Originally Posted by
ExoticBeauty4U
Omg I so relate to you girls! Glad to read everyones different perspectives on it. Anonymous you may have a point about the life path thing i too am a LP 4 . Im also not a very romantic touchy feely person. Infact truth be told, if i could do as well financially by myself as i do having a partner and wasnt scared of the dark lol than i would probably be single. But I HAVE to be financially stable or else im depressed. Sometimes I get annoyed by my SO because hes feels im obsessed with working and he prefers that i do it whiles he not home which i respect. But Im always thinking about money, and even just sitting in the house doing nothing but watching tv i feel i could be camming, but yet he feels that its "quality time" which keeps us just from being roommates. The older I get I realized I wanted to get married and have children just to make my mother happy and thought that maybe others would finally accept me despite my past... definitely wasnt to make myself happy. Also while i dont like all the touchy feely stuff, I do love talking to my SO when he actually listens and hanging out with him but i cant get down with the constant affection thing or clinginess . My hubby has finally accepted that I dont like it so we now sleep in separate beds and while it makes ME super happy, he says it bothers him but he doesnt complain anymore. Hmm just realized i may be somewhat aromantic too i suppose.
Im also more physically attracted to women and thought well maybe i just dont like men sexually and would enjoy women more but being with a woman was the most boring thing ever and i realized thats sooo not for me. So i do enjoy male companionship but much rather just masturbate than to be bothered with sex. But im very happy without and people dont seem to understand that. My question is have any of you ever maintained a healthy relationship being asexual? I sometimes wonder if my SO is cheating bc men need sex right? Plus he doesnt pester me for it anymore. I think he felt insulted the last couple of times i fell asleep during the act.