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If a Potential Client is a Public/Well Known Figure, does it Put You More at Ease?
Let's say you've checked him out and he's some big-time lawyer, sports newscaster, judge, politician, university dean or has some other high-profile position.
Do you ladies feel more at ease with this type of client? More safe? Less nerves about their being a cop bust? More in control cause he has a lot to lose if something goes wrong?
Do you maybe go easier on the screening (okay with one provider reference instead of two.. etc.)
Would you pick this client over Tom the Truckdriver if they were both requesting your time on the same day?
Just curious to see if public figures get higher ratings with you ladies vs. the everyday truck driver, insurance agent, etc.
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No replies. I mean damn. Is everyone only screwing insurance agents??
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I prefer anyone who is easy to google so I'd say yes. I only use references if I can't confirm who the client is so I don't require references for this type of client at all. I use a safe call system and I have no problem outing myself as an escort to have someone prosecuted for assaulting me.
My favorite situation is when I can just go to a major company's website and look him up and find his full name, phone number and picture. If I had to choose between him and an unknown client that I have to track down references for... well, it's an easy choice for me.
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I've never had a well-known client that I was aware of, anyway, my clients are usually very vague about what they do. But no it wouldn't put me at ease any more than him being an insurance agent, rich guys have just as many kinks and can have an even worse attitude than the average Joe. The only thing that puts me at ease is references and good reviews.
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One time a falcons player called my ad...I screened him secretly(I don't outright ask people for their info since they can just lie, so I obtain it myself) and found out who he was. I didn't let on that I knew, but I guess in a way I was more comfortable Bc I knew he definitely wasn't a cop. But, when I arrived, he pretended like he only had $60 cash on him and wanted to write me a check for the rest. I went ahead and went through with it, but he looked extremely bored, and I think he kinda expected me to jump all over him like he is the shit or something, because he tried to begin things right away, unzipped his pants and pulled it out, smiling. I told him he had to pay first, and he was a little offended. But yeah, like I said, he was staring at the ceiling all bored-like and totally unresponsive, so I stopped and said, "Wanna just call it even?" So I didn't get him to write me the check, which I kinda regretted even though who knows if it would have gone through. One of the most awkward experiences I have had, and yeah, I was a little intimidated by him too.
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My screening is the same for all, i.e., very tight, and I treat my low-profile clients the same as my high-profile clients, i.e, *very well.* I don't feel any more or less at ease with a high profile client. The first meeting with any client tends to involve some sussing out on both sides anyway. I choose my clients based on how they screen and our potential compatibility. If the "truck driver" is nicer than the "sultan," I'm going with the truck driver, Lol!
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Exxotica
Let's say you've checked him out and he's some big-time lawyer, sports newscaster, judge, politician, university dean or has some other high-profile position.
Do you ladies feel more at ease with this type of client? More safe? Less nerves about their being a cop bust? More in control cause he has a lot to lose if something goes wrong?
Do you maybe go easier on the screening (okay with one provider reference instead of two.. etc.)
Would you pick this client over Tom the Truckdriver if they were both requesting your time on the same day?
Just curious to see if public figures get higher ratings with you ladies vs. the everyday truck driver, insurance agent, etc.
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What do you mean they can just lie anyway about who they are (when you ask for info?) Has this been your experience? A potential client giving you a fake name to google and then you show up at the door and its someone else entirely? WTF? Like, why? Would a cop do this??
[QUOTE=Julianapleases;2646244]One time a falcons player called my ad...I screened him secretly(I don't outright ask people for their info since they can just lie, so I obtain it myself)
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audrey_k
I've never had a well-known client that I was aware of, anyway, my clients are usually very vague about what they do. But no it wouldn't put me at ease any more than him being an insurance agent, rich guys have just as many kinks and can have an even worse attitude than the average Joe. The only thing that puts me at ease is references and good reviews.
I've never had a well known client either. New clients are kind of vague, but most of my clients are very open about themselves. For some regulars, I know family details or business details and a few know details in my life. Knowing that they trust me and I trust them puts me at ease.
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"Is everyone screwing insurance agents" - Yeah you're the only one screwing high profile guys *eyeroll*
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Charlotteyork
"Is everyone screwing insurance agents" - Yeah you're the only one screwing high profile guys *eyeroll*
lol! I haven't screwed anyone yet, actually. The 3 potential clients that contacted me happened to be high profile. Just luck I guess.
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^I think her comment was more aimed at the fact that you seem to think it makes you Miss Special that you apparently are with "high profile" figures while the rest of us are screwing insurance agents. Judgement not cool. We are all sucking/fucking for money, if you actually end up escorting, no one is better than anyone else because they charge more or they've slept with a wealthier or more well-known client.
As you can see from Juliana's post, high profile clients are no better than the average Joe. I haven't screwed any football players here but I've screwed some VERY wealthy London bankers, had an outcall with a guy who's monthly rent is probably what I make in six months-- and they are my LEAST favorite clients. I get bankers all the time for some reason, 90% of my clients are bankers, but I can always tell how high up they are by how much of a DICK they are-- usually showing up late and expecting me to just go 10/15 minutes into the next hour even if I have another client, acting bored, complaining about everything, talking about themselves nonstop, being very forward about what they expect in bed, and usually they suck in bed as well. The guy with the super nice flat booked 2 hrs and would cough and shake his head if I started talking about a topic he disliked, and he was horrible in bed and super demanding. I told him afterwards not to contact me for a booking again. I would have much rather seen two insurance agents who couldn't afford two hours but at least treated me well.
