Re: longterm peeps dont tip
I'd just stop giving them the attention they crave and give it to the guys who do tip. They'll catch on quick
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Re: longterm peeps dont tip
its the same in any adult entertainment, people want variety to keep them interested in the whole experience.
Re: longterm peeps dont tip
I think we need a name for this phenomenon - maybe "Fake Girlfriend Syndrome"? Once these guys know you (or your persona) really well, and they've seen all there is to see, I think they tend to reach a complacent state where tipping doesn't make a lot of sense to them and might even seem like it'd be "insulting" to you. Weird, I know, but they don't see you as a hot, fresh camgirl any more - they see you as someone they actually really like.
My strategy is to try to make tipping something they don't just do, but identify with. When they tip, I try to remember to say things like, "Aw, thanks! You're always such a great tipper, ____," and "Thank you, ____! You always know how to make me smile."
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It's funny because I go through my MFC friends list sometimes and remove people who haven't shown me love in a long time. It seems like shortly after I've removed them, they're back in my room tipping me again. Guys on there realize they've been removed from your friends list (when they try to PM you, and it won't let them), and they express interest in getting back on it. Some of them will sit there in the chat room and act all offended and hurt, and others start tipping/chatting again as if they've never left.
There are some members who act like just because they tipped you once or twice, that you're supposed to give them special treatment for the rest of their lives, even if they never tip you again. SMH. "But I've given you tokens!" Um...yeah, dude, that was back in mothafuckin 2011.....
Re: longterm peeps dont tip
You forgot this is a job, these guys are NOT your friends.
You need to hustle them just like you do everyone else. I remind regulars in Pm's that they have not taken me private or tipped me in a long time. It is your JOB to HUSTLE.
None of these guys are loyal, nor should they be.
If you owned a diner, would you let regulars come in sit all day & just drink free glasses of water keeping a table busy for no money? To put you out of business, they would be sad but find another place to eat & drink at & pay money. ---- Yet, you let these guys get your attention & interaction for free day after day. You TRAINED them to be freeloaders & NEED to RETRAIN them into being tippers again.
Gentle kid with them, say don't you love me anymore? Dont you find me sexy? Trust these guys are STILL JACKING off.
Good Luck,
Sam
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You've been friend zoned.. I think that actually happens to all of us.. and I start to ignore them, call them out , or not be very nice to them.. because I know what they are doing.. they are on the site spending money and NOT on me.. but stop by to hang out.. I can think of one right now... who used to go to pvt with me all the time and chat for at least 30 mins..,.. just chat!.. at least 3 times a week.. now he pops in says hello or joins a show already in progress naked and playing with myself.. yea.. so i don't pay to much mind to him anymore.. I don't even hardly say hello to him like I used to.
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mishaa
hey everyone, so im in abit of a dilemma...
I work on mfc and have a very good handful of regulars, they come in everyday and spend the entire time with me and talk and hang out. However, many of my regulars seem to just come in and chill and havent tipped a single dime in 6 months + but when I go offline and watch other girls ill at random see a bunch of my regualars tipping other girls non stop. Im not going out browsing for my regualrs to see if they are tipping other girls I just do spend alot of time watching other girls on my premium account and tip myself is all in my spare time. Some of my regulars at random without me even asking just tell me they dont have tokens (dont knwo why they tell me that but they do lol ) yet i go offline and BAM some of them are dropping 4000+ on other girls new ones too at that....
im abit hurt, why tell me on your own you have no tkns but then go tip another girl a ton.I guess im kinda hurt because these are longterm regulars that tip me once and then just come in and chill and keep the conversation going in the room if its quiet everyday but it kinda makes me feel like a bad performer when I get nothing from them, I talk I striptease, perform have countdowns...i just dont get it
I appreciate them getting the conversations going but still...
Im trying not to sound jelous im really not! am i wrong to ban them or just stop talking to them in my room? I feel almost all my longterm regualrs do this I feel like its just becoing a habit..
Re: longterm peeps dont tip
I have seen performers on CB get angry because a customer who always hangs out in her room just tipped another room but only comes by to say hello to this her.
Maybe it's me, but I don't care if a customer of mine is tipping other rooms and passes me by that day. Now I will watch him and if he has seemed to stop tipping completely I will stop paying him the attention he wants from me for free. This usually wakes them up.. for me.
I am not quick to ban anyone, but am not looking for just chat buddies either.
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[shrug] they're guys. It's the nature of the beast. Thats why you always have to focus on expaning fan base. You can't expect a handful of guys to always tip you.They ARE people and not all of them have a lot of expendible income. The trick is getting a fan base of people who all have a little extra coin that adds up. If they're tipping elsewhere it just means you're doing something wrong NOT them.
