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That son of bitch beat the shit out of me for years.. And torment me.. .. I cannot even believe you are saying these things.. He verbally abused my son the last 5 yrs and i have been waiting for this time to be over so he could fucking come home.. Wow you don't fucking know me.. I am so fucking angry that you sit here and assume i am a fucking loser camwhore who doesn't take care of her fucking kids.. Omfg... I am fuming.. You have no fucking idea the sacrifices i have fucking made ..you are just so fucking ridiculous..... I am almost 42 and have never fucking been on vacation in my fucking life cuz my kids are more important than fucking anything... Holy mother fuck!
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lachloe
do you have children marina? I didn't think so.
It is just so upsetting to me that someone would have 2 children…and then not raise them (i am assuming this because she is paying child support)---and then start a thread celebrating that she doesn't have to contribute to their life anymore. I feel terribly for her children that they were such a "burden" on her that she couldn't go on "vacation". I wonder how their dad felt (or whoever was raising them) while she got to live her life and just send a check. So gross. So selfish.
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LAChloe
^^ You are not a mother and you'll never understand unless you were one. I have said what I needed to say and I will not be responding again.
You did a great job taking the "happy" out of the good news thread.
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LOL... it really makes me ANGRY that someone would go so far to pull the deadbeat card on me.. I am quite on the opposite spectrum.. so much so I haven't even had my hair done in almost 2 yrs.... I mean sheesh.. I cannot even tell you how miserable my life has been.. this person must have just had a baby yesterday after partying her life away.. let's make grand assumptions.... she must have been partying her life away without a care in the world and all of a sudden had a baby and now she judges all people with children.. and like Sarah says.. all parents who are paying child support and their child reaches the age of majority.. are fucking ELATED!!.. I don't care if you were a good parent or bad parent.... .. I am so glad my son will be coming home where he fucking belongs after the torture he endured at his dads.. his fucking dad doesn't even fucking want him there and I told him just finish out your senior year and enjoy the experience and graduation.. I am so fucking happy that I will have my 2 sons home with me going to college and starting our NEW life in real estate and franchises while they are getting their degrees and I continue to toil away on CAM.. I highly doubt that sounds like I am a fucking loser mom... I'm excited me and my 2 sons will be in business together and starting a NEW CHAPTER in our life as all adults.. it's fucking wonderful bitches!!....lol
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SoloDesire
You did a great job taking the "happy" out of the good news thread.
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anonymous camgirl
LOL... it really makes me ANGRY that someone would go so far to pull the deadbeat card on me.. I am quite on the opposite spectrum.. so much so I haven't even had my hair done in almost 2 yrs.... I mean sheesh.. I cannot even tell you how miserable my life has been.. this person must have just had a baby yesterday after partying her life away.. let's make grand assumptions.... she must have been partying her life away without a care in the world and all of a sudden had a baby and now she judges all people with children.. and like Sarah says.. all parents who are paying child support and their child reaches the age of majority.. are fucking ELATED!!.. I don't care if you were a good parent or bad parent.... .. I am so glad my son will be coming home where he fucking belongs after the torture he endured at his dads.. his fucking dad doesn't even fucking want him there and I told him just finish out your senior year and enjoy the experience and graduation.. I am so fucking happy that I will have my 2 sons home with me going to college and starting our NEW life in real estate and franchises while they are getting their degrees and I continue to toil away on CAM.. I highly doubt that sounds like I am a fucking loser mom... I'm excited me and my 2 sons will be in business together and starting a NEW CHAPTER in our life as all adults.. it's fucking wonderful bitches!!....lol
You don't need to explain yourself hun...especially to someone who is rude and assumes things about people they know nothing about. Those of us that know your story know that you're not a bad mom.
