weird question re: kicking somebody in the bollocks
Well basically...
I'm very clear with all the guys who talk to me on cam that I do NOT do meet ups. My husband and I have an understanding that he's fine with people looking at me but not touching.
Anyway I was on cam yesterday, and this guy came on and asked me if I would consider meeting him... not to do ANYTHING sexual at all, but... get this... he wants me to kick and knee him in the bollocks as hard as possible.
That's all he wants. Just to have the shit kicked out of him basically.
It's the weirdest request ever! I just can't get my head around it.
There would be no nudity, nothing sexual at all, and he doesn't even mind if my husband was there to supervise. He just wants me to preferably wear heels, and (and I quote) try to floor him by kicking him in the balls as hard as I can.
Well he's been messaging me and want to know if I'll consider it and how much I'll charge.
I've had a look at his feedback on his profile from other girls, and a lot of it is stuff like "had such a great time kicking you. You need another good kicking baby! x"
so it sounds like other girls have done it!
He want to know what I'll charge. I haven't the foggiest clue what to say! I've said I'll do it but that I'll need a written consent (I don't want to go to prison for assault!) but what the hell do I charge for something like that?!
I'm so weirded out lol. I really REALLY need the money though.
What would you do?
Re: weird question re: kicking somebody in the bollocks
First off, has he actually spent anything on you yet? 99.99999% (yes, that is an exact number lol) of the guys who talk about meeting up, even for fetish stuff like that, have no intention of actually doing it, much less paying for it. And the girls who leave feedback may very well be talking about it in the context of a cam show. I've had a lot of shows where we talked about it as if I was the one doing the (kicking, licking, fucking, what have you) when he was just "stimulating" himself in the appropriate way and watching me on his screen. I'm assuming you work Adultwork as that's the only combined cam/escort site that I know of. If you work pretty much any site other than Adultwork I would tread VERY CAREFULLY as any talk of meeting outside the site is likely to make you lose your account.
If you go through with it I would get written consent (even though I don't think that would mean much, legally speaking) and would refuse to do anything likely to cause permanent damage (that is, I'd stop at any signs of bleeding, major swelling, etc.)
I'd also charge him out the nose. As in, at least as much as an escort would charge for full service, maybe more.
Re: weird question re: kicking somebody in the bollocks
Yes I work Adultwork
It's so strange isn't it? I'm still in two minds about it!
Re: weird question re: kicking somebody in the bollocks
Yes I work Adultwork
It's so strange isn't it? I'm still in two minds about it!
And no he hasn't spent anything yet.
Re: weird question re: kicking somebody in the bollocks
It's not all that strange, sounds like he has a run of the mill CBT/ball-busting fetish. It's pretty common among subs however if you're physically doing the ball-busting (as opposed to instructing him on cam) it's a lot riskier for you, both in terms of your safety and legal liability. You might try asking in the Other Work forum.
Re: weird question re: kicking somebody in the bollocks
It's not at all weird. It's a common fetish CBT, and ball busting, it's even a popular category on clips4sale. That said if you're not comfortable with it just say no.
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Hasn't spent anything? this means just talking/writing to you about it is just beginning to get him off. It may be something to spend energy thinking about IF he actually.....pays for your time, online included. He could keep messaging you 227 times without paying anything, all while stroking his cock just reading your replies even entertaining the idea.
Time is money. If he's serious, he'd pay...for a vid, for a meetup (be it with an escort or you, whomever), otherwise, he's just a guy getting dirty talk for free because it doesn't seem so dirty to us [to just talk about kicking him in the balls].
Be careful babe!
Re: weird question re: kicking somebody in the bollocks
Guys who are into this sort of thing are willing to pay to have it done. They can be very particular about who they want to do it as well. As are most fetish guys. Look at the profiles of the girls who rated him. What do they charge? Did he rate them back? Then decide what it's worth to you. That's usually how I come up with my price points. Good luck!...Oh and twist those bollocks one time for me.