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Re: The "Just stay the fuck on" thread.
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Originally Posted by
Luci Fer
It is! After your post I googled and found a nice description:
JOI focuses on giving instruction for how to jerk off. When to start, when to stop. How fast or slow to go. How hard to grip. When and where to cum. Edging and denial can be part of the instructions, but aren't mandatory parts. It's about having someone else be in charge of what you get to feel and when.
JOE has more of a focus on shame and responsibility. It's about offloading the "responsibility" for masturbating onto someone else. Usually, there's an underlying current of some sort of irresponsible behavior, because it often involves someone being encouraged to masturbate to excess or to something they wouldn't normally find arousing. Even if the guy doesn't want to masturbate to excess or to something unusual, JOE is often requested when the guy feels some shame about it or has been told by someone else that he shouldn't masturbate.
JOE shares a murky boundary with gooning (excessive edging and the resulting stupidity that supposedly results from it) and sexual "training" (such as guys who wanted to be "trained" to be aroused by cocks or sucking cock or trans women).
ps. And I also have some guys that claim they want joi, but don't follow the instructions. lol! oh I'd better ask them too!
Oh wow, I had no idea! I'm learning so much haha
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Seductive_Brit
Oh wow, I had no idea! I'm learning so much haha
;D you had no idea, but your subconscious did!
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Re: The "Just stay the fuck on" thread.
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Originally Posted by
Luci Fer
Same! If I do it before the shift, I sit there like a log ;D But workouts are wonderful after! They just a great way to shake these hours off lol
I've yet to experience this so called energy people get for the rest of their day after a morning workout! Yes perfect for clearing your head after!
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gbjenna
I've yet to experience this so called energy people get for the rest of their day after a morning workout! Yes perfect for clearing your head after!
Aerobic exercise for about 30-40 min where it feels comfortable and you sweat a lil actually gives people energy. If you're doing HIT or HIIT about 1 or 2 hrs later you'll be sluggish and need a nap. Those type of training sessions zap energy.
The comfortable stuff GIVES you energy. I know...I was a Spinning Instructor for 7+ years. People just go too hard and think it'll give them energy all day. Umm, not really.
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STFO 2 hrs and $8 lolollll SM is really fuckin slow today. I'm gonna go til 12pm CST then fuck off til 3pm and go til 6pm.
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Miss_ShaSha
STFO 2 hrs and $8 lolollll SM is really fuckin slow today. I'm gonna go til 12pm CST then fuck off til 3pm and go til 6pm.
I have been on for almost 4 hours and it's really slow. But it's wednesday, so you shouldn't be surprised :))
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Originally Posted by
Miss_ShaSha
Aerobic exercise for about 30-40 min where it feels comfortable and you sweat a lil actually gives people energy. If you're doing HIT or HIIT about 1 or 2 hrs later you'll be sluggish and need a nap. Those type of training sessions zap energy.
The comfortable stuff GIVES you energy. I know...I was a Spinning Instructor for 7+ years. People just go too hard and think it'll give them energy all day. Umm, not really.
That makes sense tbh. I do HIIT sometimes and a lot weight training with usually a little cardio warm up. I see a PT once a week too which is intense. I always nap after leg day and PT sessions!
It didn’t dawn on me to consider the intensity of the workout hahaa
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Originally Posted by
Cutie101
Yesterday I stopped at 9 hours, as I got other stuff to do. Still did a decent amount.
Jasmin: $178
Imlive: $91
Streamate: $9
Total: $278
Today I am pushing 12 hours (10 with breaks) again.
Update: 6 hours in and only $25, then I caught a new and good client and made over my low goal.
5 hours left and I start being hopeful for one more good client.
Update: 10 hours and slow af. Grateful for that one client. 2 more hours and I am out.
Update: 12 hours and it's been pulling teeth. Totally lucky with that one client, but that's the purpose of staying the fuck on, right? Glad I didn't abandon after 4 hours of slowness.
Jasmin: $350 ($260 only from that one client, the rest were 4-5 minute privates, tons of hours in freechat and tips)
Chaturbate: $10
Streamate: $0
Imlive: $0
Total: $360
Back again tomorow, for a new 12 hr round!
