you will not BELIEVE what this dude told me at work
alright, so i have quite a few conservative friends who hate that i strip. they tell me i'm "better than that" and i'm somehow "degrading myself". that's another topic entirely, but yeah.
one of the things i love about this job is being able to ask people literally ANYTHING and not have to worry about consequences later. they're most likely never going to see you again, so any topic is gold. i was sitting with this dude in VIP that was in a bachelor party group, his friends were pretty rowdy but i never saw him get up.
i sat down next to him and asked him if he was enjoying himself. he told me he was, said strip clubs were awesome but he's not the type to get hammered, jump up and toss money around. so i asked him what he thought of the "industry". does it objectify women and encourage the worst types of debauchery? does he think less of the girls that work here than the ones he sees on a regular basis? and if it's all about sex, supposedly, why not just go home and jack off or hire an escourt?
the response i got was amazing. it's been a couple days, i might not be exactly on-point but here's what he told me.
"honestly, i don't think strip clubs are about that. and i don't think they should be. sex is just a factor of life, not a goal. sure, you get some dudes in here that just want to touch you and convince you to come home with them, but they confuse prostitutes with entertainment. and that's a cultural thing, i don't blame them. there's lots of places in europe where you see a girl dancing in a window, you pick the one you like and you get to have sex with her. that's not how it works here. i see the beautiful girl working at the gas station and i still want to have sex with her. same with you, you're just wearing less clothes. that doesn't mean i'm incapable of viewing her as a human being, i just find her attractive. do you not do the same thing with men? it's not like watching a porno, which is a means to an end. if that's all you do, you'll start to forget that girls are humans and that's why this place doesn't offend me. you have hopes, dreams, and ambitions just like anyone else, and i love that. and i love seeing you naked. that will never change. are you any different?"
i usually attract dudes likes this, and i love it. :)
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Awwwwwwww I just love that, what an eloquent and lovely person! I meet a lot of guys who say the same thing, too! We need to talk more about them! I met an entrepreneur last night who is in internet retail and he said that he thinks it's awesome that so many women find dancing as empowering as they do. I told him I agree and that I love my job. He was super sweet, one of those guys that just loves women.
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all well and good, but how much money did this guy spend ?
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all well and good, but how much money did this guy spend ?
lol srsly, I think I hear this every day from cheapos.
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lol second. I'm not out here half naked just to talk..