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I've only been dancing for a week! I have a few questions , can anyone help please !!
Hi guys , I finally stopped punking out & went to a club near me , got hired & worked the same night! Although I showed up about 2hours before closing , I got dressed & got on the floor! I started off very shy , kinda standing off to myself looking lost lol. Then a customer sent a dancer he was w/ over to get me, but the good thing was he happened to be a manger at another club ... We talked for sometime , he gave me some good tips & in the last hour I made close to 250$ ! I was ecstatic ! I'm in love w/ embracing & being comfortable w/ my body & myself infront of strangers the feelings is amazing! & it helps to be making money at the same time to lol .. It was totally what I didn't expect but better! Now the next step is learning to start & hold conversation w/ a drunk guy or girl lol, instead if just asking "want a dance" I need help w/ this badly! I find myself not knowing how to keep it going & it's very awkward. Also I think I may be spending to much time w/ a client that's not spending enough, how do I get one guy to spend more money or how to I let him know if he doesn't keep spending I have to go on to the next ? Also my stage performance SUCKS! How do I open up & let go on stage ? I am a pretty good dancer & I've practiced moves at home but when I get on the stage it's like I freeze up & forget everything . I find myself doing the same thing over & over.. Also the guys there seem to be more interested in paying for sex at the club rather a dance & I'm totally not for it! I've heard from a few people in the club that a few girls do so im guessing they can tell ima newbbie that's maybe why I keep getting approached in this manner how do I keep then focused on me just dancing & nothing more ?! Please help me lol!!!!! Thanks loves ! Oh & it's been about 1week at this club ..
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Re: I've only been dancing for a week! I have a few questions , can anyone help pleas
You're going to look like an idiot for awhile. We all go through the "Jamie Lee Curtis" phase. Only cure for that is time. Just go slow and point your toes.
If you want a surefire moneymaker buy a set of fake tits. Then nobody will give a shit if you're new or not. Tits are a pretty versatile weapon. They can start a conversation or stop it. Ever since I slimmed down after my BA I am the Jedi master of boobs.
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Re: I've only been dancing for a week! I have a few questions , can anyone help pleas
Hey honey, first things first thanks for responding, I appreciate it so much! & trust me I know you can never go wrong w/ boobs ! & to be honest I'm secretly saving for some lol, the more money I make the faster I'll be able to get them. That is the reason I'm trying to learn as much as quickly as possible! But I guess your right , everything takes time. But I'm sooo ready to be a confident dancers that knows how to make good money every time I'm on the scene. I guess my best bet is to keep at it.
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Re: I've only been dancing for a week! I have a few questions , can anyone help pleas
Keep it moving. Sit with someone for 3 songs then ask for a dance. I'm usually pretty blunt so I'd advise against my approach. "Time is money. You don't have money, I don't have time for you!"
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Re: I've only been dancing for a week! I have a few questions , can anyone help pleas
Prefect ! I think I may be just as blunt as you are, but at my club they advise the dancers to try a different approach.. I think that's kinda crazy & that's what I'm hung up on , trying to figure out what else to say to get dance.
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HELP ME PLEASE !! I don't know what to say:(
Ok guys so I've only been dancing for about two weeks now & I do feel more comfortable w/ the job . Things is all the girls at the club seem to get private dances & guys see me on stage they tip as a walk around but I'm having trouble selling dances! This is very discouraging ! Or when I do get a dance I can't get pass two w/ one guy, I don't know what I'm doing wrong! I'm a very friendly girl & I'm pretty attractive so guys typically tell me they like what they see but I need money not compliments .. It's crazy because they are more willing to try to get me to do extras but I'm not willing to so they blow me off.. What do I say when I approach my clients , how to I keep conversation going, what's the best approach , how can I go about selling dancing w/o actually saying would you like a dance ? Like I said I get tipped on stage & while walking the floor but I'm not selling many dances ... PLEASE HELP ME OUT GUYS!! Guide me to making more then 200$ a night , it's killing my confidence :(
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Re: HELP ME PLEASE !! I don't know what to say:(
Why did you post this twice?
We can't help you make money. Everyone is different. If you need tips, do some personal research. You'll also gain experience through time, generally increasing your income.
Browse through the forum, and I'm certain you'll find your answer.