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Re: The "Just stay the fuck on" thread.
I finally managed to buy a new computer instead of my 10 year old laptop, so from now on I'm able to watch series while streaming and splitting SM with something. I haven't decided yet what site to work for besides SM, but I'm considering Stripchat and Imlive. I will also try Skyprivate, it can run in the background while streaming.
First day with the new equipment is not bad, I made $74 in 3 hours
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Re: The "Just stay the fuck on" thread.
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Cutie101
I am looking at the succesful models on Jasmin, since I can see their stats. On average, an above average and top earning model is putting about 200-260 hours online per month. These ladies are really greedy :)))) Some of them has high tippers who spoil them with $5-$10k in a shift, but no, they stick there and keep staying the fuck on, they don't "reward" themselves with less hours on cam and go offline immediately after. And the next day they are back and grinding. I feel so ashamed of myself... That's a winner attitude!
I am super tempted to put 200 hours this month, as I used to put back when i was making a lot :))) I guess I have no choice but fucking do it.
I love that you look at the stats, it's nice to see that we can get the same results if we put in the same work. Now we just have to put in the work! :bullwhip:
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Re: The "Just stay the fuck on" thread.
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LeilaB
I finally managed to buy a new computer instead of my 10 year old laptop, so from now on I'm able to watch series while streaming and splitting SM with something. I haven't decided yet what site to work for besides SM, but I'm considering Stripchat and Imlive. I will also try Skyprivate, it can run in the background while streaming.
First day with the new equipment is not bad, I made $74 in 3 hours
I've just started with stripchat and having pretty decent results. Try and start when you have 2 weeks available to make the most of your "new status". I was only able to do the first 5 days of it because of house guests but I've still been earning equal or more than streamate - which makes up for it being slow.
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4+ hrs and $10 an hr on SM sheesh. I've got a headache and I'm gonna throw the towel in at 5pm CST. I tried. Tomorrow is a new day.
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Miss_ShaSha
4+ hrs and $10 an hr on SM sheesh. I've got a headache and I'm gonna throw the towel in at 5pm CST. I tried. Tomorrow is a new day.
Today has been brutal
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Originally Posted by
Ambercat
I've just started with stripchat and having pretty decent results. Try and start when you have 2 weeks available to make the most of your "new status". I was only able to do the first 5 days of it because of house guests but I've still been earning equal or more than streamate - which makes up for it being slow.
Congrats for your good results! Can I ask you what is your strategy on stripchat? I mean, I'm just getting to know the site but its concept is totally different than SM. I don't want to do full shows, using toys for tips in public, but I'm afraid I can't be successful without it.
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Re: The "Just stay the fuck on" thread.
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Originally Posted by
LeilaB
I finally managed to buy a new computer instead of my 10 year old laptop, so from now on I'm able to watch series while streaming and splitting SM with something. I haven't decided yet what site to work for besides SM, but I'm considering Stripchat and Imlive. I will also try Skyprivate, it can run in the background while streaming.
First day with the new equipment is not bad, I made $74 in 3 hours
Leila, tell more about Imlive once you test it please? I 'd like to try other sites, stripchat doesn't really appeal to me because of public shows. I don't know anything about Imlive though, would be nice to add another online site.
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Re: The "Just stay the fuck on" thread.
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Originally Posted by
LeilaB
I finally managed to buy a new computer instead of my 10 year old laptop, so from now on I'm able to watch series while streaming and splitting SM with something. I haven't decided yet what site to work for besides SM, but I'm considering Stripchat and Imlive. I will also try Skyprivate, it can run in the background while streaming.
First day with the new equipment is not bad, I made $74 in 3 hours
Congrats for your new pc! Now better equipment means more money. What laptop did you get?
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Luci Fer
;D you had no idea, but your subconscious did!
Haha, my subconscious is aligning with my work :')
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Luci Fer
Leila, tell more about Imlive once you test it please? I 'd like to try other sites, stripchat doesn't really appeal to me because of public shows. I don't know anything about Imlive though, would be nice to add another online site.
