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I think I just recognized another cam model at the food store.
I don't know if this topic has ever come up. Do we have a model to model etiquette? Personally, I do not want to be recognized or approached about camming by anyone when I am not on cam but if it was another model, and done discreetly, I wouldn't be opposed to a friendly, "hello". I was just at the food store and am positive I just stood at a counter next to another model. I was trying not to stare but I probably over extended my glance a little because she turned her head really quick to me and shot daggers out her eyes. I wanted to laugh but I completely knew exactly what those daggers meant lol.
If this model reads this post (I believe she might) I apologize profusely. Your presence caught me off guard just as my prying eyes must have caught you off guard. I'm sorry if I gave you the creeps and made you think things I imagine would be thinking, "wtf is this psycho staring at me for" or "Oh GOD its a perv who recognizes me" or "Holy crap it's another model RUUUNNNNN Forrestt.... ruuuuunn". I was shocked and had a different set of thoughts, "OMG it's that?.. holy CRAP.. thats....OMG does she recognize me...Holy hell...look away, stop starting... but is it her...OMG she just threw eye daggers, it's gotta be her!" I doubt you recognized me because I look very different on and off cam but if this post should catch your attention, HI! That was me & sorry for that awkward moment :) LOL
What would you do if you recognized another model in public? What would you do if you were recognized by another model? I'm sure I could of handled it better but I was shocked. I don't think I could use the word shocked more.
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Re: I think I just recognized another cam model at the food store.
I'm in Cams Nude Chat while watching Transformers 4 on dvd, so I'll have to respond to this in more detail later. :P But this is a really good thread. I think I've seen threads like this (about what a customer would do if he spotted a cam girl in real life) on the AmberCutie Forum in the past, and it got a lot of good responses. I'm curious what the other ladies think about it.
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Ohhhh my gosh. I just left my local grocer and I was like "This damn thread is about me".
If I saw a model I recognized, I'd probably say "open cam, bb" if we're familiar with one another. If not, nothing. That'd be creepy as shit.
If a model recognized me, I'd also suggest she open cam.
(I'm kidding. Kind of. I don't know what I'd do. Maybe fangirl if they're my fave!)
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Couldn't we all agree to just say something like, "Hey bb" if we were to say anything at all? I mean no one else would have a clue what that meant probably and both parties could have a little giggle. Or even like the person above said, "Open cam bb" or "Stand up bb" ot "twirl bb" hahaha!
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Personally, as someone with an anxiety disorder I wouldn't want a model or customer coming up to me in situation like shopping. I don't like talking to strangers at all in these situations. I am just there to shop and I rather be left alone. I am just not in a good head-space to interact with people.
Now if they saw me at an event where it you are obviously there to meet and hang out with people like a festival or something then I wouldn't mind so much because I am in the head-space for it.
I only mention this because there are quite a few models with anxiety on the forums here.
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I wouldn't like it at all I'm afraid but only because I could be with friends or family that don't know what I do (a lot do know but still.....). I am also terrible at recognising people on sight. The number of times my BF has said to me 'did you see (insert well know celebrity name here) walking past just now?' and I'm like 'who? where? really?' lol So for me to recognise a fellow camgirl she would have to be some one really big who is obviously a chica and doesn't care lol
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See, the problem is that regardless of if it's a fellow cam girl approaching you, or a guy/customer, you risk scaring the crap out of the cam girl and making her uncomfortable. Not every cam girl is "out" about it, and even if they are...I don't really think it's appropriate approaching them in the middle of a store when they're out with family/friends. You never know...they could be out with the one person who doesn't know about their camming, and now that you've just made a big fuss in the middle of the store, she's got some 'splainin' to do with that person...who's definitely gonna ask "Uh...who was that, and what's she talking about???" Lol. I'm sure the smart ladies of StripperWeb would know better than to make a big fuss over a cam girl in public while she's, say, out with her kid(s).
I can't speak for other cam girls, but I will tell you that if it was me, I think I'd be okay with it if the cam girl approached me, and quietly said something like "Hey, I cam on MyFreeCams too, and I think you're awesome." (I no longer cam on MFC, but this is just an example.). I feel like that would be perfectly fine with me, and I'd be super flattered. But not every cam girl would feel the same. Just don't ever do the "Hey, it's _____ from MyFreeCams!" thing like some scary-ass creep did to a former camgirl friend of mine (recognized her in a store, followed her around while shouting her MFC name, tried to peek at her name on her credit card, and grabbed her outside the store, and she hit him and ran).
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I have never encountered another model, BUT! lots of encounters with customers, or stalkers whatever you want to call them...LOL.. one guy recognized me in a grocery store parking lot, the last relationship I had one of his employees recognized me from doing fetish shoots.. I went on another date and the guy who was tending bar recognized me and told him who I was!.. ok these guys I was trying to date?? didn't even know who I was til these idiots told them... umm I think that's it so far.. I pray no one recognizes me ever haha... I dunno how I would feel about another cam model.. I would probably just look at her and say SHHHH keep your voice down, don't want anyone to KNOW!..lol
Oh yea! I bought a refrigerator on craigslist! and this guy comes to SM to tell me who he was... omg.. I banned him... he didn't know I worked on SM and kept going on and on about knowing me IRL.. uh I just bought a fridge and a front load washer from you.. sheesh
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If I were by myself out somewhere I would LOVE to be approached by a fellow cammodel! A cam customer not so much... i'd probably scream, run away, get into my car and the first stop would be to purchase a taser and home security system.
