Self conscious about body
I am about 5'6 and145 pounds I have slight stretch marks on my sides and I'm wondering if this will turn off customers my boobs aren't perfect they are a 36 D cup and I have large areoles and I know that every customer has some kind of preference so in your experience will this affect me negatively I'm pretty comfortable with my body I just don't know if I will make good money
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No, not at all. Chances are they won't even notice the stretch marks,I have stretch marks and no one has ever said anything. If you don't get hung up on it, they won't either. Also as you noted, different guys have different preferences, which means some guys are going to love your boobs especially for the way they look. You will most likely be surprised by the things guys tell you they love about you. Embrace your look and your niche. . I think the softness of webcams help too, they tend to smooth things out. Go in there like you're hot shit and they will believe you.
When you do get trolls, do not respond, just smile and block. And while you hit the block button imagine a giant fist smashing the dude's balls, that's what I do :)
Edit: This is for camming, not dancing. Sorry!
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thatgingercamgirl
No, not at all. Chances are they won't even notice the stretch marks,I have stretch marks and no one has ever said anything. If you don't get hung up on it, they won't either. Also as you noted, different guys have different preferences, which means some guys are going to love your boobs especially for the way they look. You will most likely be surprised by the things guys tell you they love about you. Embrace your look and your niche. . I think the softness of webcams help too, they tend to smooth things out. Go in there like you're hot shit and they will believe you.
When you do get trolls, do not respond, just smile and block. And while you hit the block button imagine a giant fist smashing the dude's balls, that's what I do :)
I think she means with dancing, not camming.
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Oh, you're right. Sorry Roxie, I'm no help on that side of things :(
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You'll be fine! I've got a tiny chest, some stretch marks on the insides of my thighs, and a few more pounds to drop. No one has ever said a thing, and my earnings are fine. In the dim lighting, a lot of "flaws" are hidden plus, as you said, everyone has different preferences. So long as you're confident, customers will see you as a vixen.
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Dudes aren't nearly as picky as we are. I've seen absolute trolls in this business and they still made their money.
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I think you'll be fine also..there's a BB Body Creme out by Jergens that camoflages inperfections or you can use self tanner
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I used to be overweight and I made money. I toned up but I'm covered in stretch marks and I make even more money. Hit the gym if you're self conscious.
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I've never danced in a club ( currently a camgirl ) but I did work at an amp-style spa and nudity was optional. I'm the same height and roughly the same weight as you. I'm a 32dd. I never heard negative comments about my body, only compliments and I have more than my fair share of stretch marks.
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you'll be fine, trust me. guys don't notice little petty shit like that.. i'm around you weight, except i'm actually shorter, and its all in how you carry it, and yourself. i have huge stretch tears on the side of my stomach, i slap on some self tanner and even the girls i work with said they hadn't noticed until i pointed it out. the lights in there are dim and forgiving, and lots of dudes loves large aereolas.
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If it's stage that has you worried, when the bright flashy strobes are on you onstage, the flashes will make it impossible to see any imperfections. I have a thick, three-inch scar on my upper arm, impossible to hide, too old to improve & too deep to improve even when it was new -- girls performing onstage w/ me couldn't even see it. There are also a lot of moving lights onstage that combined w/ the dimness of the club, will play tricks on observers' eyes, in your favour. I was self-conscious abt scarring when I started. Mgr looked at my scars in normal light & said 'Bullshit -- you'll look fine!' This was a mid-tier club too.
Anything else can be fixed by toning up. You don't need to get ripped by any means, but if you haven't already started working out, get on that so you can build up strength & stamina … agility will come … intellect & spirit (read: hustle & enthusiasm for $$)will improve the longer you dance. <---- sry for the gamer reference, just got done raiding on WoW …
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Thank you all for the reassurance I was trying to post a pic but am not sure how to
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Like another girl mentioned, it depends on how you carry your weight. As far as ariola size, I work with a girl whose are larger than average and customers love em. Overall, men tend to view us with rose colored glasses while we critique ourselves with a microscope lol. Don't stress, just jump in and start makin that money!