I've made a little research today, and the site has kinda bad reviews at the ImLive Thread and at Wecamgirls. The traffic is said to be bad, and if I understood well, the model commission is only 12% if the member uses bonus credits. In addition in the first few online hours you have to work at a $0.98 per min. rate, and as the basic commission is 30% after a 10 minute show you get less than $3 loool. So i'm looking for another option now. :/ I wish my camroom and my photos were good enough for Livejasmin, I would definitely try that instead of Imlive.
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Snowgirl
Congrats for your new pc! Now better equipment means more money. What laptop did you get?
Thank you Snowgirl! I bought a pc with Intel Core i5-8500 6-Core 3GHz processor and 16GB RAM. My old laptop had an i3-3220 cpu and 6GB RAM, and the difference is huge :D
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LeilaB
Thank you Snowgirl! I bought a pc with Intel Core i5-8500 6-Core 3GHz processor and 16GB RAM. My old laptop had an i3-3220 cpu and 6GB RAM, and the difference is huge :D
That's a good choice!
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So I want to try to aim for 4 hours today. I've been sticking fairly consistently to trying to do at least 2 hours daily but honestly on SM it can be like pulling teeth at the minute, the amount of timewasters is unreal as I'm sure you ladies have seen. As I was writing that I did get pulled into an exclusive, which I am legit grateful for but the guy was boring and it was short, didn't even remove all my clothes. I will see how the first 2 hours go, if it's quiet then I'll break and do another 2 hours. Aiming to splitcam on Cam4 for quiet stretches, Cam4 is no goldmine but every so often it pulls through for ya ha.
For anyone bored but grinding away, STFO and wanting to up their game, recommend reading this thread as well:
https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...ake-More-Money
Honestly just reading that suddenly, I was doubling how long my shows were. You forget these little tricks and to take your time after a while and it so does make a difference. Made some new 50% or even full just chatting customers that way and also just enjoyed the shows so much more. For the minute men you end up not wasting your time and take some of their money without doing much. What we do is an art, a unique service that many people could not and would not want to provide and I now refuse to be rushed or do more than I have to, especially when I'm STFO for long hours. And another point, our orgasms have powerful manifesting energy, so I focus on what I want to attract into my life when I pleasure myself and focus on connecting to my divine feminine which I know might sound silly to some but it helps with mindset I find and gives meaning to what I do. Because my pleasure is for me, no one else, they can pay for the privilege of watching me do it, but it's not up to them. I momentarily forget the guy and they usually love it because they can see you genuinely enjoying yourself. The most genuine guys who actually care about your pleasure are also usually the most generous. Of course there are moments one needs to suck it up and think only of the money, but that must be balanced with well being to be sustainable I think. There's my little motivational bit for the day.
Will continue to update. Have managed an hour so far and made a small amount but enough to stick around another hour so let's goooooo!
UPDATE: 1 hour 45 mins in, 3 potentials not much movement in those 45, taking my break because I'm also hungry lol
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Originally Posted by
Cutie101
Update: 6 hours in and only $25, then I caught a new and good client and made over my low goal.
5 hours left and I start being hopeful for one more good client.
Update: 10 hours and slow af. Grateful for that one client. 2 more hours and I am out.
Update: 12 hours and it's been pulling teeth. Totally lucky with that one client, but that's the purpose of staying the fuck on, right? Glad I didn't abandon after 4 hours of slowness.
Jasmin: $350 ($260 only from that one client, the rest were 4-5 minute privates, tons of hours in freechat and tips)
Chaturbate: $10
Streamate: $0
Imlive: $0
Total: $360
Back again tomorow, for a new 12 hr round!
You inspire me with the hours you put in Cutie! You go girl, every little bit helps and builds.
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Originally Posted by
LeilaB
I finally managed to buy a new computer instead of my 10 year old laptop, so from now on I'm able to watch series while streaming and splitting SM with something. I haven't decided yet what site to work for besides SM, but I'm considering Stripchat and Imlive. I will also try Skyprivate, it can run in the background while streaming.
