How to market housewife/milf?
Hello all!
Now that I'm getting back in the camming game, I don't really know how to transition from single college girl to a housewife and milf. I don't know if guys like the single divorced houswife schtick or the married you can't have this schtick.. Or do you just not answer? What do you do when the chatroom starts talking about your husband when you don't want them to, but you don't want to come off as scolding or mean?
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I usually forget to take my wedding ring off at the start of the show so I get asked about my husband all the time. I smile sweetly and tell them they are the only man I want on my mind right now. Most of the time they stop asking questions. If they continue I will kick a non tipper and feel out tippers to see if a married woman is what they want to spend money on.
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Put your self in housewives in the little checkbox on SM. Use those words and similar ones when you promote yourself.
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I always forget to take my wedding ring off. haha. When guys tell me my man is so lucky, I tell them no, they are lucky at the moment. :)
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I'm honest about being married, but then I mention that my husband thinks it's hot that I whore myself out on the internet, and they're all like woooooo tell me morrrrreee and I'm like let's go pvt bb I tell you all about my relationship bb. lol
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I tell them Im married. they don't really seem to care one way or another for the most part, except the few that have some kind of fetish. Those guys seem to like the whole forbidden fruit thing and say things like I want to fuck you in his bed while hes at work. I am straight with them that I dont cheat on him but it doesnt discourage it if anything just seems to make them more jealous toward him.
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Great question Clara, I'm trying to find out the answers to this too. I was wondering maybe the housewife/milf guys might like kitchen while wearing apron shows maybe? or idk I'm trying to think of different shows to pull these guys in.
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luvnrockets
I'm honest about being married, but then I mention that my husband thinks it's hot that I whore myself out on the internet, and they're all like woooooo tell me morrrrreee and I'm like let's go pvt bb I tell you all about my relationship bb. lol
This. :)
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I don't think there's any disadvantage to being an openly married/taken cam model. Most of our custies are not delusional and don't believe that they will ever end up in a relationship with us. There are some guys that do, but they are in the minority, and you probably don't want too much attention from them anyway.
I'm not saying you're wrong about guys liking the domestic/cooking/etc aspects of a housewife - I'm sure there's a niche for that, and it seems to work well on token sites - but in my experience, guys are usually thinking more along the lines of the bored housewife that fucks the pool boy. Other thoughts that I know pass through guys' heads when they think about fucking a married woman (in real life or on cam):
~ She already has someone that provides her with emotional and financial support, so she won't come to me with that crap.
~ She's already in a committed relationship, so she's not going to want commitment from me.
~ She can get laid at home, and yet she wants more. She must be a total nympho. (When I tell guys that I'm married and have a lover, and yet I still want to play on cam, they freak out in a good way.)
~ Some dude committed to fucking this woman for the rest of his life, so she must be doing something right.
~ Maybe this married woman is willing to step out with me because I'm just that irresistible.
~ Maybe I can fuck her better than her husband does (and win some sort of male ego gold medal).
~ Maybe she's looking for extra-curricular fun because she's into a whole bunch of freaky shit that her husband won't do with her. (Could be a good or bad thing, depending on the guy.)
Some niches that love a married woman:
~ Cuckold: You're married but play with countless men online, so you sort of already have some cuckold experience.
~ Mild Voyeur: Likes to get a peek into your real sex life (via talking about it), and being in a relationship means you're more likely to have a real sex life.
~ Guys that are into MMF threeways or gangbangs: You've already got one guy there, awesome!
~ Forced bi: You have a real cock at your disposal, so (in the fantasy) you don't even have to break out the strap on... unless you want to double team him!
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^Awesomely insightful post as usual, Magical_Hoohah! I'd say you're totally right on all of the above- coming from another married and out camgirl. I've never had it be an issue and some get off on it. In my experience mostly cuckolds and rarely those who like to feel they're getting something your husband isn't, at that moment. Must be the cheating fantasy.
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One thing I simply cannot get into is saying I love to cheat on my husband, etc. What a turn off! And when they assume I'm hiding camming from my hubby I just laugh- if I hide this money from him I gotta be hiding it from the IRS! Dishonesty isn't sexy. I may be a bored and horny housewife, but assuming my marriage has issues is ridiculous. Show common sense, bb.
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I always say I'm married, but it is ok I am allowed to have a boyfriend the guys love it, if I was divorced I would say that and be like he was old and tired I'm on the hunt for some new fresh cock lol
What I have noticed the most is regardless of if your divorced milf/housewive or if you are currently married it does not really matter same as being old or young, fat or slim, small boobs or big. Instead of trying to offer and be things guys want you to be ( most guys have no idea what they really want) and instead offer whatever you are or whatever the character/persona you are taking on while not seeming fake. I get guys who want me to talk about my husband, if your divorced talking about a real or fake husband may annoy you. Be prepared to get LOTS of guys trying to get you to talk about kids or leading you in the direction of kids.
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I started off saying yes I was married and now I just tell them I have a husband a boyfriend a girlfriend two dogs a cat and a child...that generally shuts them up. But I like where your going with playing to the whole hw/milf thing. I get so many guys asking the whole incest thing and it drives me crazy so I try not to acknowledge any of it. Unfortunately I am still trying to find my niche ;/
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I get asked in the club "Do you have a boyfriend" and answer "Yep, couple of girlfriends too"; or "Actually I'm married, we have a very open relationship" that sort of thing.
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Ahh the memories of some of the shit you hear while dancing....I miss it though...kinda sad! I actually think I might venture out and to the "amateur night" one week for shits and giggles.