What do you do when customers ask you to hang out after work or go out to eat with them? I find it pretty annoying, considering the fact that I'm there to make money, not start relationships.
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What do you do when customers ask you to hang out after work or go out to eat with them? I find it pretty annoying, considering the fact that I'm there to make money, not start relationships.
i tell them i've been working for 10 hours, and i need to get up early but they are welcome to come back and see me on xyz days, smile, and that's it. firm but polite. and yes it is annoying! its like, no i wanna get home to my boyfriend, a hot bath, and my bed!
Idk if there is a right answer here. I have tried concussion-inducing bluntness(NO, mofo) tried the sweet approach, flirty … I have yet to win any prizes (i.e. more $$$) from any1 who asks me this.
They ask about after shift: I need to sleep because I have a long shift tomorrow.
They then ask about later in week: I'm working a lot and an pretty busy. I'll be in club on XYZ days.
They pathetically ask about next week: I don't know my schedule yet, but I'm usually in club on these days, so I'll see you then.
I straight up tell them I don't have the time--if I'm not at work I'm in school full-time or cramming in as much sleep as possible to wake up and do it all over again--which is mostly true. I tell them I'll see them next time they happen to stop by the club.
I tell them I need to get home to my dog. My stripper persona has a dog that she absolutely adores.
I tell them I have to go home and feed my hamster after work. It's the truth and I just run with it.
Sometimes I'll egg them on about hanging out until they pay me. After I get paid I'll walk away while they're pulling out their phone to get my number lol.
I tell them the honest to God truth: I'm pushing 30 and while I have a fanfuckingtastic body it takes work and discipline to maintain, ergo I'm going to the fucking gym. They're always more than welcome to join, of course. ::) (trust me nobody ever has taken me up on that)
For Saturday nights: "Well, I have to wake up early to be in church tomorrow. Unless you want to come with me?! C'mon, let's go sin so I have something to confess."
"Hmmm. My daddy's usually still up cleaning his shotguns when I come home, so that's probably not a good idea… Want to go back in the VIP so I can feel up your guns?! [squeeze his bicep]"
"Well, I actually live here in the club and I never leave. So yeah! Let's just stay in the VIP until dawn!"
I find that it's best to not ever tell customers the dreary truth about your humanity (unless they are a weirdo reg with a real girl fetish). Stay a fantasy goddess who never takes her fake eyelashes off, you know? I just try to imply "no" as many different ways as possible while never explicitly saying no.
This is great advice! Fantastic lines, I love them! Hahaha I'm so using that church line. Sometimes when I tell people I'm from central PA - Amish country and they say "you're Amish?!?!?!" And I just roll with it "yes I'm an Amish stripper fresh off the farm but I really do enjoy my naughty side, lets go to the champagne room where I can really let loose... I might even show you my ankles..." They have realized by this point that I'm not Amish of course but joking around nearly always sells dances lol
I tell them I'd love to hang out with them. My time is $600/ hour no sex.
The conversation usually ends right there.
I'm actually curious about this. For the ladies that have posted already, do the guys actually stop bugging you about it after you give them your excuse? It seems like no matter WHAT I say about going home to my boyfriend, needing sleep, having to walk my dog, etc. etc. they just won't leave the subject alone!
"No thank you, I don't go out with customers" OR "This is only our first date, I prefer to get to know you here first! Let's take the VIP tour."
Occasionally I'll bring up the murder of the dancer here in New Orleans if they are persistent.
I have class super early in the morning but we can hang out here in the private room all night !
But why not??!? They might even be your soullllllmaaaate.... ::) *sarcasm* for your other thread.
I just tell them I can't. Some respect my honesty and come back to spend on me, some I don't see anymore.