First day with the new equipment is not bad, I made $74 in 3 hours
OMG LeilaB I am soooo happy for you! Honestly it will make a massive difference. Did for me, simply changing laptop took me to earnings that I could actually live on and comfortably so if I STFO lol, could never have done it without.
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Originally Posted by
Ambercat
I've just started with stripchat and having pretty decent results. Try and start when you have 2 weeks available to make the most of your "new status". I was only able to do the first 5 days of it because of house guests but I've still been earning equal or more than streamate - which makes up for it being slow.
Ooh thanks for this Ambercat, like Luci Fer I am also looking for other sites to experiment with. But I am also not a big fan of public shows.
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Miss_ShaSha
4+ hrs and $10 an hr on SM sheesh. I've got a headache and I'm gonna throw the towel in at 5pm CST. I tried. Tomorrow is a new day.
Sha you are honestly such an inspiration, your niche is so tricky and you are smashing it and putting in those hours every day like a boss. You inspire us all queen.
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Originally Posted by
Luci Fer
Leila, tell more about Imlive once you test it please? I 'd like to try other sites, stripchat doesn't really appeal to me because of public shows. I don't know anything about Imlive though, would be nice to add another online site.
Looking at lower posts looks like Imlive isn't worth it according to Leila
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Originally Posted by
LeilaB
I wish my camroom and my photos were good enough for Livejasmin
They relaxed their rules, trust me, if you have a clean room, it's all good. If you can describe your cam room (don't need to put pics, for safety reasons- or you can DM to me an imgur link then you can delete it), i can help you improve it. You don't need much, believe me.
As for pics, if you have a good phone, or you have a friend that has a camera and you can borrow it, you can look at youtube tutorials for instagramable pictures :)) You only need 4-5 professional type of pics, nothing fancy. You don't need luxurious decors anymore, neither for cam nor pics. You can take the pics in front of a clean wall, empty or with a plant as a decoration, or a lamp, etc.
The best inspiration you find on jasmin at the hot flirt category. There are tons of independent models in there with modest decors. At girls category there are also, if you hover with your mouse trough the rooms, you will get an idea. You can spot who is independent and who's from a studio.
They are now aiming for clean, non clutered and decent lit rooms.
Also, take your time to look trough girls and hot flirt category, to get an idea about profile pictures. You will be able to spot the top professional-studio type ones, to less professional but good quality ones. You'll see that there are plenty of "modest" profile pics also, that got accepted. Take a few minutes to look around.
I just rented myself a space for camming and i will only have a colored wall, a sofa and an accent accesory (in time i will probably add a fancy lamp and a painting above the sofa). Since I am in a fetish category, i will also add a shelving metal storage, to put some shoes and chains and that is it. Ok and a rug too, for soundproofing (both neighbors and my background echo for my microphone).
Currently, I work from a desk, on an office chair and behind me is my tufted dark colored bed with a chain on it and my dark curtains. I basically cam from a corner. And they were ok with it. A year ago, when they went crazy, they said is not enough, lol. That's why I left. Now they accept it again, so yeah... they did definitely relax everything.
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New shift!! Day 7. I can't believe I worked for a week, so many hours. It's still little, comparing with other models who have been doing this for years and they don't come on forums to brag they worked hard for a week, lol :)))) Looking at their stats, i often wonder: don't they have family problems, menstruation pain, an annoying bf, a headache, a nail broken, a pet (i see some posting pics with their pets, haha). Like... the discipline is insane. You really need mental discipline to leave everything at the door, the moment you press "broadcast". I can only feel like an idiot, wasting time of my life, procrastinating for minor problems that don't even matter now. Especially the most common one: "I don't feel like it... meh". Geez...
I remember in 2013-2014 when there was this top model on Jasmin, for 2 years in a row, that worked almost every day 14-16 hours shifts. On another forum someone was saying: "Ask any model to work 16 hours in ONE day, not two years and watch them calling an ambulance and a therapist after that day" :))))))))))))))))))). True True True.
I can't do 16 hours, but I noticed I can do 12 (16, occasionaly).
After 7 days I can tell the next:
- Idk who what posted on youtube anymore
- Idk what tea has been spilled this week and I didn't die for not knowing
- I don't know what happened in the country/ around the world since i haven't watched news.