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Re: HELP ME PLEASE !! I don't know what to say:(
Well I was not asking for you to help me make money . I understand everyone is different , and I also with time things get better. I was just looking for helpful responses , tips , or advice. I've done personal research , true or false , most post on this site to get others options or advice ? That's the reason for some of the forum post correct ?..
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Re: HELP ME PLEASE !! I don't know what to say:(
There is tons of advice on hustle hut that will help you make money, do some research.
My main tips for a newbie would be to approach every customer, always be closing, beware of time wasters, and constantly be upselling. Dances don't sell themselves you have to go out on the floor and sell them! People rarely come and ask for dances directly, you can never get what you want if you don't ask for it so make sure you are asking (or telling them they want a dance, without asking meaning assuming the sale). Find out what works best for you, it might take a little time but you'll figure it out.
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Re: HELP ME PLEASE !! I don't know what to say:(
Yes Hustle Hut has tons and tons of answers to the questions you just asked. I am sure you will find lots of helpful advice if you take the time to read.
Next time you are at work try to study dancers that usually seem to do well. Don't be so hard on yourself, you have only been dancing two weeks and you are already making $200 per night, you must be doing something right.
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Re: HELP ME PLEASE !! I don't know what to say:(
You have to be really flirtatious and also appear highly desirable. Don't ever appear desperate, that turns men off. Act like you are having the time of your life, and appear busy. If the guy you're talking to doesn't want to buy a dance, then say, "Alright then, well, I have to go dance for someone else, so maybe I'll come by and give you a dance later!" That will make you appear highly desirable, and you are offering to come by later, in case he changes his mind, which alot of times a customer will! Make the room fall in love with you, give them the bedroom eyes, slightly sway your hips when you walk. There are all kinds of ways to grab the attention of the room. Zero in on men who are checking you out. You have to know your customer base, who you appeal to the most. Don't be too nice to anyone, because men will walk all over you and try to get time and attention out of you for free. DO NOT let them get away with that. Men love bitches and respect women who stand up for themselves, so remember that as well.
Instead of asking for a dance, try telling them, "it's time for a dance now!" or "well handsome, I would love to talk, but I'm feeling really frisky right now (as you put your hand on his leg or neck or whatever) - so let's go have some fun."
When you are giving a lapdance, make it as fun, seductive, and sexy as you can, but go slow. Make eye contact. Work yourself up towards the end of the song and keep going when the next song plays and just say, "You don't want me to stop, do you?"
When working, always make sure you smell good and talk in a sexy tone. Smelling good and sounding good are just as important as looking good.
Alot of other threads talk about these same things, but I thought I'd give you a jumpstart. Good luck!
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Re: HELP ME PLEASE !! I don't know what to say:(
Here's the thread, "Things to do & say when sitting with customers":
https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...with-customers
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Re: HELP ME PLEASE !! I don't know what to say:(
Omg thanks so much! You were so helpful!!
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Re: HELP ME PLEASE !! I don't know what to say:(
I'm know I am kinda hard on myself sometimes , ig my problem is I want everything to come faster than it is. I know I have a lot to work on , & I'm going to keep pushing to make big bucks nightly! Thanks so much !
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Re: HELP ME PLEASE !! I don't know what to say:(
It's definitely more about your attitude and how you are selling, reading the customer etc. than WHAT you are actually saying and doing. I do really lazy stage shows and I don't talk a lot with customers (unless they are really fun to talk to), but I always expect to make money, and I always do. I didn't start making money right away either, it took me about 8 months to get used to my hustle and to break $500. Now I am a top earner, because I know I can do it and I expect to do it. You've only been dancing two weeks, don't worry about it.
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Ok guys I been asked what am I saying to the clients , here it is! Please comment!
I've been asked a few times from my last post about what I've been saying to the clients in the club . So here it is. first I may start w/ an introduction , & maybe ask theirs . Then I may ask something like are you from the city , if not where. I may ask them if I'm attractive to them .Then maybe rim there what are they drinking or if they don't have drinks , I may ask why not. Then I may ask them are they enjoying themselves in the club. Sometimes I ask about there jobs, But soon after these basic questions I find myself not know where else so I may ask if they want a dance ( & this may work , most times it does not) . Then after if no I may sit for a min to see if they change their mind , if not I'll say we'll I'll come back to check on you. Then guess what most times I see another girl come right up behind me & get a dance !! I just don't know where I'm going wrong. Then like I said above most guys go from no to asking for extras & when I say something like no I'm not interested they blow me off. I mean I know w/ time I'll learn more . But a little help to get me threw newbie stage , would help me out a lot & I'd greatly appreciate it!!!
