I just got outed to ALL My friends...
...and it actually went really well!
Backstory--
I was hanging out with some friends and my husband. We hadn't seen each other in several months due to everyone's busy work schedule. We were planning on drinking had a little pirate-themed party with lots of rum and whiskey. One of these friends had recently gotten a promotion and I made more money than him. My husband let this slip while drunk, and then told everyone I was a camgirl.
I was furious at first because I thought everyone would immediately loose all respect for me. One of the guys was an Irish Catholic and he was one of the last people I wanted to know because I really respect him and he's always been an incredible person. He took it really well and he's happy for us! He even gave us both high-fives and said he was happy we were making money and doing well.
I was expecting so much worse, I thought I'd never have friends after this. However, everything went well!
I just wanted to give out some positive news because I know there's some terrible horror stories out there. If your friends are good people, they might surprise you.
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Congrats that's awesome! But kind of a dick move on your husbands part, glad your friends took it well and everything worked out. Some guys can't help but brag though! My bf tells his friends I'm a cam girl all the time even though I asked him not to cuz he thinks it's "hot" and "cool" lol. I'm glad everything went well!!!!
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TattooedBBW
Congrats that's awesome! But kind of a dick move on your husbands part, glad your friends took it well and everything worked out. Some guys can't help but brag though! My bf tells his friends I'm a cam girl all the time even though I asked him not to cuz he thinks it's "hot" and "cool" lol. I'm glad everything went well!!!!
Oh, I was actually planning on telling them anyway. I just couldn't find the right time and I was really nervous. He let them know because I was so drunk I was going to end up letting it slip anyway. He took them away privately to let them know, it wasn't something that just slipped out. He was really respectful about the way he did it, sorry I wasn't clear!
Option 1.) Let me tell everyone while drunk off my ass and have them react.
Option 2.) Take both friends aside privately to let them know instead. (He wasn't quite as drunk as me at that point.)
That's great that it went well for you too! I love the positive experiences. I was expecting the worst, I'm glad it goes well sometimes! :)
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Oh, I was actually planning on telling them anyway. I just couldn't find the right time and I was really nervous. He let them know because I was so drunk I was going to end up letting it slip anyway. He took them away privately to let them know, it wasn't something that just slipped out. He was really respectful about the way he did it, sorry I wasn't clear!
Option 1.) Let me tell everyone while drunk off my ass and have them react.
Option 2.) Take both friends aside privately to let them know instead. (He wasn't quite as drunk as me at that point.)
That's great that it went well for you too! I love the positive experiences. I was expecting the worst, I'm glad it goes well sometimes! :)
ah okay perfect then, as long as it was planned and he didnt just drunkenly tell people. My bf told a bunch of his friends without my permission which kinda made me mad, but now Im cool with it. Im like 80% out right now - my dad knows I do "fetish clips" like eating on cam, foot fetish, etc. My mom, well, she's weird. She used to be a stripper but she's completely changed her life from then and now looks down on adult work. I mentioned I was going to do PSO and she got so mad and said I was disgusting, so I don't really feel like telling her. I'm moving soon so I just told her I got another better job for $16/hr in the city I am moving so she doesn't ask questions. And my brother knows, you weren't on SW for this yet but you mighta seen it, it was my 'oh god I got outted by my bro post' https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...e-you-geoblock!
So ya. I'm almost all the way outted. All my friends know and mostly everyone's cool. But I've also had experiences like this: https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...ds-and-Camming
lol but CONGRATS! its a nice feeling where you don't have to hide it from everyone anymore right?
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This is why I don't drink, cos I'd do that exact thing. Tell EVERYONE in earshot my deepest, darkest secrets. lol
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Glad to hear it went well :) At least you don't have to hide it from them anymore, that must be such a relief.
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This is why I don't drink, cos I'd do that exact thing. Tell EVERYONE in earshot my deepest, darkest secrets. lol
Lol. I feel you! It happens to everyone haha.
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Glad to hear it went well :) At least you don't have to hide it from them anymore, that must be such a relief.
It really is a relief. I feel like I can breathe. It's so nice to have everyone know. My earnings have done significantly better, too!
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Phew!!! I hope they remain cool about it and dont get awkward after it settles in.
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MissNicole2U
This is why I don't drink, cos I'd do that exact thing. Tell EVERYONE in earshot my deepest, darkest secrets. lol
Hahahahah SAME!
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anoncamgirl
One of the guys was an Irish Catholic and he was one of the last people I wanted to know because I really respect him and he's always been an incredible person.
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But...I mean...it's all theoretical now (and I'm very happy for you!) but...If he doesn't respect you back in light of new information about you is he really an incredible person?
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Wow - that's great that you ladies had a mostly positive experience when those in your life know what we do... I feel as though camming is isolating me. I don't have anyone in my life to talk to about my 'work day' and such... and mostly use this forum... reading a lot lately.. and slowly taking part in discussions...
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MissNicole2U
This is why I don't drink, cos I'd do that exact thing. Tell EVERYONE in earshot my deepest, darkest secrets. lol
Same here. I outed myself to a couple of acquaintances at a after party once. They were cool with it thankfully.
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you're lucky to have such accepting friends. Even when I'm super drunk I just tell people I'm unemployed. I don't like being looked at like a bum but not very many people are accepting when it comes to camming. My best friend knows and so does her sister and her mom. Her sister used to work for MFC and that's how I got started.
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Interesting. Whenever I tell my friends what I do they laugh it off and think I'm joking...