Re: closing a first dance
I'll say "enough about this, lets have some fun!" after having some conversation. It usually works. It's also easy because even if you're not on the topic of being sexy, it brings the focus back to closing a sale.
Re: closing a first dance
If what you're looking for is a guaranteed closing line that will work every time, there is no such thing.
Your interactions w/ a customer prior to 'popping the question' should tell you whether they will respond most positively to a sultry 'come hither' proposal, a more direct 'You'll do -- let's go' or even smtg humourous. There are many threads containing suggestions for all of these possibilities in HH, you just might have to dig for them
Re: closing a first dance
There are a lot of great tips on Hustle Hut (my favorite posts are all in the stickies. This one in particular is great: https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...helpful-things).
But honestly, I have had a lot of success just be confident and up-front. Saying things like, "You look ready for a dance," and batting my eyelashes all cutesy works so often (for me, anyway--I have a very sweet, girl-next-door type stripper persona). I usually do that when there's a pause in the conversation, or after the second song I've been sitting with a guy for ends. Every stripper has a different style, but I always have the most success being very friendly and really appearing that I care about their problems and want to spend time with them, while always making light physical contact.
Other lines that work are: "Let's go play," as you take their hand and lead them to the private dance area. If I'm feeling very playful I'll sit down on a guy's lap and say, "You look like you could use a naked girl on top of you." Or, if you speak a foreign language or have another talent, you can use it to sell dances. Since I speak Russian and have traveled in Russia, that's something easy to work into a normal conversation (for instance, we'll be talking about drinks and I'll talk about drinking vodka in Russia or something) so I'll say, "Well, let me show you how they do it Russia, then," and offer to start dancing or say, "Here's how they say, 'let' dance' in Russian," etc (this probably only works cause there's no actual E-Bloc girls in my area haha). You can find a ton of these lines in the stickies if you dig.
Re: closing a first dance
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Aniela
If what you're looking for is a guaranteed closing line that will work every time, there is no such thing.
Your interactions w/ a customer prior to 'popping the question' should tell you whether they will respond most positively to a sultry 'come hither' proposal, a more direct 'You'll do -- let's go' or even smtg humourous. There are many threads containing suggestions for all of these possibilities in HH, you just might have to dig for them
This can't be said enough.
I find I have the best close rate when I naturally segue into closing the sale, rather than just throwing out a random line during a lull in conversation. So, if we're talking about how cold it is, I'll close by offering to warm them up. If they're from out of town, I'll close by offering them a real 'local city' welcome/send off. If we're talking about Star Wars, I'll offer to be their Princess Leia. etc. etc. The more natural your close is, the more successful it'll be.
Also, you always want to assume the sale. Don't just ask for a dance -- tell them it's time for one.
If and when the conversation isn't flowing and there's not much of a natural segue into closing the sale, my go-to line is usually, "Alright babe, let's go play!" or "It's time to have some fun!" Nothing that specifies dances or gives them the option to say no. Then, I get up and start leading them to the dance room.
Re: closing a first dance
I usually wait for a pause in the conversation, smile flirtatiously and say "So, when are you gonna get me naked?" after a couple minutes of chit chat. They usually smile and go right then or ask me to come back. I've had higher success rate with that than saying the word "dance." With Spanish speakers I've just learned to ask for a dance in Spanish and they love it. I got a lot of dances that way last night. Just experiment and see what comes naturally to you.
Re: closing a first dance
"I have big boobs and I'm already naked."
Re: closing a first dance
It depends on the customer, but I usually work day shifts and the guys there after about 4:00PM are usually just getting off work. I make small talk about whatever and play up how stressed out they must be from their very powerful jobs then lean in and whisper "why don't we go to the back so I can help you relax?". This works 9 out of 10 times.
Re: closing a first dance
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shanna dior
Don't just ask for a dance -- tell them it's time for one.
Sometimes this really does work. I walked past a guy on a busy night and stopped him and said "Let's go!" and he was like "fuck it!" and got dances. He was young though I think that only really works with younger guys not the older ones that want to talk first. With my experience the longer I talk to the younger ones the least likely it is they'll get dances. They end up just wanting my number or wanting to "party when I'm off". If they are getting any dances that night they'll get them right when you start talking to them. The older men are the ones who like to talk but they're usually the ones with money too.
Re: closing a first dance
Wait until the end of the dance and then start getting closer to him than you were for the beginning of the song and make him feel like he's going to get more if he stays longer and whisper in his ear if he wants to stay in there with you a couple extra songs, or if he really wants to have fun, if he wants to go upstairs!