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^^ thanks hon, we get enough hell from our customers thinking less than of us , I would definitely not expect it from anyone on here, however I know that is possible.. but the type of person I am who gives my all to everyone and everything til I am so drained.. it's just so upsetting there are those who you can never measure up to no matter what you do. My son's father happens to be one...LOL.... I have NEVER been good enough!.. it's not my fault that the dept of revenue is closing my case and sent my child support checks back to me.. TBH I was not feeling good about it because he has not finished high school yet and thought I would be paying til then.. I thought about paying extra to my son's dad for food on my own.. but it's 8 months and my son will be living with me after that and I KNOW damn well my son's father won't give 2 shits about whether or not we have food .. he'll just say.. get a job son and pay for your own food or starve... so umm ok.. my oldest is almost 24 on Friday and he has NEVER even had a job.. goes to college full time only.. it hurts.. I wake up 7 days a week to work for my family EVERY fricken day since the year 2000 when my son's father LEFT me with 2 kids and no skills and ran off with a married woman who had two kids of her own.. and this woman comes in here telling everyone he is BETTER than me?? the one who puts her kids FIRST before men?? ALWAYS? umm ok
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Anonymous camgirl, I think you are awesome for making all of those sacrifices for your children. It sounds like you raised great and successful young men :) I hope you have a great vacation one day :)
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anonymous camgirl
LOL... it really makes me ANGRY that someone would go so far to pull the deadbeat card on me.. I am quite on the opposite spectrum.. so much so I haven't even had my hair done in almost 2 yrs.... I mean sheesh.. I cannot even tell you how miserable my life has been.. this person must have just had a baby yesterday after partying her life away.. let's make grand assumptions.... she must have been partying her life away without a care in the world and all of a sudden had a baby and now she judges all people with children.. and like Sarah says.. all parents who are paying child support and their child reaches the age of majority.. are fucking ELATED!!.. I don't care if you were a good parent or bad parent.... .. I am so glad my son will be coming home where he fucking belongs after the torture he endured at his dads.. his fucking dad doesn't even fucking want him there and I told him just finish out your senior year and enjoy the experience and graduation.. I am so fucking happy that I will have my 2 sons home with me going to college and starting our NEW life in real estate and franchises while they are getting their degrees and I continue to toil away on CAM.. I highly doubt that sounds like I am a fucking loser mom... I'm excited me and my 2 sons will be in business together and starting a NEW CHAPTER in our life as all adults.. it's fucking wonderful bitches!!....lol
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Being a single parent is hard, on both parents (if they both care), and on the kids. My oldest child's father must have been singing "Free at last, free at last" when she graduated in May. And I was happy for him. He didn't wanna pay it anyway. And now she is in college, and I am still taking care of her. It's mah job!! It's what I am supposed to do, struggle or not.
Let's not pass assumptions around. Dont judge someone's hustle, if you don't know their struggle...<<Lil Boosie ha ha
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Is difficult to judge a person here as we are all anonymous, right? ;) we can only judge a post, i think that was the case, the original post was kinda confusing so i see why Chloe took offense on it, without knowing the person is just difficult to make a clear idea of situation when too little details were given. In your next posts u explained things properly A.C so now we know a lot more, thanks for clarifying but also dont get angry when people here are not familiar with ur situation and react on a not well written post. I happen to know who u are :) & know from ur posts here how hard u work and ur struggles & i admire u for doing what u do, pls take care & good luck with ur future family/ business plans!
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I talked with property managers today and it looks like I'll have no problem renting. Life is looking up for me.
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This is the second child support check I've gotten this month! :D It couldn't have come at a better time! I've gotten a few of them before in the past (my son is 11 years old). After Douchebag kept moving and I had to keep refiling, I was told that they were unable to serve him papers. But I got a check on October 1st, and another today, and the note said I'm supposed to be getting electronic payments from now on. Awesome!
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Good for you hon!.. I know what you mean I only got 500 bucks TOTAL for my oldest son .. from age 3- age 24... his dad didn't seem like it was a good idea since the dollar was diminishing by the minute.. real weirdo... he is currently living in a homeless town in California cuz he only cares about partying...lol
My other one?? when I used to receive child support from him ,, he used to taunt me and make me beg for it .. because he paid me DIRECTLY every week and not through the state... .. I am just glad they are both adults and now I am not under his dad's thumb anymore.. so to speak.. but I know that's not true.. he will always tell me I suck every minute of my day..LOL.. that's why I don't talk to him anymore.... just my son...
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TheBrownFox
This is the second child support check I've gotten this month! :D It couldn't have come at a better time! I've gotten a few of them before in the past (my son is 11 years old). After Douchebag kept moving and I had to keep refiling, I was told that they were unable to serve him papers. But I got a check on October 1st, and another today, and the note said I'm supposed to be getting electronic payments from now on. Awesome!
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I'm getting a new Macbook Pro. One of the top available! My current macbook is from 2008 and just barely hanging on, so this should seriously help my feed out while I'm camming. Can't wait!
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When I posted my good news about child support earlier, I hadn't even seen the previous posts about anonymous camgirl's situation. I was so excited that I posted on here real quick, and then ran to deposit the check into my checking account.
Anonymous camgirl, I am THRILLED for you, and there is absolutely nothing wrong with feeling the happiness and relief that you feel! :) To give birth to two boys and pay for so many things by yourself for several years...that's tough. I know some people may say things like "Well...you play, you pay!" (God, my dad used to say this to me when he'd instigate an argument, and it always pissed me off), and it's like seriously??? Single parents who are good parents working their asses off, caring for their kids, and making all kinds of sacrifices for their kids don't need to have shit rubbed in their face. In fact, they should be respected for all that they do while managing to NOT go insane. Lol.
