Originally Posted by
Sam38g
That is their way of saying that they are on HIS SIDE... So beware. You are their kin, how can they NOT be involved. That is major passive aggressive behavior. Any court appointed child advocate will interview them, especially your MOM who watches your kid while you work. She can be poison in your case.
You don't seek out under age men, they don't have credit cards. Cam sites go to good measures about ONLY legally aged people camming or watching paid chats. Far Far from a predator situation.
Maybe you need to find a mediator or therapist & see them in how to proceed. Then maybe bring in your family for a few sessions to undo some of the wrongful thinking your Mom & Sis have about this industry & your job. A third party who will be your advocate.
You might need to find a new baby sitter while you are at it instead of your Mom. Find the most notorious, get the job done lawyer you can find. Not one who thinks the law is always on your side & right.
Face it, all child custody & family squabbles GET ugly. You ex has not been involved till now, hit him with a child support bill & past child support, half the health care bills & such. Trust that will run him off. He maybe under a misunderstanding that getting custody now will absolve him of the past child support payments, it does NOT! It in't about whether or not you can support your child but about hitting him up for tens of thousands of dollars in back child support to scare him away.
Interview several lawyers. Get the dirt & document it NOW on the father, your Mother, Your sister, your baby daddy's family. Go to their facebook pages & print out EVERY pic of them partying & drinking. Clean your page up before they can do it to you.
Quicker you get the DIRT on all of them the less stress, cost & time this will all take. Being the good girl who didn't hit below the belt with people who already have won't work in this situation.
Good Luck,
Sam