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I WISH this would happen to me. I would laugh my butt off if another cam girl came up to me and was like "open tits, bb."
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Hahaha! That would be the best. But you never know if someone has a doppleganger out there and will call the police and file harassment charges on you because they have no idea what the hell you are talking about.
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space_cowgirl
I WISH this would happen to me. I would laugh my butt off if another cam girl came up to me and was like "open tits, bb."
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If they are friendly & act appropriately cam girl or fan I don't have a problem.
Act like a fool, I will whip my phone out start video taping & put it ALL over the web for the whole world to see. I don't get scared, I don't run. Someone wants to act like a fool. I will have fun putting it out there for everyone he or she knows to see. :)
Smooches,
Sam
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I'd love it if another cam girl came up to me and said "hi", if I was alone and if she was quiet about it. I'd be thrilled to know another cam girl in my city, and I'd suggest doing a show with her.
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If another cam girl came up to me I would think she was lying and someone put her up to it to approach me to say that?
IDK sometimes I am just so skeptical.................I don't think I would like anyone approaching me like that
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Another model who posts here recognized me at the grocery store once. :)
She sent me a PM on here later and told me. I thought it was pretty cool! It was very respectful that she didn't approach me, would have put me on the spot.
I wouldn't say anything if you see someone you think you know... I would tell them later if you wanted to but I definitely wouldn't just walk up to them and say anything without the "ok" from the model, like if you PM her and she says if you ever see her again that it's ok to say hi, something like that.
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Attachment 39153I wouldn't like it. I don't like models I don't know to be in my chat room, and certainly don't want them walking up to me IRL.
Maybe if I lived in a small town, but I already have to deal with large, unruly crowds every time I go out anywhere, so ...NO.
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I was recognized not too long ago in a Walmart by another model. She DMed me on Twitter and said heyyy I saw you, just didnt want to say anything but thats so cool we live in the same area. I just helped her last week to shoot clips and she paid me for my time, so hey it worked out awesomely for me!
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I'm sorry to get off topic and I'm not trying to make fun, but food store reminded me of something.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VB32073N4vY
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I had it happen to me recently at Target, another model recognized ME.
She was totally rad in her approach.
I was loading my cart with Oreos of course (securing my place in the BBW category so sue me) and she opened with, "I love your bag!!! Where did you get it?"
We exchanged niceities on the merits of Neiman ' s Last Call on 4. Then she goes, "I feel like I know you already, you look so familiar. Do you get that a lot?"
I just knew.
I said, "given my line of work, that phrase has a lot of meaning when someone says it"
She said, "I think you work where I do" to which I replied "hence me eating a lot of Oreos, these men drive me to sugar binges. So what is your model name?"
It was a great exchange, we traded numbers and hugs. She left me plenty of outs and chances to deny who I was. She even said she wouldn't have mentioned it if I was with other people. I was happy to learn that in my horse & buggy town there are more of "me" and that was awesome.
I guess be careful and slick if you insist on making an approach but remember a lot of models wouldn't take as kindly.
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I guess now that I think of it, if I was recognized in my hometown I would feel very awkward about being recognized. I live in a teeny tiny town and I'd be afraid of another girl outing me or gossiping to people about what I do. All they would have to do it tell someone my cam name and it's all over.....
But if I lived in a big city or was traveling and was recognized I'd be okay with it.
It's crazy though that there's millions of people in the US and yet you run into another model.
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On the on hand I'm cool with it and it would be great. But in the back of my mind I'd be wondering if she's one of the backstabbing, come in your room start drama, steal customers ect ladies. If someone's a hater then they can now run around giving away your hometown and hangouts whenever they see you.
But mind you that's because the last IRL girlfriend I had was in 1996- until I found out she was trying to scam my ex husband of some $$$.
Now before you think I'm a total looner I feel just like guys that is very few of the % of people you would meet.
And never approach someone unless they're giving you the "ok". As a few stated they could have an anxiety disorder or be with family.
Think of it as the zoo. You might get to see a beautiful creature in it's native habitat, but you don't want to approach it for fear it might hurt itself running off or it might charge and fight. Then there's the puffer, I'm going to stand tall as I can with all my limbs away from my body to appear larger than I am. Or the roll over and play dead.
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My headspace would not be in "cam girl mode" at the grocery store and if someone came up to me and made a reference like "open bb" lol it would take me a WHILE to click in if at all… I would most likely just give you a strange look and walk away. :wide-eyed
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*Waves at SarahTime*
Yea, I stalked you around the grocery store for about 10 minutes, trying to figure out how the heck I recognized you in the first place. :P I had worked part-time vanilla jobs off and on while living here and used to be super active at one of the local gyms so I was trying to place where I had known you from. Then I figured it out, and debated with myself if I should approach or not. Ultimately I decided not to since I wasn't sure if your family was with you, or if someone else may have recognized you. Plus my boyfriend was with me, and that might have made you super uncomfortable as well. Plus plus, I looked like a slob that day. And you were perfectly polished and I was intimidated. Since then, I don't go to the grocery store without makeup so I always look fabulous for these potential situations ;)