Valentines day and selfish ass men
Now I realize this article was a general guideline to cheap men, but for me this line really hit the hammer on the head. A blog post by Marc Rudov advocated "no-mance day" instead of Valentines day. 'I gladly do sweet things for women, including buying them flowers, when I choose to do so, not when radio or tv sports instruct me- nor when women expect or demand it.. and not if these women wouldnt reciproate or return the same gesture. I DONT PAY FOR SEX AND NEVER WILL. Pay attention to the last line. Its ok for him to expect or demand sex, but somehow its wrong for a woman to expect him to spend time, and money showing that the relationship and the sex( or romance, dancing, camming, etc. ) that you have is important and special to him. Dead on article- really.
http://survivingdating.com/valentine...elfish-ass-men
Selfish men go to great extremes and come up with the most creatively bullshit excuses not to do anything for a woman on that one day. You stubbornly insist that since its expected, you wont do it. Yet, you dont pay for sex either.
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I completely understand you. Im old school so I expect to be wooed and romanced lol. Because there end goal in the beginning is sex and ive got what they want so theyre going to have to work for it. I dont give it up for free xD. Kind of like how theyve got these new "rap" songs coming out that are like shes got her own money and bands shes not getting anything from me but I still want you to grind all over my dick for free xD. Lol women need to learn their self worth as a whole and stop letting these guys get it all so easily. They dont respect what they can easily get when all they have to do is say thatyour pretty. Or worse nod their head in your direction. XD be chased after dont chase after these men.
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I agree and disagree. First off, women shouldn't be doing cooking, cleaning etc or catering to men at all, and neither should men cater to women. I don't cook for boyfriends but many I have dated loved to cook (I hate it). I do think Valentines Day is overrated. However, I do think it is wrong for a man to no buy anything for a woman he loves. I have dumped men who didn't buy me Valentine's Day gifts. Also, women in general shouldn't be sleeping with a jerk who doesn't appreciate her.
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i'm sorry but if a man loves a woman, he will do little nice things for her all year and valentines day should be no different. sounds like a whiny ass little prick, and very entitled himself.
and you should not be buying thing and doing things for women JUST be be able to get in their pants
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Lol well I hope I didnt come across as saying that guys have to pay for pussy because thats not what I meant lol.
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Originally Posted by
pink_bunny
Selfish men go to great extremes and come up with the most creatively bullshit excuses not to do anything for a woman on that one day.
^Or any other day ::). Valentine's Day is an excuse to do something nice for someone you care about, just like Mother's Day or Father's Day etc.
If he doesn't "pay" for sex then of course he doesn't buy for anyone on Valentine's Day. If he did, he would be essentially "paying for sex" in his mind, I suppose...but with flowers, chocolates, jewellery etc. I hope he's never bought a woman in a bar a drink and then gone home with her...a vodka lime soda in exchange for some fun is just cheap ::).
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I got flowers chocolates and a very nice lobster dinner. My husband however, brings me flowers all the time and shows me he loves me very often. Spending money on someone dsnt prove you love them but it proves you're trying. Imo being a broke ass is showing a woman you don't love her... a man who loves you wants to buy you things and provide for you, and will hustle and grind to have that ability. Last year my husband was unemployed and couldn't afford to do something nice but did get me whatever he was able to. I'm old fashioned too although very independent. I don't care what ppl say, I'm a princess and deserve to be treated like so. Enabling a man to keep being broke, lazy, unmotivated etc isn't being a feminist. We could talk double standard all day but my opinion is a man will go as far as you let them, in everything. =)
Guy in article sounds like a lame ass trying to pick up on women @ a bar then refusing to buy them a drink, saying he dsnt have to in order to justify his cheapness