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Lesbian Dancers
Hello Ladies, I'm not sure that this belongs here but I had a question for my lesbian dancers: Do you divulge your sexual orientation to customer or do you play it straight? (pun intended) I have been battling this dilemma for awhile and would like some insight. Any help would be appreciated ;D:-*
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Re: Lesbian Dancers
I've always heard that if you address your sexual orientation at all, you're supposed to say you're bi. I guess guys don't like knowing they don't have a chance with you?
You could also potentially get a good reaction by talking about your girlfriend, if you have one, but I get nervous doing that in person. Too many guys get really aggressive about watching/joining, and a few even think you need to be "cured." *shudders* Just be cautious!
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I'm always "available"....as long as their wallet is. ::)
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You are not obligated to tell the truth about yourself to any customer. If you're uncomfortable disclosing your sexuality, don't. Personally, I'd use it as a hustle when it seems appropriate. The reason saying you're bi is a good idea is that you're attainable (since you like men) but naughty/fun (since you like women too, and that could lead to lesbian duo fun). Some dudes are really into lesbians, some are really not, and many just don't care. You'll learn to read your customers in time and figure out how to tailor yourself to what will make them spend.
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It's entertainment, so your story should be geared to whatever they like.
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Yes! I tend to find that guys LOVE the idea of a bisexual stripper. Oftentimes when I'm in a champagne room and conversation is getting stale or he starts asking to see me OTC, I just bring up my "girlfriend" and how I sometimes like guys, but totally prefer women. I have a whole bunch of stories about me and my gf that always keep guys entertained/interested in me. However, if I'm not in a room, I'll keep things super vague... I find that bringing up your sexual orientation or partners at all can sometimes lead a guy to want to talk and not get as many dances or spend $$ if you're on the floor. If you're not getting paid for your time, it's basically lost money.
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Thanks ladies I really appreciate the help.
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I am bi and always play it up, usually with my "attraction" to another dancer I "have a crush on" - this gets doubles, doubles are fun, doubles usually get more than one.
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I don't bring up the fact that I'm bi unless I'm hustling doubles with a few girls I double with. Really depends on the guy but you can totally lock down a guy into spending if his 3some fantasy plays out in his lap. Usually involves lots of dirty talk and fake porn moaning lol. We use it as advertising to get other guys attention by keeping track of who is perving on our dances and then hustle them into buying doubles.
The other way I like to use it as a hustle is after doing a bunch of single dances and I don't think he'll buy more from me. I like to approach him again with my "roommate" who I share a "1 bedroom apartment" with and let his imagination do the work for me. Hit the ATM plenty of times with guys who were tapped out doing this.
Use your sexual orientation to your advantage. Every stripper should be "bi" in the right situation. I wouldn't suggest being strictly "lesbian" although that could be a sell for the right guy who wants to show you what you're "missing" but most guys want to know you're into them on some level.
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I say I like girls but I PREFER guys.