Re: Screwed over by my longest regular (long rant)
Don't answer me on this but if he has your phone number and it's not disposable, I'd suggest changing your number/ carrier and in the future get a disposable phone for customers to call so you can't be traced to your home. Analog is best so they can't use GPS technology to trace your whereabouts.
Re: Screwed over by my longest regular (long rant)
oh and definitely keep all messages and perhaps transfer them to an audio file you can keep just in case.
Re: Screwed over by my longest regular (long rant)
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lovelydancer
I feel so stupid about this whole thing. I should've listened to my gut, it's never wrong and this is a life experience that clearly showcases that lesson. To be honest I'm incredibly embarrassed I did something so dumb. I let someone outsmart me and fool me. I just wanna get home, hug my boyfriend and cat, and just move forward from this crappy trip.
Don't feel stupid! You can turn this into a positive learning experience. Don't let other people ruin your mood and you are now smarter because this happened to you.
Re: Screwed over by my longest regular (long rant)
Can you also have him banned from your club from here on out? Just in case, so that when he's in your town again that he can't slip in & harass you, you know...
Re: Screwed over by my longest regular (long rant)
Made it home safely. He hasn't tried to contact me since yesterday morning, but I'm still gonna move forward with cutting him out of my life (change my number, dancer email, have him banned from work, etc). I don't need the toxicity in my life, and my safety has got to be my #1 priority.