i feel like i'm not good in bed!
today i had my second day of escorting, and everything was fine - i just don't really feel like my sexual technique is where it should be to be an escort! i've never considered myself bad in bed before, but that's when i was sleeping with guys that i had chemistry with and so everything was really amazing. yesterday i could tell the guys were into it, today the guys i saw - it didn't really seem like they were. so i guess my questions are a) did anyone else feel like this when they first started escorting, and did it go away over time/practice? and b) does anyone have really good reading material i can find on sexual technique?
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You can PM me too if you'd like... Would rather not get into details on the thread! I am new to the forum, but certainly not new to the escort world =]
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tiffany_twisted
today i had my second day of escorting, and everything was fine - i just don't really feel like my sexual technique is where it should be to be an escort! i've never considered myself bad in bed before, but that's when i was sleeping with guys that i had chemistry with and so everything was really amazing. yesterday i could tell the guys were into it, today the guys i saw - it didn't really seem like they were. so i guess my questions are a) did anyone else feel like this when they first started escorting, and did it go away over time/practice? and b) does anyone have really good reading material i can find on sexual technique?
I am not an escort or any kind of sex worker, just a little slut. But are you holding back and trying to keep your boundaries up because these dudes are just clients? Because I could see how that could totally kill the vibe. My advice is to not even think about the dude, just get into a flow with yourself. Half-close your eyes and let him explore and play with your body. If you sense he wants something, just move with him. Don't be thinking about all the things you don't want him to do. Keep moving slowly and focus on what feels good for you. If it happens naturally, let yourself come. If the guy feels that he's pleasing you he will enjoy it and it will make him feel good about himself. In two words: Let go.
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My biggest tip is, act like you enjoy it, fake the chemistry. I know not all clients are sexy, so fantasize. I had a giant Rolling Stones poster in my incall flat and it wasn't just because I love the stones.
Also, every escort I know agrees with this-- men who buy sex care more about head than they do about intercourse.
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your an actress sweetie - enthusiasm can make up for skills - I dont know what you charge so I will speak for the higher end clients - they are king for an hour - every man likes to be told he is sexy/hot/masculine etc....- find his positive and work that - make him feel special - a lot of men enjoy being fussed over as much or more than the act itself :twocents:
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If you don't get better, then it may be time to consider another profession.