Just got hired for Body Rubs! Any tips would be greatly appreciated!
I got hired at a spa today and I'm very excited about it. I'm in South Florida so I have the potential to make VERY good $$$.
I am a virgin (heh) to the industry, this is my first experience with any kind of an adult job. I don't want to cam, at all...escorting is a little too much for me so body rubs seem like the perfect medium!
My boss said that his spa is strictly body rubs & happy endings, however he is aware that girls do go further at times, I am NOT willing to give BJs or anything else than standard procedure. Any tips for making me a stand out compared to other girls at the spa who might be doing 'more'?
I'm really just open to any kind of techniques and tips you ladies might have, the spa provides the necessities and I've already bought a couple lingerie sets and scheduled beauty appointments to make me presentable for the first day (THURSDAY!!!), any other suggestions are welcomed.
Thanks ladies!
Re: Just got hired for Body Rubs! Any tips would be greatly appreciated!
I have done body rubs and about to go back in a week or 2. :)
Re extra's: Clients will likely ask but you don't have too. I never did any. I made good money.
Things they used to say:
- Everyone does them - so should you...
- I can't come otherwises..
- I'm a friend of the boss
- Celia/Man on the moon always does
- Im not a customer, I'm your friend and I never turn down sex/bj's... everything that goes on is a secret.
- The other girls are vicious and you can't trust them, they all say nasty things about you.
They are all just lines. Chances are most of the other girls aren't anyway. They used to warn us about those lines before we started and tell the clients not to bother trying but they did anyway..
If they keep asking or did something that made me uncomfortable I found it really hard to be direct. I was still nervous, so instead I would just give them this blank look. Just stop moving and stare blankly ahead, like i was on drugs or something. That tended to work - they tend to apologise and drop it.
As for standing out, I didn't really try to stand out from the other girls. I just focused on myself and how I acted. And how I could improve and learn from them. That way I found it easier to relate and be friendly, even if the clients picked others, because its not a competition and they play swapsies all the time.
TIP: to get the client, just go introduce yourself and then chat to them for a minute or two. Let them get a sense of you and think your interested in them. :) Lol hustle them
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As a customer, I'll say one of the things that characterizes a new girl is a strict demarcation between massage and sensual. That is, 45 minutes of straight massage, a few minutes of transition, then 10 minutes of very sensual grand finale. As I understand it, there are some guys who like it that way. But most of the more experienced, really successful girls are great at weaving the sensual into the whole thing, like a tapestrys. It may start small 10 minutes in, and almost not sure if it was an accident -- did a hand stray a little too high? did a hip brush my fingertips as she walked by? -- but as things go on the sensual gets weaved in more, until I'm already pretty crazy at happy ending time. Anyway, that kind of thing is very consistently reflected in reviews of the top end girls, at least around here
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I'd agree with Radius about not separating the sensual from the therapeutic it was an cxcellent point. My perfect body rub place is:
1) Start with working some of the tension out of my back -- pure therapeutic massage. But do something to make it clear the happy ending is coming and I don't have to spend any mental effort guessing. Example is removing my towel completely to adjust it, scraping my balls as your hands move up my ass...
2) Once I'm loosening (you don't have to finish the back) start teasing. Get me excited. The massage should be gradually shifting from muscles to penis not suddenly.
3) Once I'm hard and starting to grind flip me over. If you aren't going to be doing BJ or FS then I'd say just start. Pay attention to the guy's response and try and judge what works. You need to be at least somewhat mentally present. Oh and ask about fingers on the prostate, I know some guys will say no but wow does that help.
4) One the HJ is over. Warm towel wipe up. Then go to deep massage. Now I'm really relaxed so you can work over the muscles and leave me like jello. If you do the deep massage then do the HJ I'm likely to tork my back during the HJ and ruin the deep massage.
Re: Just got hired for Body Rubs! Any tips would be greatly appreciated!
I'm fairly new to the bodyrub business - I'm about 2 months in. I'd say set up the limits you're comfortable with for yourself and stick to them. Be polite but firm with clients. I usually say, I'm not allowed to do that (where I work they really are very strict and girls do get fired. It's a small place.) If they keep trying let them know you're uncomfortable.
Incorporate teasing into the rub itself. I usually lean forward and let my boobs graze their back, run my fingers down their thighs..you can be creative :) Best of luck!
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Wow, NEW RULE, If your "boss" (lowercase "b") ever fixes is face to say his "establishment" is striclty body rubs and "happy endings" ...... you dont do body rubs, quite frankly, your aprostitute, don't jump down my neck guys, ive done what i have had to do to survive myself, but body rubs themselves are legit, and if if "have" to do happy endings, ditch the "boss" and work for your self. there are plenty of legit body rub joints out there, where at least you can choose wether to break the law or not.