Both of your boys are grown men now, and it's gotta be an amazing feeling of relief to know that some of the financial burden has been lifted. I'm happy for you, girl.
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OMG, did I seriously just get a $50 tip in Cams Nude Chat??? It made that cute sound it makes when you get a tip, and it said $50 and had this little icon of a bikini beside the dollar amount. OMG...
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I tried out ifriends and made $54.00 my take in 20 minutes. Trying out different sites has been amazing.
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Good for you girl. That's like a damn miracle on there.
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TheBrownFox
OMG, did I seriously just get a $50 tip in Cams Nude Chat??? It made that cute sound it makes when you get a tip, and it said $50 and had this little icon of a bikini beside the dollar amount. OMG...
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JaneBurgess
Good for you girl. That's like a damn miracle on there.
YES! And thank you! I'm glad that I was on cam at that moment, and not in the other room stuffing my face with these...
http://i.walmartimages.com/i/p/00/04...56_500X500.jpg
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Well gosh, my good news isn't nearly as good as yall's. BUT, since ditching IML finally, my new wig should be here tomorrow (super cute and long hair) and I will be trying out some new sites come Monday if not this weekend even. This is good news for me, because I haven't been excited about anything in months. And BrownFox I want that cake or whatever the fuck that is!!! I'm so jealous looking at that, sitting here not able to sleep!
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reversecowgirl
Well gosh, my good news isn't nearly as good as yall's. BUT, since ditching IML finally, my new wig should be here tomorrow (super cute and long hair) and I will be trying out some new sites come Monday if not this weekend even. This is good news for me, because I haven't been excited about anything in months. And BrownFox I want that cake or whatever the fuck that is!!! I'm so jealous looking at that, sitting here not able to sleep!
I'm gonna log out of Cams Nude Chat real quick (cuz on that site, you have to log out when you leave the room) to get some. It's my new obsession...one of the best things I've tasted in a long time.
Good luck with the new sites! I was about ready to ditch MyGirlFund, but I might wait it out and see what happens (I got $5.20 so far)...though these guys talking me to death in live chat are making me pull my hair out.
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TheBrownFox
I'm gonna log out of Cams Nude Chat real quick (cuz on that site, you have to log out when you leave the room) to get some. It's my new obsession...one of the best things I've tasted in a long time.
Good luck with the new sites! I was about ready to ditch MyGirlFund, but I might wait it out and see what happens (I got $5.20 so far)...though these guys talking me to death in live chat are making me pull my hair out.
I held on as long as I could without virtually cramming freeloader's heads up their own asses. I finally just said buh bye IML. I am going to try several different ones this time, I never really did before, I just stuck to that one site. MFC, AW, Cams, and another one this time around, but I gotta get some dp details worked out before I get on cam. I'm hoping that will get done tomorrow, we'll see. I'm excited tho, I figure the more options I have, then if one sucks and is slow I can just try one of the others and rotate like that. Idk what I'm doing but hopefully it works haha!
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I am going to the store tomorrow and I will get one of those. Those are so good.
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How much are they and can I order that online? If I know how much it is, I know what to set my daily goal as. lmao
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At the grocery store, they're usually around $3.49 for a box of two slices. If you get the larger size (as shown in the above pic), it's $8.99...though right now it's on sale for $6.99 at my local grocery store.
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Awesome. My new camming slogan "Will cam for pie".
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Thanks!... that's how I was feeling.. relieved.. I have been a mother since I was 17 yrs old.. and never ever had time for myself or to want things for myself.. I even sacrificed basic necesseties all my life.. because No good men ever came along to help share the burden of raising not 1 but 2 kids.. yes I still fully support them even as adults but I have the freedom not to.. and I NEVER have to worry about what parents worry about with under age kids anymore.. NO One will ever take my kids away from me for any reason at all!... no matter what!.. no more fear..
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TheBrownFox
When I posted my good news about child support earlier, I hadn't even seen the previous posts about anonymous camgirl's situation. I was so excited that I posted on here real quick, and then ran to deposit the check into my checking account.
Anonymous camgirl, I am THRILLED for you, and there is absolutely nothing wrong with feeling the happiness and relief that you feel! :) To give birth to two boys and pay for so many things by yourself for several years...that's tough. I know some people may say things like "Well...you play, you pay!" (God, my dad used to say this to me when he'd instigate an argument, and it always pissed me off), and it's like seriously??? Single parents who are good parents working their asses off, caring for their kids, and making all kinds of sacrifices for their kids don't need to have shit rubbed in their face. In fact, they should be respected for all that they do while managing to NOT go insane. Lol.
Both of your boys are grown men now, and it's gotta be an amazing feeling of relief to know that some of the financial burden has been lifted. I'm happy for you, girl.