Keep an Old Guy Entertained?
Ok so this sounds stupid but I was dancing at an urban club and felt a little out of my element so I happenned to sit down a table away from a guy who was sitting with a girl. I guess she realized he wasnt interested so she got up and left and then he started talking to me, which was all fine and dandy, but I had traveled to this new club with a partner and she had come down with something. He asked me how long I was going to stay and I told him not very because my friend was sick, I just wanted to make my tip out back. He got three vips paid the bouncer for their cut and gave me a tip on top of that asked me how much my tip out was and handed me money for that, after i finished the vip I was called to stage where he tipped me $100 in the first song and said he wanted to see me again so I gave him my number. He called me as soon as I left the club and told me he had left to and just went on and on about how much of a great person I was and yadda yadda and how much he wants to see me friday. Hes 40, im 20. He has two kids who are 18. After he found out how old I was he freaked out a little bit but he says hes ok with it. How do I turn this guy into a sugar daddy/repeat regular? I mean he gave me over $300 in a half hour and I know he had at least 1k he planned on spending if I had stayed longer. I dunno what to do with an age gap like that?? HELP Me XD
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Forbidden fruit. Keep it classy. Old white men love my friend Mya because she is basically a black Barbie. Tasteful lingerie, nice nails, and impeccable hair.
Also her demeanor is very tasteful as well. I seldom ever hear her curse or raise her voice. If she drinks, she keeps it under control.
Old farts can be lucrative but it's a fine line in giving them what they want. They want something that was "forbidden" to them as young men yet they don't want a "stereotype". You need to find the balance between the two and you're good to go.
(This is all from years of observing my friends in Albuquerque and PA)
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40 is old???!!!???? lol
as tempest mentioned, keep it classy!!
an older man is going to want you to make him feel young again, but too much drama or immaturity will quickly turn him off.
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^^^^Loool damn thats what i was thinking 40 is pretty young, but im sure at 20 seems old. He's hitting mid life crisis age where he feels he starting to lose his youth, so hes looking for fun and attention.
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That's hardly old, I used to sleep with guys that age occasionally at when I was 20. Just be pretty and fun, and be witty and interesting. I think guys that age are looking for the shinier model of what they go for in a woman their age. Maybe have a few topics you can bring up, talk about travelling or something then run with it?
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40 ain't old. 40 is pretty fuckin' yummy actually.
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Keeping a 40 year old entertained can be pretty different from keeping an actual old guy (60+) entertained.
40 year olds are often into the young dancers because they're going through a midlife crisis or are lonely and just want the attention of a hot young thing -- it's less about companionship and conversation as with much older men, who tend to go for slightly older dancers for that reason. You can probably regale this dude with party and sex stories so he can lively vicariously through you and just keep your interactions with him light, flirty, and fun.
Above all -- think about how you acted and what you talked about with him that night and just keep it up. He was obviously into that if he kept spending money on you and wanted to see you again, so no need to change what you're doing.
As much as there are general guidelines for dealing with types of clients, they're also individuals, and some young dudes are really into conversation and some old men just want T&A. The better you get at reading your clients and adapting yourself to what they're looking for, the more money you'll make off them.