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The Fetish, Fantasy, BDSM, Kink and alternative sexuality camming thread.
So, I looked and saw a lot of small threads here and there about engaging with fetish clients, online Domme / Dominatrix / submission, fantasy (such as role play) and didn't seem to find one that just was a general discussion area for those of us who use that as our main staple. Really, just a place to discuss various altsex clients wants, how to fulfill them best, exchange keen play ideas and whatnot. It can be genuinely challenging to fulfill some clients desires.
What's the best balloons for 'looners? What's a looner? Adult baby? Mommy Domme? What? How to even do that via the web? How the heck can I do financial domination without crossing any legal/personal barriers? What's a reliable payment processor? How do you treat a human puppy across the damn ocean? What are the average rates for an hour session? How long is the average session? How do I negotiate with these clients? These are all valid questions, and as I've personally found - if you're not too bothered by the idea of wearing a sweater for someone's sexual gratification - or equally as strange things - it's quite a viable client base.
So... to start off with my current quandry - I have a lot of clients who want some pain play, a bit of sadism sent their way. Often times though, I find them utterly unprepared toy wise. Sure, there's the usual rubber bands, shoe strings, ice, the usual kitchen utensils for smacking themselves - but what else? I've got a few return boys who won't keep toys in the house but still need a fresh experience eventually - any other gals have any advice on improvised pain/bondage toys?
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i have a deep interest in mommy domme, findom, and how to maintain obedient subs online. i know people feel like it should come naturally, but it's hard to control someone who's text/pixels on a screen. i'm excited to see the information that comes here!
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I ask them LOTS of questions to get creative ideas of things they could do. By getting inside their head and putting myself in their surroundings, I can picture in my mind activities or objects that will work in the situation. You can pervert so many random things. Unfortunately, that is my short answer. Thanks for starting this thread. I'll get back with some helpful links about pervertables. In the meantime, you can google "list of pervertables" and you might get some ideas. Hope this helps a little
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I'm curious if there are any cam sites that specialize in fetishes?
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I had a looner regular a few years back and he asked if I could get some of Target's brand of balloons, I believe called "spritz". I like them much more than the other ones I had because they're nicely balanced and pop real nice I think. I don't know how to explain it, but I prefer them as far as regular loons go.
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Originally Posted by
Rolly
So... to start off with my current quandry - I have a lot of clients who want some pain play, a bit of sadism sent their way. Often times though, I find them utterly unprepared toy wise. Sure, there's the usual rubber bands, shoe strings, ice, the usual kitchen utensils for smacking themselves - but what else? I've got a few return boys who won't keep toys in the house but still need a fresh experience eventually - any other gals have any advice on improvised pain/bondage toys?
So I'm super into CBT. Dictionary dick smashing, toilet seat cock crushing, hammers, shoe beatings (as in smacking their cock against a table with their shoes), remotes, clothes pins.... the list goes on and on. I read a blog years ago about a frugal dom with a cbt fetish and she inspired me to get creative.
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Hey, thanks a lot for the thread!
Here is my little contribution to findom.
On a token site, when a sub guy tips me, I praise him and say something like
- I know you love it so much to please the Lady, don't you
- You are the one who craves to be drained completely
- I feel it, the pleasure of giving you feel at the moment
- You desire to give Me everything you have
Blah blah blah, basically it is about telling the guy how good HE feels when gives US da money.
It worked, like, twice though xD But worth trying once you catch someone
Good luck!
Anyone with experience in Mommy Domme? Urgent need!
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Basically anything that is in your home you can use for CBT.
Qtips, tweezers, toothpaste, bengay, vicks, clothes pins, zip ties, toothpicks, hot sauce, meat tenderizer, rolling pin, rubber bands, sticks, nettles, belt, shoe laces, rope, string. That's just what I can think of off the top of my head.
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Originally Posted by
KittyCurious
Hey, thanks a lot for the thread!
Here is my little contribution to findom.
On a token site, when a sub guy tips me, I praise him and say something like
- I know you love it so much to please the Lady, don't you
- You are the one who craves to be drained completely
- I feel it, the pleasure of giving you feel at the moment
- You desire to give Me everything you have
Blah blah blah, basically it is about telling the guy how good HE feels when gives US da money.
It worked, like, twice though xD But worth trying once you catch someone
Good luck!
Anyone with experience in Mommy Domme? Urgent need!
I am an ABDL and specialize in ABDL/Mommy Domme stuff.
There are really 2 kinds of Mommies, one is a mean Mommy and one is a nice mommy, really depending on where the person falls.
But in general, the biggest thrill from a Mommy Domme is humiliation.
forcing them into diapers, forcing them to wet themselves, drawing attention to the obvious boner they are sporting.
Some men enjoy the nice caring mommy who says things like
"You are too little to do that! here let mommy take care of you"
"Uh oh! did someone make a mess? here, let momma clean you up!"
"Look at how cute you are! Whose mommy's good little boy?"
Or the mean mommy
"You little shit!! You are are going to wear this pink dress weather you like it or not!!"
"You piss on the floor and so help me I am going to spank you, is that what you want is a spanking?!"
"Mommyi s very angry with you! Bend over i am going to give you a spanking you wont soon forget!"
Humiliation would be saying things like
"I invited all of your friends over- but you need to wear this adorable outfit mommy has chosen for you because you are just soo cute!"
"I don't care who see's you wearing a diaper, you will wear it and like it!"
"I want you to be mommy's little baby again"
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Thanks a lot, going to test tonight!
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Re: The Fetish, Fantasy, BDSM, Kink and alternative sexuality camming thread.
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Originally Posted by
justsometwat
Basically anything that is in your home you can use for CBT.
Qtips, tweezers, toothpaste, bengay, vicks, clothes pins, zip ties, toothpicks, hot sauce, meat tenderizer, rolling pin, rubber bands, sticks, nettles, belt, shoe laces, rope, string. That's just what I can think of off the top of my head.
Icy hot is also excellent.