Re: those nights where....
It happens to the best of us. I always think like Scarlett O'Hara: "Tomorrow is another day!" (And I still have huge boobs) ::)
Girl you are very pretty! Even cuties have their bad days! You can't do anything about it. Pick up your chin, stick your tits out and move along.
Re: those nights where....
You just have to let it go. Don't go in to work tomorrow unless you're booked and have to, take a day and rest, do something fun/pamper yourself, get your mind off work and refresh. Enjoy yourself. And when you go back in don't bring that negative energy with you because it will destroy your next night as well.
Sometimes you get into a funk and it's hard to get out, sometimes the guys just suck balls and it has absolutely nothing to do with you. If I get rejected by a bunch of guys but see all the other girls sitting around and the VIP booths empty, I know it has nothing to do with me. Try not to take it personally.
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This past wk in particular, I expected it to be squirrelly b/c it was taxes wk + Easter holiday so I set my sights pretty low w/ that in mind. All the same, most of the nites I worked were like pulling teeth, & it was not just me. Sm nites are like strip club full moons that bring out the 'entitled free-show who-do-you-think-you-are-expecting-me-to-actually-pay-you' types instead of just the nice, normal run-of-the-mill werewolves. It is not always just you, sm times it is just a weird crowd.
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Try not to let it bother you. It does happen to all of us, there is no getting past it unless you are super stripper, lol. I'm pretty sure every dancer in this world will go through atleast one night where they make nothing or have a very bad night, even having to pay to work happens to most of us. Like Audrey said, the worst thing you can do is go in the next day thinking negative. The customers can sense that and it will only hurt your money until you get the negative thoughts out of your head.
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some nights you will be in high demand, other you will not. happens to me all the time..some nights i make hundreds just on stage, every guy i talk to gets at least one dance, and i feel great. other times not a soul will come to my stage or get dances while my friend makes bank.
you need to understand that this happens to everybody. every stripper will have bad nights. don't feel bad because that is pretty normal.
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Idk ladies I think its because I've been on sort of a hot streak since the beginning of the year.. Yeah I had off days here and there but the whole month of April has been complete shit. Last night I had a nervous break down. This is my only source of income and for a 21 year old I live a nice life ! I got really down thinking about the fact that if I don't make money I can't live the way I do, and really just can't take care of myself.. Im in a different club. Maybe its just there. But things really got to me yesterday.
It does make me feel better that I'm not alone. This happens sometimes is what I'm learning. It comes with the profession... Thanks ladies. I really don't have anyone to talk to about this so it helps to be able to log on and vent to women I know will have something helpful to say.