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Fired - Extras or get to stepping
My situation just went from bad to worse.
I just got fired for not doing 'extras'.
Manager said to me: if u don't want to suck or f*ck that's fine. But my Girls will at least givee hand jobs.
I assured him this girl wouldn't. If I would Id never even have to walk IN A CLUB!
He told me to get dressed and get out. We were at an impass... Neither budging.
I got out.
Went straight to another club.
I start there tomorrow at 7pm. Take more than this to break me.
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Jfc. Never been fired for not doing extras, but was told at a lot of places that performing extras was 'expected'. Sorry you had such a bad experience, good on you to switch to another club right away!
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He FIRED you for not doing extras?! WTF! In the entire time I've danced and been on this forum, I have NEVER heard that ever happening! I've heard the opposite: girls getting fired because of getting caught doing extras, not the other way around!!!
I'm glad you GTFO, because that is a place you don't want to be in anyway! I am sick to my stomach though. I can't believe this shit.
I hope the other club works out better for you.
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Agree w/ above. Find another club when they pull that shit. That's not a safe environment even if you were willing to stoop to that lvl. Hope your new club works out better for you, stay safe!
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I'm a little skeptical of this whole thing, personally. Even when I worked in a very, very dirty club in NYC, the manager didn't fire me. Mostly, everyone ignored me. Unless this club is a little shitty hole in the wall somewhere, I don't buy it.
Also not to sound like a bitch but if you're sleeping on the beach with no money how do you have the internet and found SW so quickly? I don't know, it doesn't add up to me.
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Vackra
I'm a little skeptical of this whole thing, personally. Even when I worked in a very, very dirty club in NYC, the manager didn't fire me. Mostly, everyone ignored me. Unless this club is a little shitty hole in the wall somewhere, I don't buy it.
Also not to sound like a bitch but if you're sleeping on the beach with no money how do you have the internet and found SW so quickly? I don't know, it doesn't add up to me.
You're not a bitch. I felt something was odd too but stranger things have happened.
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Even homeless people have cell phones with 4G. Costs less than a few newspapers.
And when things are really good I can even connect to wifi at McDonald's and the library! Hehe
Pretty impressive heeeey??!!
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Originally Posted by
Vackra
I'm a little skeptical of this whole thing, personally. Even when I worked in a very, very dirty club in NYC, the manager didn't fire me. Mostly, everyone ignored me. Unless this club is a little shitty hole in the wall somewhere, I don't buy it.
Also not to sound like a bitch but if you're sleeping on the beach with no money how do you have the internet and found SW so quickly? I don't know, it doesn't add up to me.
WHY would someone make up a story about being homeless on this forum? I don't think anyone is that desperate for attention.
And yeah, people have cellphones. I take it that the OP had a cellphone before she was homeless. And finding stripperweb is not that hard.
Although I've never heard of a club firing someone for NOT performing extras, you never know how some clubs operate.
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Originally Posted by
Vackra
I'm a little skeptical of this whole thing, personally. Even when I worked in a very, very dirty club in NYC, the manager didn't fire me. Mostly, everyone ignored me. Unless this club is a little shitty hole in the wall somewhere, I don't buy it.
Also not to sound like a bitch but if you're sleeping on the beach with no money how do you have the internet and found SW so quickly? I don't know, it doesn't add up to me.
The situation is weird but I'm from the area and know it very well. The area she's in is basically filled with clubs that are 99% extras-based. Basically any club off of US 19 from St. Pete to Spring Hill is all extra, extra, extra. The majority of the people in that area are addicted to pills, so it's mostly drug dealers and prostitutes there. So I'm honestly not surprised this happened. My ex became homeless and slept in his car or on the beach as well, and still was able to have the latest Apple products. Eh, his priorities were obviously fucked up lol. I mean, it's always best to take anything anyone says with a grain of salt, but I like to give people the benefit of the doubt.
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Mikaela Ray
Even homeless people have cell phones with 4G.
Summed up my thoughts...I have a prepay that costs me $30 a month on my smart phone and it's pretty good.
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The closest thing that I've gotten, was when a housemom candidly told me that if I'm going to look for money by clean dancing only at that particular club. She told me to go somewhere else. And after trying the club a bunch of different shifts, I eventually left because she was right and didn't want to waste anymore time making shit money and trying to compete with the other stuff.
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Sugar Baby
The situation is weird but I'm from the area and know it very well. The area she's in is basically filled with clubs that are 99% extras-based. Basically any club off of US 19 from St. Pete to Spring Hill is all extra, extra, extra. The majority of the people in that area are addicted to pills, so it's mostly drug dealers and prostitutes there. So I'm honestly not surprised this happened. My ex became homeless and slept in his car or on the beach as well, and still was able to have the latest Apple products. Eh, his priorities were obviously fucked up lol. I mean, it's always best to take anything anyone says with a grain of salt, but I like to give people the benefit of the doubt.