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o0Pepper0o
[shrug] they're guys. It's the nature of the beast. Thats why you always have to focus on expaning fan base. You can't expect a handful of guys to always tip you.They ARE people and not all of them have a lot of expendible income. The trick is getting a fan base of people who all have a little extra coin that adds up. If they're tipping elsewhere it just means you're doing something wrong NOT them.
I agree with everything you said, except for the last sentence. Guys tipping elsewhere doesn't necessarily mean the model "did something wrong." I'm sure that sometimes models actually do blow it for themselves and make guys disappear, but it's not really that black and white. I've had guys stop visiting/tipping me just because I refused to give them personal info, or because I told them I don't meet in person, or because I don't do cum shows in public chat. That wasn't me doing anything wrong.
Men go gaga for tits, ass, and pussy. They will be checking out other models and spending on them, and there's nothing wrong with that. Guys on these sites have short attention spans anyway, and sometimes they get curious about what's going on in other rooms. As long as he's not in your room running his mouth about how Miss FuckMeHardBB is his new favorite model, and as long as he's not trying to BS you about being unable to tip cuz his mom is dying of cancer (while you witness him dropping gigantic tips in the other model's room), then him exploring other areas shouldn't be an issue. You'll gain new spenders and fans in no time anyway...especially on high traffic sites like MyFreeCams or Streamate.
Just don't continue giving these guys extra special attention if they're not spending on you anymore. Tipping a model to get on her friends list is nice at the time, but six months after that...if you've been lurking her chat everyday without spending a dime, why on Earth should she keep you on her friends list? I was annoyed when a chatter told another guy in the room "Fox is cool. She doesn't care if you tip her or not...just as long as you chat." :banghead: Not true! He hasn't tipped me in ages, so he's off my friends list, and I no longer post tweets saying "Thank you to those who chatted with me and tipped!" Instead I thank the tippers only.
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I call out my regs when they haven't tipped or took me to private lately. I tell them how it is. If they don't see it that way, good riddance. There will be plenty others.
I don't think its anything you are doing wrong physically or on purpose. I think you just need to lay down some ground rules.
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thats nothing. just wait until they get really obsessed with you. stop coming in your room on their names and enter only on guest accounts so you can't see them. then they will take 1000 screenshots of u and save them. stalk your twitter account. download all your capped videos. then they will post on forums under disguise names asking other customers to give them your content u have for sale. then when u get tired of it and quit. they will find you on other cam sites when u thought you'd started a fresh and they come in and say your old cam name. then they will act like they know everything about you. and then they will ask for skype/email/phone number because they see you as such a good friend. they have no interest in ever seeing you naked because you are "better than that" to them. they just wanna talk and get to know you. but internet chat isnt enough, please call me on the phone, everynight for free. i dont see u as a camgirl, so i wont tip you. you're too good to get ur tits out, so i'll give the tokens to that cheap whore instead. and then when you quit camming they will set up a shrine in the form on a tumblr-page for you. with all your photos and camming career information on for all to see, because they love u so much. and all the other dickshits who never tipped u will go on the site and post about how its such a shame she doesnt cam anymore, she was the best girl on mfc, even though i never tipped her she was fucking amazing and i wish she'd come back. never mind at least all her stuff is here for free for me to wank over. anyone have her skype? anyone have her vids for download? twitter? kik? phone number? !!!!!
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LOL, Annie! A while ago a friend of mine had stopped camming completely, and even after she quit MFC I'd get the occasional fucktard in my room saying "I miss ____. Do you still talk to her?" Um...first of all, don't come into my public chat just to inquire about other models. Second, did you ever think maybe there's a reason she didn't stay in contact with you after quitting? She doesn't wanna be your damn friend. DUH.
Re: longterm peeps dont tip
Make sure being on your friendslist has a benefit.
Cute photo of you every week or a dirty message whateever.
If they stop tipping remove them from your friendslist.
Take the benefits away and digitally friendzone them. No more attention for them until they show some dollars.
Re: longterm peeps dont tip
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Milaa
Make sure being on your friendslist has a benefit.
Cute photo of you every week or a dirty message whateever.
The benefit (if we're talking about MyFreeCams) is that they get to PM you. :)
The other benefits you mentioned (pics, dirty texts, etc.) is what some models offer to guys when they do one of those VIP Fan Club things or whatever it's called...where her big tippers get added to a special list (names of all the guys on it are displayed on her profile) and get exclusive pics/vids/Skype shows, etc.