Girls who use phone on SM
Is it just me or is it really hard to hear people? I have an iphone and use at&t but i swear the commection in phone is crap. I hate asking what, what in a session. I dont really like phone but it helps bring in some exclusives. Its hard to work with one hand, and it doesn't feel "sexy" to me. But anyway, what are your experiences?
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I have always offered phone on SM, but I really have come to hate it. Mostly for the reasons You have mentioned.
Even though SM tells us that they have improved the phone feature, I feel it's worse than ever!
In my experience, most guys either don't really know what to say, and there is a lot of 'dead air', or they get disconnected, (and say they can't reset it to call again, and it disrupts the flow of the show.
I do phone sex on another site, and can always hear those custies crystal clear.
I think my custies on SM have had bad experiences with using phone in other's rooms, because instead of it being a perk for them, most decline using it now.
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yeah i hate working with one hand, especially since my fat ass has no balance lol. I've never really had a problem hearing the guy on the other end tho. I just don't like offering it because I honestly suck at phone sex and never know what to say.
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I only do phone with a few select regulars. I turn it on after they enter exclusive. It can add a lot to the experience if you really connect with the guy. Otherwise I find it very awkward. Plus it doesn't work half the time or I can't hear them. I usually use my bluetooth so I don't have to hold it.
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I hope it's okay if I comment, even though I'm not on Streamate anymore.
I did phone a few times on ImLive, and I couldn't stand it. It's just not for me. Even in real life, the only time I actually enjoy talking on the phone is when it's with a guy I'm interested in and involved with.
There was one guy on ImLive who made it worth it though, because he'd do 30-minute private sessions where he's on the phone running his mouth about how awesome Hedonism is, what it's like to take a girl there and have her get fucked by other guys, etc. Lol. He'd go on and on about it until his credits ran out, and then he'd buy more and continue the conversation until those credits ran out.
Some guys who ask for phone don't even stay in private long enough, which is shitty...especially when it's not free for you to talk on the phone during that time of day. I think if you're gonna offer phone, it's best to save it for block sessions where you know the guy ain't gonna bail in 2 minutes. The problem is that ImLive doesn't offer a 15-minute block session like Streamate does. ImLive has 30-minute and 60-minute block sessions (and I never get members staying in private for that long anyway). Another thing is that with phone, guys often assume they'll be getting phone sex, which isn't something I do. There are some guys who ask for phone and actually aren't expecting phone sex.
Even when I used to offer it as a contest prize on MyFreeCams, it was awkward with some of the guys, and this one guy was telling me his availability for when I can call him again. LMAO. Again? Um...no. This is a one-time prize that you won. What makes you think I'll be calling you again just for the hell of it? SMH. And people seem to think that once they've got you on the phone, y'all are friends now and can start asking each other personal questions and whatnot. Nah.....
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Yes, I offered phone for a little bit, but it did not work for me. It totally kills the show sometimes. Some men mumble (and then I have to find sexy ways to say "what?, huh?"), or don't say shit (why did you want phone then???). Even though I moaned and talked dirty when there was dead-air, it was still very annoying. And yes, very difficult to work with one hand. I'm very energetic, I move and adjust a lot, and I use bigger toys sometimes. I totally need both hands. But I do like the Bluetooth idea ^^^
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Even when I used to offer it as a contest prize on MyFreeCams, it was awkward with some of the guys, and this one guy was telling me his availability for when I can call him again. LMAO. Again? Um...no.
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I stopped doing phone because the connection was always shit. Lots of customers want to do it, but I feel bad offering it when they keep cutting in and out/I can't really hear what they are saying.
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Is it just me or is it really hard to hear people? I have an iphone and use at&t but i swear the commection in phone is crap. I hate asking what, what in a session. I dont really like phone but it helps bring in some exclusives. Its hard to work with one hand, and it doesn't feel "sexy" to me. But anyway, what are your experiences?
