Dancer friend of mine is getting married. She is thinking about inviting a long-term customer to her wedding. I think it is a mistake. I am looking for input before I talk to her.
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Dancer friend of mine is getting married. She is thinking about inviting a long-term customer to her wedding. I think it is a mistake. I am looking for input before I talk to her.
When it comes down to it, it's her life and her wedding, and not your place to tell her who she can and cannot invite. Presumably she knows this customer better than you know him, so maybe they have a different relationship than just customer/dancer anyway. Stranger things have happened!
It's their friendship and her wedding. If she wants to do that, I wouldn't say anything if I were you. I know maybe it looks bad to you, but if SHE thought it was a bad idea I'm sure she wouldn't be doing it.
Relationships with long term customers can be complex.
If I were to get married I would definitely invite some of my long term customers! For me personally some of them aren't just "guys who give me money", they have become not only customers, but true friends. Maybe it is the same for your friend and this guy.
why do you not want her inviting him? any particular reason, or just because he's a customer and you think its inappropriate or something? if it's the latter, then i'd suggest you just letting it go. its her wedding, her customer, her husband, and her life. on her big day she should be able to invite anybody she wants..not ALL customers are sketchy creep stalkers, some of them can be friends and decent people
Some custys are really just friends. I guess it could be awkward but if she's ok with it I would just keep my opinion to myself & help her have her dream wedding.
I have customers, girls I've danced with, and my managers on my wedding invite list. These are people I've known for years and are my friends. I see no reason why I can't invite them just because I met them in a club. I'm sure that is how your friend may feel about her customer too. Sometimes a relationship in the club becomes more than a transaction. It can turn into something real and meaningful.