Interesting Questions for Providers
I have 4 bucks left in my purse so I need some entertainment that's affordable. SW it is lol!
What are your top 5 things that make you hate this industry and why? here are mine. If you're having a crap day feel free to post your 5 that bring you down ;). Note...it's not a positive thread. It's more of a vent thread.
1. the constant lies from certain providers and hobbyists for their own entertainment.
2. the things that go on behind the scene which screw providers over. Clients are never loyal/ confidential.
3, fake reviews that make your funds/ clients disappear since no one books you now because of a guy wanting free vip for his selfish desire.
4. the clients that don't leave you alone when the appointment ends and many try shorting my rate in an effort to screw me over.
5. Guys asking for cheaper rates during the appointment after agreeing through email that the rate is fine.
Now your turn :).
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1. The phones and booking independently. Sifting through bs and so very, very many inappropriate calls.
2. No shows.
3. Over-stayers. I've got a schedule to keep and I want to take a damn shower, thanks.
4. Hagglers/Cheapos. Come back when you get your shit together because I'm not just here for shits & giggles.
5. Clients who come to me smelly/unshowered and expect me to not include their showering time into the rate (let them shower, then start the clock).....I have a schedule, this is my effing job and t was your damn job not to come to me smelling like a zoo. I have actually had people give me a problem about washing up, even washing hands.
6. Constantly being on your toes at work. The stress of fight or flight response being the norm. Nervousness caused by distrust of ellie, clients, hotel staff, agency, partner, etc.
This list is ridiculous and I can say be prepared for this ~ these are crappy things to be aware of if you want to work as a mid-range in new england.....BUT that being said, there are positives and negatives, you've just got to do your best to keep your head up and protect yourself.
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-The ones that want me to hang out for free
-The ones that try to give me a creepy massage and THEN try to stick it in without a condom!!
-Annoying regulars that think they're entitled to a huge discount
-Losers that try to take donation back or accept their check payment because they left wallet in car
-The stinky old ones that want to kiss all over me and then ask why I won't kiss them ICCKKK!!
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1. Shady fellow providers. They make my job harder by making clients paranoid and not wanting to give me the info I need. Also - girls who won't give references. As though that's gonna stop "their" clients from seeing other providers. Get over it, help everyone stay safe, and don't be a bitch - this is business, and we need to look out for each other because no one else will.
2. Going way over time. I generally have a pretty lax attitude about the clock, because I can genuinely get caught up in talking and asking questions, and gabbing too much, so I build a half hour buffer into every appointment so I'm not scrambling to push them out the door if I scheduled another client too soon. But the ones who just won't leave when it's clearly over... Or worse, they have 5 minutes left on the clock and try to go for "round 2" - like, no, dude, time's up. You shoulda started that sooner or deal with the fact that it's not gonna happen in time. Or guys who want to "take me out for dinner afterward" - off the clock, of course...
3. Guys contacting me just to tell me that they think my prices are too high. That's nice? I don't care. There are plenty of girls in your price range - have fun with that. I've had almost all my clients tell me afterward that they understand my price and are impressed with the amount of effort and detail I put into my appointments. Read my reviews, pay for that quality experience, or, if you don't care about that, move on and pay less. You aren't entitled to my services at whatever rate you think is "reasonable." You don't need to contact me just to tell me that you won't be booking with me.
Like, is this supposed to be some psychological trick? As though they think that if they "show me" the money I "missed out on" I'll eventually lower my prices? Because I sooo desperately want to be in the price range of someone who's a complete asshat...
4. Guys trying to "sneak it in" without a condom or complaining about condoms or asking if they can "just stick it in real quick once to get going" or "I'm not gonna cum inside you" - as though pregnancy is the only thing to be worried about and diseases aren't spread through anything but full-on ejaculate accompanied by orgasm... I just.... can't even.... Where the fuck was everyone else in 7th grade health class?
5. Guy friends who think my job is "so easy" and I'm clearly just rolling in hoardes of cash all day every day for doing nothing; And especially when they say shit like "God, I would totally be all over whoring if I was a woman." No. No, you wouldn't. I could, (and have, in a blog), ranted about that nonsense declaration all day, but I won't go into it here.
Bonus #6. When guys go on and on about how they can't believe I'm single. It's such a rude, insensitive topic. You have no idea why I'm single, or how I feel about my single status. Just enjoy the fact that I'm free to spend time with you like this. It's not a compliment - it just feels like you're trying to suss out what's "wrong" with me or dig into my personal life. Just... stahp!
Overall, I do love this job, and could easily make a list of all the things I like about it as well. But it's nice to rant about the lesser parts sometimes as well. :D
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Clients who hit on sensitive topics and refuse to drop them. Like they are entitled to sit and pry during sessions.
Example - yesterday one client kept trying to guess my weight. He was pretty accurate but I was ready to kill him. I kept saying drop it.
Begging - if I say no - accept it. Anything else makes you look pathetic. Trying to sneak past boundaries is scummy.
Biting!! Reccently I have influx of clients who try to bite me. It hurts and I hate it. I have been hurting them back. New rule - you bite once, no part of my body goes in your mouth again. You clearly can't be trusted. Biters are repeat offenders.
Being told off and saying "Im sorry" and doing it again two minutes later. You. Are. so. lucky. murder. is. illegal.
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amberlly
Begging - if I say no - accept it. Anything else makes you look pathetic. Trying to sneak past boundaries is scummy.
I will add whining to the list. Nothing gets me hotter than stating a boundary and having someone whine about it. Not! It's not cute coming from a 4-year-old and it sure as hell isn't cute coming from you.
Also: paranoid customers. I had a guy want to pick me up in a parking lot (!) then drive me (!!) to a "friend's" house because he didn't want me to know where he lived. Dude, stay home and jack off. Or, invest in better quality escorts, because whoever you've been seeing is obviously kinda scary.
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Literally LOL'd at"nothing gets me hotter". I second this one, for sure.
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Taylorgrrl
Also: paranoid customers.....
invest in better quality escorts, because whoever you've been seeing is obviously kinda scary.
Jeezus, right? Not too long ago, I had a guy email me going on and on about how much he wanted to meet me, giving me his "physical stats" (like I care), and going into poetics about how much I would enjoy my time with him. 3 minutes later, before I even got a chance to reply, he emails me again: "Oh, I realize you screen. Sorry can't do that. Married and need to avoid the drama."
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Who the hell do you think you're gonna contact who doesn't screen, and what weird-ass bitches have you seen in the past that make you think your marriage would be in danger if you give me proper screening info? We make a living off of being DISCREET. I don't give a shit about telling your wife or knowing who you really are so I can "ruin you" or something.... It's not as though my screening process is gonna be calling your wife to verify who you are.... Seriously....