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Re: Ok guys I been asked what am I saying to the clients , here it is! Please comment
Well if we're going to cut&paste… Is Hustle Hut not loading for you?
There are HUNDREDS of threads on this. There is also a real learning curve to this job that simply takes time to overcome. You're not going to turn into The Ultimate Super Stripper in three wks' time, unless you can literally read minds. You will find tons of different approach ideas here, & there are so many bc Every Customer Is Different. Learning to read customers b4 you even decide on who you're going to approach nxt will get easier the longer you do it. Sm also come in for God-only-knows-why when they have no intention of buying from any1.
So have a :chillpill: go fix sm popcorn & start w/ the Hustle Hut stickies :) when you're thru w/ those, start skimming thread titles & just read thru the ones that catch your interest.
An addition re: extras -- you will probably be propositioned for extras more often in the first six months than anytime during the rest of your time dancing -- assuming that you're not just in a dirty club. Brand-new girls are typically the easiest to pressure into doing extras bc they want to please, are scared of not making the 'big bucks' & don't know better, or just don't care. Brand-new girls are considered 'mold-able' by a certain element of our clientele. That's just what's up. So, just as you will find oodles of helpful advice for how to sweet-talk your way into a guy's wallet, there is also a lot of info abt dodging the 'Whatcha gonna do for me?' type questions.
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Re: Ok guys I been asked what am I saying to the clients , here it is! Please comment
This is getting ridiculous. Stop making repeat posts like this. We are all on the same forum, so don't think that making repeat posts is going to get you more replies from different people. Actually, it backfires. People see similar posts from the same user being reposted over and over....and they get annoyed. Why would we want to help you if we are annoyed at the frequency of your copied posts?
Like Aniela said, take a chill pill. You're not going to learn it all in one night.
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Re: Ok guys I been asked what am I saying to the clients , here it is! Please comment
Ok look ladies . Im new to this website , I created a profile in August but I've never used it until recently, so I'm not familiar with how to use this website. Second thing is sometimes the newbie or hustle hit does not load up or some times it doesn't show that my post went through until hours later so I do not know that it's there so I'll do it over . I'm not tryna annoy you guys ! I simply did not know it was posting & I would come back & try again not knowing it's already there. If I was aware if this I would not do it! Sorry it's a big deal , but like I said I did not know. It's not like I'm going bananas over here because I'm not . I know that it takes time & I know in two weeks I'm not going to be a super stripper! I mean I'm not looking for multiple dieffent people to respond , just one good answer could help. My panniers are not in a bunch , I just haven't learned how this website works.
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Re: Ok guys I been asked what am I saying to the clients , here it is! Please comment
& I mean gosh it's only 4 post repeated from what I can see , so I mean it should be obvious that this is unfamiliar to me..
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Re: Ok guys I been asked what am I saying to the clients , here it is! Please comment
Where in Texas are you from? If you're white I was going to suggest migration to a city where being white is a commodity. (Like El Paso) If you are a rare commodity it doesn't matter if you can't hustle for shit. (Although it helps)
Can you travel?
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Re: HELP ME PLEASE !! I don't know what to say:(
I make money because I have huge boobs. ::) No talking necessary.
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Re: Ok guys I been asked what am I saying to the clients , here it is! Please comment
Hey I'm in Houston & I'm black . & right now I can't travel . I have a little one & i only have one RELAIBLE babysitter. I mean & that's the reason I chose this industry .. & also I'm new to the city I haven't been here long at all.
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Re: Ok guys I been asked what am I saying to the clients , here it is! Please comment
Houston is huge and it has tons of clubs. It also has a reputation of being somewhat dirty.
As for what's wrong with you, it's no so much what you're saying but HOW. You need to be more quick and seductive. Touch their shoulders, look at them into their eyes and be confident. Also, don't spend more than two songs in a row with the same customer.
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Re: Ok guys I been asked what am I saying to the clients , here it is! Please comment
Sit with the old farts. Almost all of my friends that are black bank off old farts.