with respect. You might sell less dances, but your value sky rockets in the long run and you end up cultivating high spending (respectful) regulars, setting a new standard in the club and for dancers everywhere. I refuse to lower my standards for some quick cash, when in the long run it is better for everyone to stick to your personal set of rules.
I really needed to hear this. Thank you!
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Originally Posted by
xcatxbrownx
What is considered sexual assault everywhere in the world is considered normal at strip clubs and this is not okay.
This is so true. I say this to people I work with all the time and they look at me like I'm crazy.
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Accidentally: Was at full momentum/extension spin around pole and a drunk, poor, mouthy guy leaned forward onto the stage, audible crack as my platform connected with his forehead (I think he fell off his chair too). I stopped to apologise but I was embarrassed too and I started laughing (which set off the people who saw it too). he spent the rest of the stage calling me a fucking bitch until the bouncers heard and removed him for intox behaviour.
I have done an inverted pole trick and another dancer walked into my section of stage (my legs aren't that long I swear), and she got cracked on top of the head. Same thing happened to another customer who leant in, top of the head, bam.
Accidentally on purpose; Only when I've been drunk, not an excuse, I just wouldn't take on physically stronger people when sober. Punched a guy in the face (and he was built tough too) had to makeup an excuse that I liked to sexually dominate men yaddah yaddah ecause he looked like he was going to flatten me (the girl dancing with us looked on in disbeilief and shock). The odd kick in the balls. A man goosed me on the floor, I slapped his face hard enough for tears to come into his eyes and the owner turned around and saw it from 2 metres away, everone heard it from 2metres away... I'm sure there are more over the years that I've forgotten.
It doesn't matter how justified I felt, it's not safe to physically provoke other people. The consequences could be horrendous.
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I don't allow any touching, on the floor, in dances or the VIP...unfortunately though, alot of the girls in my club are extras girls and desperate for money so the club attracts alot of grabby customers.
If a guy tries to touch me on the floor, I'll grab their hands and twist really hard and yell "No!" like I'm screaming at a bad child.
I also had one guy try to put my boob in his mouth during a dance, so I reflexively grabbed him by the throat and threw him back against the chair. It really upset me that he did that, and I felt like if he's going to violate me, he deserves to hurt too.
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I go through this probably once a shift. It seemed a lot easier to dismiss things when I first started but now I go from 0-100 in half a second. Of course you give a guy a warning or 2 and sometimes I can keep my cool, but every now and then the money stops mattering and your emotional well being has to become more important. I used to work in a club in a relatively small college town and on the weekends we got ALOT of college kids. I honestly feel terrible about what happened but.... A guy came up to my stage and threw some money on me and asked for a dance. We got into the dance area, which is communal, and within the first 45 seconds I had to move his hands and tell him to stop twice. After the second time he asked for a handjob. I literally ignored him and was just waiting for the song to end. Then I went from forward facing to a twerking position and he had on shorts and I could feel, on my leg, that he had pulled his penis out. I got so momentarily caught up in rage that I slammed my thigh down on him as hard as I could. Something snapped and he started screaming bloody murder and I grabbed my bag and just ran out. The guy wanted to call the cops but luckily I had a good manager who told him that calling the cops would just mean I would have to report the sexual assault. I felt bad but then again I honestly felt justified. It's a strange world.
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LMAO ---these stories are amazing.
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I have stomped some guys with my stilettos. They always put a face of surprise mixed wih pain that makes me laugh.
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I knocked one the fuck out. A sucker punch. It just came out. Long story short, I was not in the mood. Also, I'm not one to be fucked with either.
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A guy got up from his fucking chair during the first song to lick my ass while I was shaking it so I karate chopped him in the nose so hard it started bleeding everywhere.
I thought I was going to get fired but the manager was like good job I didn't know you had it in you!