Re: Domme and Submissive?
Yes it's called bieng a "Switch" advertise yourself as just that... Both crowds will flock to you...
Re: Domme and Submissive?
Ah awesome! Out of everything I've read, I have not heard of that yet. Thank you :)
Re: Domme and Submissive?
Hello to you to and welcome :)
First of - I'm highly submissive in "real life" and that's the role I really enjoy and practice daily. But, I found a new passion for domination (it even rhymes :D) on cam. I always tell guys that I'm submissive, but if I see they're the submissive types I just start acting dominant, it's really an act I enjoy. Because I know they're satisfied.
No one will ever look down on you if you say that you're submissive but can also be dominant. It has never happened to me and I had only good experiences so far :)
With the right person - it's not hard to get in the mood of being either submissive or dominant, it comes naturally if you're into that sort of thing.
I hope this helps :)
Re: Domme and Submissive?
I switch on cam, and IRL I rarely do. I've actually enjoyed learning to dom on cam and I've learned to enjoy it more IRL since!
Marketing yourself as a switch is a great idea, but keep in mind that you'll have to make sure guys don't leave your room when you're flirting with one side of the coin, when they fit with the other. It can be tricky sometimes, but it's also good to go with what you're in the mood to do. :)
Re: Domme and Submissive?
As others have said you can advertise as a switch, but you might find that your on-cam tastes are different than IRL. I've always been more submissive IRL so when I started camming that's how I billed myself... big mistake. There's a huge difference between being dominated by someone who you know and are attracted to, trust, respect, etc and some rando on the Internet who just wants to call you a whore while watching you hurt yourself. So now I'm almost exclusively a domme on cam. I still sub for a select few guys but I'm very picky about who gets that privilege and I'm strict about boundaries.
Even if you exclusively advertise as a sub or domme you're still going to get a lot of guys who want you to do the opposite. They're horny, they think you're hot, and they'll ask you to do whatever floats their boat regardless of what you specialize in.