Ooooh do you remember Bliss? I watched a girl do a line of coke off a toilet right after I pee'd. I think I worked there less than a month. Yiiiikes. Ain't nobody got time for that.
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No shit, glad you moved on. Never heard of a girl being fired for not doing extras, but I have heard of clubs blatantly telling dancers that extras are expected. Better luck at the next place, because this one is NOT for anyone.
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More and more clubs are just brothels. Who would have thought being a clean dancer would become a bad thing.
The web, men letting each other know what girl does what thing for what price at any club has changed it for the worst.
It isn't matter of you getting busted by the cops for it in a club but WHEN. Don't matter who told you to do it or else, they will deny deny deny. They are NOT going to bail you out or pay for a lawyer.
Sometimes in life, you just have to move on. Most of the time it is for the best. Gives you the opportunity to explore more options, to try new career paths. Those sales skills are an asset not most females in today's world have.
Good Luck,
Sam
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Vyanka
Put the club on blast.
That is just free advertising for them.
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Is there a way to sue them or take legal action? Pretty if they are a strip club they cannot legally have prostitution going on. That's why girls get fired for doing extras. I'd say consult a lawyer, honestly. I have never heard of this happening before. Sounds like they need to change what kind of establishment they are.
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Originally Posted by
Vackra
I'm a little skeptical of this whole thing, personally. Even when I worked in a very, very dirty club in NYC, the manager didn't fire me. Mostly, everyone ignored me. Unless this club is a little shitty hole in the wall somewhere, I don't buy it.
Also not to sound like a bitch but if you're sleeping on the beach with no money how do you have the internet and found SW so quickly? I don't know, it doesn't add up to me.
Yeah... There's a few curious things here...
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Maybe an anonymous tip to the authorities?
If handies are expected, I'm sure an undercover officer can get one no problem.
Also good luck OP, hope you get shelter soon. It's gonna start getting colder soon down here in Florida. Stay warm and safe, babe.
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I used to work at DD off of 19, so I can attest to the super-high extras of that area.
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I think she has bigger problems to deal with than trying to change something like this- believe me - the cops know the club is dirty - move on hopefully the next club will be better
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I agree the 19 is the shadiest, shitty part of FL for dancing. I worked at Brass Flamingo & at the divey nude place across from the Mcdonalds down the street from it about 8 years ago & hated what it became after working there for a couple of months. Guys stopped buying dances from me due to the fact that I wasn't providing extras. Also worked at that club in Clearwater called OZ it it too was bleh. I didn't make shit there :/
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Hey Ladies
This club is located Largo. PM me if you live here and need to know the name. If I say it here all of the customers is Tampa Bay would go there tonight! lol
I worked another clubast night and I felt very safe - welcome - understood - appreciated. The managers were happy with me and the owner is quick to send girls home that look all drunk - tired - done. I really hope this place works out mbecause it's very clean of drugs (no use visible anyway and no one asked me if I 'needed anything'.
Extras are not expected or tolerated. The club was very dead for a Friday night. I'm praying that's because of Santas fat ass (mad at him - he's ruining my game). I hope the club isn't always that dead.
I appreciate everyone who has read my posts. Even the ones that are a lil cynical regarding me and my pursuits. Trust me when I say the last thing I need or have ever needed in life is more attention. Attention - unfortunately - is something I wish I had less of. Those that get a lot of it can surely relate.
I'm on the bus now heading up the beach into St. Pete/work. My goal for tonight isn't purely money related. My goal for tonight is to simply stay happy and positive regardless of how slow we may or may not be. I can't afford to have a crappy ungrateful attitude. Life is hard enough.
With all of that being sad - my money goal for tonight is 500.00. I will feel blessed with 300.00. I will be grateful with 100.00 after paying house and cab fare back to the beach. However - I will hustle my little ass off Til the lights flick on in serious pursuit of my 500.00. It's mine. I just got to go out here and get it.
Peace and Love. May we all make a million dollars tonight! XOXO
(For those wondering how I'm posting now... I'm not even having to use that ol 4G! City buses here have Wi-Fi ACK! Yep. It's amazing huh? lol (smart ass in me just came out - sorry. Not sorry) : )
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Girl, I would totally give an anonymous tip to the local trash paper just don't give your name. They eat that shit up, then tape a copy to the front door of the club before they open. See how many extras they are giving out when all the local wives are dragging their fat creeper husbands out by their family jewels. Once it is public, the cops will be all over that.
I like to bring down the house, not just break the window. Additionally you could just SUE, and then you may just be able to fire his ass. :-P Good luck girl!
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Keep us updated! I hope you'll get a hotel / motel room if you make your goal for the night. Logistically speaking, I don't even understand how you're dancing. Makeup, hair styling, shoes, outfit...you are clearly one hell of a driven woman!