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Guys that say they don't get dances
The times that you approach a potential customer and they say they aren't buying dances, how do you end the conversation?
Do do you make up an excuse to leave - like going to the dressing room or bathroom or another customer waiting on you?
do you just get up and walk away?
do you chat for a little bit to end the conversation and then leave?
do you suggest they tip you and then leave?
just wondering the best strategy for handling the guys who say they 'don't get dances'
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Re: Guys that say they don't get dances
i say " ok thanks!" and get up and leave..or, if i've been sitting with them awhile i'll hold out my Gstring . i dont bother trying to change their minds
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"Oh, well in that case I'll leave you be. Have a good night." Waste no more time on them.
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I think this is one of those questions that there is no 'right way' to handle. Djoser often complains abt how when he goes to the clubs & says 'I don't get dances bc I'm in the industry' girls will often start pressuring him to tip, in one way or another, or they 'get pissy' & make snarky comments/hold out the garter/walk away. He claims he always buys drinks & tips well, thus he finds any further attempts by the girl to make $$$ offencive. The one time I went clubbing w/ him we did not really get approached by any1 serious, & he didn't tip ginormously, altho he did tip each girl that came over, so Idk really.
I guess it depends on how patient you're feeling. I have walked away practically mid-sentence, or done the garter-holdout move if I have spent significant time already. I have also tried variatons of the 'You don't buy dances? Ok, you can buy my company w/o dances' plan of attack. What I definitely do is warn other girls after I leave that customer that he is a timewaster, & if he is particularly rude/smug abt it I have found ways to get him kicked out.
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I laugh at them and leave.
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I direct them to Woody's. (Popular gay bar in the area)
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Last time I said, "Well it was nice talking with you, but I have to go dance for someone now. Would you mind tipping me for my time?"
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I just say it was nice to meet them, have a nice night and leave. I see/hear far too many girls whine and try to change their mind (all while wasting their own time).
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Unless that sentence is followed by......."but I'll pay you to sit here and hang out with me" I roll my eyes and walk away. Don't come to the club if you're not going to spend on the ladies. Period.
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IF:
-They recently arrived and nobody else had approached them...I used to simply excuse myself politely. They were probably waiting on another dancer, or I simply wasn't of their liking.
-They had been approached by other dancers, and the other dancers didn't had any success...I normally just did the whole "leaving abruptly, while they were still talking".
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Jay12
IF:
-They recently arrived and nobody else had approached them...I used to simply excuse myself politely. They were probably waiting on another dancer, or I simply wasn't of their liking.
-They had been approached by other dancers, and the other dancers didn't had any success...I normally just did the whole "leaving abruptly, while they were still talking".
yeah I think unless they tip or seem non-douchebag-like then I'll start leaving abruptly.
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I usually don't say a word and leave. Once in a while I'll say, "that's no fun" right before I leave.
Meh. If he has NO intentions of spending, I don't bother trying get to convince him. Time is money. Unless, I know for a fact he'll pay me to sit and talk (which I love).
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I give them the look of shame and walk the fuck away. Unless they're tipping in 20's I don't care for their tips, because their petty tips is nothing compared to dance money. I don't condone cheapness no matter what the excuse is.
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I politely excuse myself and tell them have a good night. Now people that say "I don't buy dances but let me take you out to dinner" I pretty much walk off on.
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The club I work at has a lot of options: dances, stage performance, full menu Steak House, video gaming, live card games, sports broadcasts etc. I don't immediately dismiss a customer who doesn't want dances. He may want to have company while he gambles or someone to drink with him. If a customer is buying dancers drinks, he usually has plenty of company from that act alone.
If a customer is acting like he's into me but not spending a dime, I get out of there as quickly as possible. I've managed to train the freeloaders to spend, but it takes a long time to get there.
Cheapskate Customer: "Will you do 2-4-1 lapdances?"
Me: "No, silly! I've got too many people who are happy to pay full price plus tip. Why would I do a dance for half price?"
Cheapskate Customer: "I'd rather take you out to dinner."
Me: "Why? Do I look hungry?"
Cheapskate Customer: "I don't pay for it."
Me: "Well then, I better go back to work, since I don't come here for my health."
Cheapskate Customer: "I don't buy dances, but I'll tip you to hang out with me."
Me: "Thanks! I charge $100 for a 30 minute conversation in the bar." (pulls out phone and starts stopwatch program) "If you like, I accept all major credit cards."
Me: "Are you ready to go back to VIP?"
Cheapskate Customer: "Why does it have to be all about the money?"
Me: "You do know that this is a strip club, right? Our business model is based on getting paid to entertain people. I thought everyone knew that!"
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OMG I HATE these annoying customers!! Last shift I had this older guy who's always at the club try and get a deal for some $10 dances.. really?! You think I'm going to give you a deal on these cheap single dances when I'm usually in VIP? No. I just laughed at him and said pay me and left. I also have just been rolling my eyes lately and walking away to the customers who "don't get dances". These guys try to act better than the other customers there and it's so sad.
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I hate time wasters. I had some guy say he didn't buy dances tip me $10 and then offer me a drink. So I sat for the drink and chatted for 5 more minutes. When I finished my drink I went to get up and he was like "I just spent $10, where are you going." UMMM....hello? I get $10 plus a tip every 4 minutes for lapdances. I gave him his allotted 4 minutes and then some. Why do some guys act so entitled? >.<
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i usually say," honey I'm having fun sitting here and talking with u, but management gets really angry when i sit with a customer that doesn't get lap dances, they even fire girls for sitting with customers too long, you don't mind tipping me do you, i really don't wanna stop talking to u.?"
this usually gets me a tip.
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i usually say," honey I'm having fun sitting here and talking with u, but management gets really angry when i sit with a customer that doesn't get lap dances, they even fire girls for sitting with customers too long, you don't mind tipping me do you, i really don't wanna stop talking to u.?"
this usually gets me a tip.
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"Then the least you can do is stick some $$ in my ass!"
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I say "then why the fuck are you here?!?" lol just kidding! but seriously, I wish I could say that to them. I hate customers like that! total wastes of space. I just say "okay have fun doing your thing" and act like they dont exist.
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EastCoastDancer01
I say "then why the fuck are you here?!?" lol just kidding! but seriously, I wish I could say that to them. I hate customers like that! total wastes of space. I just say "okay have fun doing your thing" and act like they dont exist.
Ha i've said to a few custys before! Or I ask them " So you just came to drink over priced beer? "
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depending on my mood i'll ask for a tip or i'll just say "alright well let me know if you change your mind!" and smile and walk away