I did it !!!! ... Finally I'm official a dancer:)!! But I have a few questions, HELP
Hi guys , I finally stopped punking out & went to a club near me , got hired & worked the same night! Although I showed up about 2hours before closing , I got dressed & got on the floor! I started off very shy , kinda standing off to myself looking lost lol. Then a customer sent a dancer he was w/ over to get me, but the good thing was he happened to be a manger at another club ... We talked for sometime , he gave me some good tips & in the last hour I made close to 250$ ! I was ecstatic ! I'm in love w/ embracing & being comfortable w/ my body & myself infront of strangers the feelings is amazing! & it helps to be making money at the same time to lol:) .. It was totally what I didn't expect but better! Now the next step is learning to start & hold conversation w/ a drunk guy or girl lol, instead if just asking "want a dance" I need help w/ this badly! I find myself not knowing how to keep it going & it's very awkward. Also I think I may be spending to much time w/ a client that's not spending enough, how do I get one guy to spend more money or how to I let him know if he doesn't keep spending I have to go on to the next ? Also my stage performance SUCKS! How do I open up & let go on stage ? I am a pretty good dancer & I've practiced moves at home but when I get on the stage it's like I freeze up & forget everything . I find myself doing the same thing over & over.. Also the guys there seem to be more interested in paying for sex at the club rather a dance & I'm totally not for it! I've heard from a few people in the club that a few girls do so im guessing they can tell ima newbbie that's maybe why I keep getting approached in this manner how do I keep then focused on me just dancing & nothing more ?! Please help me lol!!!!! Thanks loves ! Oh & it's been about 1week at this club ..
Re: I did it !!!! ... Finally I'm official a dancer:)!! But I have a few questions, H
First, re: extras & deflecting extras requests -- there are a lot of threads in Hustle Hut on this, as it is a frequent topic even among experienced dancers. If your club is really bad in this regard & you don't have other options at the moment, or even if it is not TOO bad, one of my go-to recommendations is titled smtg 'How to make money as a clean dancer in a club w/ heavy extras' The link should be in one of the recent threads in Stripping General, I think, since it was recently referenced. Otherwise search for Laurisa, the SW member who created that thread, & search for it via her profile.
Timewasters: there is actually a thread called 'How to spot a timewaster' It is a bit subjective, & slightly tongue-in-cheek at times, but it lists the hallmarks of these wankers. Searching that thread should also turn up other threads on how to handle them.
Stage: this will just take practise. For starters, Slow. The fk. Down. Whatever it is you're doing, take your sweet-ass pimp time, you're probably up there for a 2-3 song set, right? That's roughly 7-12min depending on song length. The biggest mistake many new girls make is dancing too fast. You wear yourself out, look spazzy & get super repetitive. So take your time, just completely tune out your audience or look out over the room but pretend it's empty. The pole is your prop, if you have one on your stage, & you can use it that way even w/o the fancy acrobatics. Simple spins, twirls, lean your back against it when slowly sliding down to the floor or back up.
Re: I did it !!!! ... Finally I'm official a dancer:)!! But I have a few questions, H
If I get asked for extras I quote my friend Ariana from Daydreams: "I'm pretty, I don't need to do that!" "I'm pretty not desperate!"
Re: I did it !!!! ... Finally I'm official a dancer:)!! But I have a few questions, H
Hey honey, thanks for responding , I really appreciate it! I'm going to check out those treads. & your totally right I am dancing to fast on the stage , & I do kinda ware myself out & find myself going back to doing the same things over & over . I guess more practice is needed , I see that's all I can possibly do! I have so much work to do!
Re: I did it !!!! ... Finally I'm official a dancer:)!! But I have a few questions, H
lol , I like that!!! It's cute short & sweet, it's not to much it's just right ! Thanks, I'm def putting that one to use!