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Use craigslist or BodyRubUSA, you make more money, and the customers come frequent. they mite ask you for extr'a but just say no. they will tip you anyway
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BellaA1992
I got hired at a spa today and I'm very excited about it. I'm in South Florida so I have the potential to make VERY good $$$.
I am a virgin (heh) to the industry, this is my first experience with any kind of an adult job. I don't want to cam, at all...escorting is a little too much for me so body rubs seem like the perfect medium!
My boss said that his spa is strictly body rubs & happy endings, however he is aware that girls do go further at times, I am NOT willing to give BJs or anything else than standard procedure. Any tips for making me a stand out compared to other girls at the spa who might be doing 'more'?
I'm really just open to any kind of techniques and tips you ladies might have, the spa provides the necessities and I've already bought a couple lingerie sets and scheduled beauty appointments to make me presentable for the first day (THURSDAY!!!), any other suggestions are welcomed.
Thanks ladies!
it sounds corny but sell your personality. Body Rub business has HUGE reorder, for a girl who does her job (notice, word "hand" isnt in front of "job"), offer coupons discounts, 2 for one, and email newsletter, the whole nine, once you get to know him, offer couples... so many girls don't know what to do with couples, they are obsssed doing "what your wife won't" they forget, two people, is two appointments in one, and if your not doing all the extra stuff, they will want you together, possibly yearn for you as a couple... seen it many times. Bottom line, "make your money don't let it make you."
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I'm new and looking to get into body rubs in South Florida. Any good places?
Re: Just got hired for Body Rubs! Any tips would be greatly appreciated!
I've worked at a massage parlour before my advice to you ALWAYS get the money first before every session.Upsell,Upsell,upsell, topless,nude, nude reverse(he gives you a massage) or bodyslide massages are very common in my area and that's the way to make money.Most guys will respect the fact that you don't do extras and be happy with a massage from a pretty lady!Best of luck
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I have always been independent. I started off as an escort, got burned out then started sensual massages. I love doing sensual massages. My one mistake is when I started out flat rates such as my 1hr massage rate is ... I just started this year charging additional for topless and nude. I am kicking myself now thinking of all of the $$ that I missed out on before. It is now very rare that a guy just receives the standard sensual massage from me. And they still tip. Definitely loving it.
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Body Rubs related to massage. Many girls hired someone for body rubs. I will preferred hire Vancouver specialist for full body massage.
Re: Just got hired for Body Rubs! Any tips would be greatly appreciated!
Just so you know be careful especially here in Florida as they're very strict and it is illegal & unlawful to give BodyRubs without being licensed. And what's scarier is that spas are more than likely to be raided than Indy's.I know because I quit a spa a few weeks ago when the board of health dept dropped in for a surprise visit.
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Well, I'm thinking of applying working @ a spa/body rub place. I'm in IL, the place I'm thinking of, has been there awhile (15 yrs or so?). I've gone in body rub places to sell outfits, previously. The place I'm thinking of, I kinda know the top girl there, she'd prob. remember me. I think they're always lookin for help..
So they get raided a lot though???
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I say go for it starting out, it's easy cash you're not shelling out cash(advertising,incall fees,etc}.You just show up and make money.I'll pm you more in detail on the what to do's and not to do's.But yes normally the spa's are the first to get raided.
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whirlerz
Well, I'm thinking of applying working @ a spa/body rub place. I'm in IL, the place I'm thinking of, has been there awhile (15 yrs or so?). I've gone in body rub places to sell outfits, previously. The place I'm thinking of, I kinda know the top girl there, she'd prob. remember me. I think they're always lookin for help..
So they get raided a lot though???
Re: Just got hired for Body Rubs! Any tips would be greatly appreciated!
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Obsession91
Just so you know be careful especially here in Florida as they're very strict and it is illegal & unlawful to give BodyRubs without being licensed. And what's scarier is that spas are more than likely to be raided than Indy's.I know because I quit a spa a few weeks ago when the board of health dept dropped in for a surprise visit.
I'm not sure but I think that in Florida it's against the law for a police officer to take all of his clothes of while on duty, so that could be a way to identify law enforcement. It won't help with the health dept. if you're not licensed.
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eagle2
I'm not sure but I think that in Florida it's against the law for a police officer to take all of his clothes of while on duty, so that could be a way to identify law enforcement. It won't help with the health dept. if you're not licensed.
Actually, I've heard the contrary..state wise Idk, I'm not in FL myself. But pretty much I think they can do anything including lie.