Fbsm/Bodyrub girl problems-Ban Black Men as Clients Rant Rant
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Ugh - that sounds so annoying!! Good thing you found out before you got there. You can't win with some people.
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Blargh. I've had the same experience with most black guys too. To be fair, I have a couple black clients that are perfectly lovely and I'd recommend them to anyone. However, neither one is American, which I wonder about sometimes.
And yeah, the needy texters are the worst. You were right to cut him lose, nothing good happens after 2:00 am anyway. ;-}
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Unfortunately, that is something that every type of guy does. That is actually one of my biggest pet peeves when dealing with the phone. It seems like if you don't respond ASAP to some of them, they keep being pests and typing, "??", etc. I have to keep myself from typing out a bitchy response about how if you do not hear back from me right away, it is because I am obviously away from my phone or busy doing something else. I have to remind myself that it is not a good idea to piss guys off in this industry, because you never know what they will do. Pretty scary!
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I know hate it,but sometimes I can't help it & I'm super bitch:)
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Julianapleases
Unfortunately, that is something that every type of guy does. That is actually one of my biggest pet peeves when dealing with the phone. It seems like if you don't respond ASAP to some of them, they keep being pests and typing, "??", etc. I have to keep myself from typing out a bitchy response about how if you do not hear back from me right away, it is because I am obviously away from my phone or busy doing something else. I have to remind myself that it is not a good idea to piss guys off in this industry, because you never know what they will do. Pretty scary!
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I agree he sounds like a real asshole but maybe you shouldn't turn your phone off or have a set time frame for when you'll be available
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Google Voice does (or did) have a feature where you can block numbers. I think you can send the call straight to the voicemail message you record, or you can just block it so that texts and calls just don't get sent to your phone at all. Then you can go in and look through your account to see calls and texts that were diverted. I used to give out my Google Voice number when I had bill collectors calling.
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I do have a set time frame they're either in my ads or on my site.And when I turn my phone off it's for a reason.It's like trying to avoid the inevitable.
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she wolf
I agree he sounds like a real asshole but maybe you shouldn't turn your phone off or have a set time frame for when you'll be available
Re: Fbsm/Bodyrub girl problems-Ban Black Men as Clients Rant Rant
The positive side of adult entertainment is that it's a healthy way to get a strong, theraputic dose of endorphines. The negative side is that some people feel superior when they demean others, and they see adult entertainers as easy targets for demeaning treatment. Unfortunately, people who get demeaned often think the solution to that is to become the demeaner themselves. I think that's why you see black men dising adult entertainers so often. It's sad when a man wants a woman to get down on all fours like a dog, and throw money at her a $1 at a time, rather than get a nice lap dance.
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They still do, thankfully! Send the trash straight into a "Spam" folder lol :)
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Originally Posted by
AngelWithHorns
Google Voice does (or did) have a feature where you can block numbers. I think you can send the call straight to the voicemail message you record, or you can just block it so that texts and calls just don't get sent to your phone at all. Then you can go in and look through your account to see calls and texts that were diverted. I used to give out my Google Voice number when I had bill collectors calling.