I used to do it sometimes but phone gives me anxiety, even my home phone ringing. Get a bluetooth headset, it's really not visible under your hair and easy to use. Mine works with my iPhone. Yes I always find it hard to hear people and sometimes difficult to make out their accents, sometimes just play it off, go with it, oh yeah blah blah... I hate saying what, what too!
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My phone option is not enabled. I click on it to take calls. My phone number is selected. But I don't get the icon when I sign in. A few guys have told me the option isn't there. Here is the first response i got from SM about the issue:
Hello,
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> The CPS system has been reset for your account and once you re-enable
> it, users will be able to use it in your paid chat areas.
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> Let us know if you have any further questions.
After that it still didn't work. So I wrote back telling them this and here is the second repsons:
The tool is currently down. Thanks for your patience while we resolve the matter.
That was almost 3 weeks ago and still doesn't work. And that's really messed up because my voice is a selling point many guys request it. I suppose I shouldn't be too upset since the feature is a crappy quality for those who do have it. But I would love to offer it.
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I understand the anxiety of phone sex, BUT you really can use it to your own advantage. For example, when I have callers... (no cam on) it takes me 2 mins alone just to say hello, ask where they are from, how old they are, and flirt. Let them know you won't bite them etc.
Having a back and forth conversation can really become intimate. And before you know it... he is attached to you! Using the phone has always been successful in fetching me longer privates, and fetish shows/calls. It sounds stupid, but I don't do the "huh, what?"... instead... I pretend like I heard them, and make them "repeat what they jut said louder, because it was such a turn on". LOL! I urge you, if you feel comfortable with the phone, give it a try. And if you aren't give it a second glance. The blue tooth is a brilliant idea too. Thank you for the info!
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I don't always love phone because the sound quality is pretty crappy, and there always seems to be a little lag. There are a lot of moments where we end up talking over each other, or I have to ask them to repeat themselves.
I do like that it's a pretty reliable way to know when the dude is cumming so I can adjust my dirty talk accordingly. I've had a couple guys that came sooo loudly - it's nice to know they're cumming hard, but in those cases it was hard not to giggle.
The bluetooth is key - I flat out do not do phone if my bluetooth isn't charged or isn't working for some reason. I recently got a tiny bluetooth headset that I can hide under my hair. I paired it to my computer so I can use it to hear all the site noises and any sounds from c2c. On top of that I use a google number for phone, so if I leave my gmail open, the call comes through onto the computer and I can use the headset for that, too, without having to mess with my phone or use minutes. I'm still getting used to moving around a lot without knocking it out of my ears (there are a lot of cam girl positions that I doubt headset manufacturers think about when designing these things), but so far it's a nice little toy!
PGD - Did your phone feature stop working, or has it never worked?
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Off topic a bit...sorry... but let me add that corded phone I use has superb connection quality. And that most guys talk low on the phone at first. There is nothing wrong with asking them to speak up, and not be shy. ***Bonus with the corded phone, I use that sucker as a prop.
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It works fine for me. Plug in headphones into your cell phone and only put one in your ear. You can move around better like that, and hear them better. Get high quality ones that are like $20 at Target... the skull candy ones? It has a mic built in too.
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I dislike using phone because the experiences I've had with it the guys would call hoping to connect with me thereby leaving me their numbers (I was left to assume, so I could call them.) and immediately leave before I could get paid anything. All it would accomplish is pissing me off to no end because it cleared out my room and they got banned for that crap if they were stupid enough to come back. They didn't seem to realize that thanks to the way SM has it set up (which I absolutely do like) their calls go through a 800 number and all I see is that.
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I'll do phone in exclusive if the guy requests it, but I'd really rather not. I don't even like talking on the phone to guys I like IRL. I'd rather text. LOL
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I do phone and its annoying because most of the time when they dial it does not connect then it ruins the mood because they have to dial again. It also sometimes takes too long to connect. I cannot hear or understand what they say half the time.