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Advice Please!!!
So I quit dancing about 9 months ago to work as a school teacher in China and it just so happens that my all time very best customer lives in Sydney. I genuinely like the guy, but he's still a good 16,17 years older than me so I can't imagine bringing him home to meet the Rents or anything.
I went to see him in Sydney over my vacation (he bought my plane ticket of course) but he treated me like a stripper!! Which I wouldn't mind if Im getting paid and Id kinda just assumed he'd give me money. I'd watch him spend $10,000 several times when I danced in Vegas and the one time we did hang outside of work he gave me 1000 without arguing.
To be fair he did give me some money in Australia every day before he went to work, but it was just enough to buy breakfast & lunch and I convinced him to give me his iPhone 5 but he's millionaire so I asked for more. He said I'm hustling him blah blah blah, but he totally set a precedent!!! He keeps saying he'll send it but he's bullshiting.
What can I say to get him to give me $$$ ???
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Re: Advice Please!!!
Tell him $$$$ talks. Watch him either pony up or drop off the radar.
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Re: Advice Please!!!
It sounds like you have to be explicit with this guy because he thought you were just visiting him as a friend. If you don't bring up compensation, he certainly isn't going to, and the natural assumption on his end will be that he doesn't owe you any.
Honestly, I think getting any large amount of money out of him now is a lost cause since he's already said he's sending more (and thus I assume you have asked for it) but hasn't. For future, sort this sort of thing out before booking that flight.