- Malls and coffee shops still exist, they didn't dissapear
- My console and netflix are still there
- My bank account is $3000 bigger.
- I spent more time on cam, but mentally I feel better. News, twitter, gossips, covid, politics and other stuff were actually destroying me mentally and I wasn't in the mood to cam. One week without and I feel good. I might start to like living under a rock :)).
Let's see what happens today. Putting only 10 hours i think, because tomorow is friday and i wanna do 14 hours trough the weekend. Tuesday to friday i will be off, to move my shit into my new camming space, to clean it, to put everything in place, etc.
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Re: The "Just stay the fuck on" thread.
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Originally Posted by
Cutie101
New shift!! Day 7. I can't believe I worked for a week, so many hours. It's still little, comparing with other models who have been doing this for years and they don't come on forums to brag they worked hard for a week, lol :)))) Looking at their stats, i often wonder: don't they have family problems, menstruation pain, an annoying bf, a headache, a nail broken, a pet (i see some posting pics with their pets, haha). Like... the discipline is insane. You really need mental discipline to leave everything at the door, the moment you press "broadcast". I can only feel like an idiot, wasting time of my life, procrastinating for minor problems that don't even matter now. Especially the most common one: "I don't feel like it... meh". Geez...
I remember in 2013-2014 when there was this top model on Jasmin, for 2 years in a row, that worked almost every day 14-16 hours shifts. On another forum someone was saying: "Ask any model to work 16 hours in ONE day, not two years and watch them calling an ambulance and a therapist after that day" :))))))))))))))))))). True True True.
I can't do 16 hours, but I noticed I can do 12 (16, occasionaly).
After 7 days I can tell the next:
- Idk who what posted on youtube anymore
- Idk what tea has been spilled this week and I didn't die for not knowing
- I don't know what happened in the country/ around the world since i haven't watched news.
- Malls and coffee shops still exist, they didn't dissapear
- My console and netflix are still there
- My bank account is $3000 bigger.
- I spent more time on cam, but mentally I feel better. News, twitter, gossips, covid, politics and other stuff were actually destroying me mentally and I wasn't in the mood to cam. One week without and I feel good. I might start to like living under a rock :)).
Let's see what happens today. Putting only 10 hours i think, because tomorow is friday and i wanna do 14 hours trough the weekend. Tuesday to friday i will be off, to move my shit into my new camming space, to clean it, to put everything in place, etc.
Such an inspiration and very well done for pulling so many hours and for patience. This week suspension which equals a big loss of earnings made me reconsider myself and camming and how lucky I am to be able to make money on SM even when i have bad days or a bad week, always turns around depending on my hours and dedication inputed.
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Originally Posted by
LeilaB
I've made a little research today, and the site has kinda bad reviews at the ImLive Thread and at Wecamgirls. The traffic is said to be bad, and if I understood well, the model commission is only 12% if the member uses bonus credits. In addition in the first few online hours you have to work at a $0.98 per min. rate, and as the basic commission is 30% after a 10 minute show you get less than $3 loool. So i'm looking for another option now. :/ I wish my camroom and my photos were good enough for Livejasmin, I would definitely try that instead of Imlive.
Thank you Snowgirl! I bought a pc with Intel Core i5-8500 6-Core 3GHz processor and 16GB RAM. My old laptop had an i3-3220 cpu and 6GB RAM, and the difference is huge :D
Leila, congratulations for the new pc! Have you just bought it from a shop? I will just say, your configuration is pretty much enough for 2 sites running at decent cpu (70%) aprox for long period of time, and this considering one site in 1080p and one in 720p. and maybe light browsing in the back. May your new pc brings you ton of money xxx
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DeliveryLadyx
Such an inspiration and very well done for pulling so many hours and for patience. This week suspension which equals a big loss of earnings made me reconsider myself and camming and how lucky I am to be able to make money on SM even when i have bad days or a bad week, always turns around depending on my hours and dedication inputed.
OMG did you get your account back? I haven't followed the SM thread since you posted that...