does being a "new girl" give me an edge in body rubs?
I haven't really found anything eluding to this while reading all the other body rub threads, so I thought I would just ask. Apologies if it's already out there somewhere or I'm just a dumba$$! I'm just DONE with escorting... looking into wiggling my way out by starting to do body rubs/fbsm (indy). Does it give you an "edge" or is it something to work with if you are "new" and using that in your advertising? I know in escorting the guys love a new girl/some fresh meat and I was able to use that to my advantage when I just started out, so I'm curious to see if it is the same in the body rub world.
This is reasonably clarified in the other threads, but I will ask anyways... How important is the massage table? Is that symbolic of a line we will not cross? Do I look "unprofessional" [aka a fbsm noob or "cheap"] if I do not use one?
Thanks for any and all replies, I appreciate it!
Re: does being a "new girl" give me an edge in body rubs?
The table is really important to do a good massage. Think about it - otherwise you're straddling a dude on a bed - just a 'hook and roll' move from him being on top of you on a bed... ;-) There is a market for massage with happy ending from appreciative respectful gentlemen (Although the nature of the escort world being illegal and all ads being vague, it may take you awhile to get the word out what exactly you are offering...) Good luck with your new venture!
Re: does being a "new girl" give me an edge in body rubs?
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justj
I haven't really found anything eluding to this while reading all the other body rub threads, so I thought I would just ask. Apologies if it's already out there somewhere or I'm just a dumba$$! I'm just DONE with escorting... looking into wiggling my way out by starting to do body rubs/fbsm (indy). Does it give you an "edge" or is it something to work with if you are "new" and using that in your advertising? I know in escorting the guys love a new girl/some fresh meat and I was able to use that to my advantage when I just started out, so I'm curious to see if it is the same in the body rub world.
This is reasonably clarified in the other threads, but I will ask anyways... How important is the massage table? Is that symbolic of a line we will not cross? Do I look "unprofessional" [aka a fbsm noob or "cheap"] if I do not use one?
Thanks for any and all replies, I appreciate it!
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Re: does being a "new girl" give me an edge in body rubs
Quote:
Originally Posted by
justj
I haven't really found anything eluding to this while reading all the other body rub threads, so I thought I would just ask. Apologies if it's already out there somewhere or I'm just a dumba$$! I'm just DONE with escorting... looking into wiggling my way out by starting to do body rubs/fbsm (indy). Does it give you an "edge" or is it something to work with if you are "new" and using that in your advertising? I know in escorting the guys love a new girl/some fresh meat and I was able to use that to my advantage when I just started out, so I'm curious to see if it is the same in the body rub world.
This is reasonably clarified in the other threads, but I will ask anyways... How important is the massage table? Is that symbolic of a line we will not cross? Do I look "unprofessional" [aka a fbsm noob or "cheap"] if I do not use one?
Thanks for any and all replies, I appreciate it!
If you are looking for best Toys then visit sextoysperth.com.au and find best for you.
Re: does being a "new girl" give me an edge in body rubs
Some girls make more money from having lots of regular clients and building it up.
Others are just super sexy and attract guys who want fresh meat. It varies.
Massage table for sure. Better for your back, keeping boundaries and looking professional!
Re: does being a "new girl" give me an edge in body rubs?
Thanks so much for all of the input! I will be buying a massage table this weekend then for sure!
Re: does being a "new girl" give me an edge in body rubs?
To give you a customer perspective, I absolutely agree that a table is important, professionalism-wise, not having your back ache bending over a bed -wise, and interesting position-wise :)
I am a bit of a new-girl hound in the strip club, but as an FBSM customer, I like to hear at least that the new girl is with a group that I trust (ie., she's been trained to that group's standard), or hear through client backchannels that she's okay. I don't quite know why I'm more risk-averse when it comes to bodyrubs, but I am. In SF, my perception is that in general, FBSM new girls raise excitement just like new girls in every other segment, but the FBSM client community is far more risk-averse than the others. To some extent, based on things I've read on Other Work and from reports from clients who have gotten bodyrubs in other cities, SF FBSM might have its own unique flavor compared to most cities.
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That is great insight Radius, thank you very much for that! I guess I'm just going to have to get started and see what it's like in my area. I'm coming out from the "escorting world" into the FBSM one, so it will be interesting to see if the "risk-averse" component to clients is higher or lower to my previous clientele. Sounds like maybe higher, which will be something I will just have to kind of deal with until I get some sort of a reputation/establish myself more.