So, you may think you're lucky with your 'high profile' clients and find yourself preferring the average Joe!
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I prefer my average clients. Less stressed, more compliments and less boundary pushing.
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I think the more high profile my clients have been the more at ease I was meeting them the first time because I knew they had more to lose if they did something to me that might get reported to the authorities. But like the other ladies have said the high profile clients are not necessarily better than the regular joe customers. Longterm I think rich higher profile customers make for better customers. I have customers from back when I worked in Japan (15 years ago) who fly me out for weekend and week long trips as they prefer someone who is very discreet and can be trusted like me :)
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I'm a dancer and not an escort, but I have to say as a woman I am just as wary of men with too much power as much as I am of men with nothing to lose! If the money is the same I would prefer the customer with less wealth/status in general.
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Exxotica
lol! I haven't screwed anyone yet, actually. The 3 potential clients that contacted me happened to be high profile. Just luck I guess.
How do you figure that you're lucky if you haven't had a single client yet?
You don't know that the men who contacted you are actually "high profile." It's a common scam for men to pretend to be famous athletes or actors to fuck with escorts. It happens all the time.
Maybe you should complete at least your first appointment before you start bragging about how great you are. LOL
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I know this is more escort specific, but I'd like to toss in my 2 cents nonetheless. I make fetish clips primarily and, though I don't meet my customers face to face, I do mail people things and have loads of email communication. If someone is buying a big clip from me or has a large product order they want, I normally screen them a bit. I'm more at ease with dealing with someone high profile than an unknown because I don't want to work with time wasters or people who "aren't good for it" per se. I mean if someone asks if I can send them $500 in worn panties, I'm more likely to send them a thorough response if they're a senator opposed to someone who I can only find on twitter with no followers. I have a few high profile customers whom I really enjoy because they aren't going to fuck me over... especially considering I have all their info, proof of purchase, and proof of contact. A mayor of a major city or fortune 500 company isn't going to scam you for a $1200 clip if they know you have ALL of their personal info AND you know their extremely odd fetish. Plus, if you have one high end guy, chances are he'll tell a friend or business contact. So, even in my line of work, I prefer high profile... it's just a safer bet.
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wow. Okay. In no way was I bragging. I'm new to this that is why I asked.
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MarvelGirl
How do you figure that you're lucky if you haven't had a single client yet?
You don't know that the men who contacted you are actually "high profile." It's a common scam for men to pretend to be famous athletes or actors to fuck with escorts. It happens all the time.
Maybe you should complete at least your first appointment before you start bragging about how great you are. LOL
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Thank you all for the responses
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Put me more at ease? Hell no! The only clients that I had who would be considered high profile also had massive drug habits (way too common in pro-dom sessions). The whole time I was scared shitless thinking I was going to be just another hooker in the news who tried to sneak out after their famous client keeled over. Maybe if the client were not only well known but sober/sensible, I would feel more at ease.
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I am DEFINITELY more at ease with more High Profile clients. The one that I had was a super sweetie, not mean arrogant or rude and he had one hell of a beautiful body. I think every instance would be different and just depend on the clients personality. But if they are very well known, then they are not as like to be rude, in my opinion- or to get out of line. That;s just my two cents worth. Oh, and the Joe, shmoe truck drivers? THOSE are the ones I try to steer clear of and have had some real problems with.....
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I had a sports player who went on and on about how I should know who is because he is on tv. Nope - don't watch sport.
I faked an interest too well and the whole thing devolved into an argument about why I wouldn't have sex with him for FREE. Because he was 'attractive' and 'its mutual'.
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amberlly
I had a sports player who went on and on about how I should know who is because he is on tv. Nope - don't watch sport.
I faked an interest too well and the whole thing devolved into an argument about why I wouldn't have sex with him for FREE. Because he was 'attractive' and 'its mutual'.
ugh, yeah this.
I've only had one "high profile" guy & he was an extreme sports star. Just my bad luck I happened to mention the untimely death of a man he had socialized with (another extreme sports pro.) Thank God I didn't ruin the appointment with that.
One of the wealthiest customers I ever had was cheap, grabby and annoying. Ladies, Google is your friend- if I had Googled that dipstick I would have never had my time wasted in that manner. A trick is to be tricked!!!
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Amberlly, I'm so sorry and can relate. I had a gym rat one time who had the nerve to say that I should be paying him. Then he picked me up and lifted me a few times into the air to prove his strength and manliness. Wtf? All I could think was that I was dealing with a retard on 'roids. I seriously think it just has to do with the personality and maturity level of the guy. An arrogant ass is an arrogant ass, famous or not. And the same thing goes for the nice guys. So, If nothing else- PLEASE put notes about his behavior on all the screening sites, so we know what to look out for. I don't care how famous someone is. I don't want to have to deal with that bullshit either. And if that is the way your client felt, then he needs to just leave us all the hell alone. Ugh!! Sorry you ran into that!