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Everyone has seen it, why does it happen- THAT girl making bank
Ok, so you get to work, spend 30 minutes putting the final touches on your face and hair you already perfected at home and get into a gorgeous outfit for the night. You look like 9 or a 10 that night. And when you get on the floor, there is a plain looking girl, lets say she is a theoretical 5, no makeup, no figure, bad posture, annoying voice, whack outfit, and a fake ass mop on her head. You think to yourself, "what in the world?" and just move along and start talking and flirting with customers. You are nice, the customers like you, they tell you that you are gorgeous. But when you try to close dances, you are being turned down left and right. You look over and realize it's the 5th time you've seen that raggedy looking thing paying for multiple dances. What gives? This chick is turning them out like it's nothing making hundreds and you haven't even broken a ten yet. So, you look around and scan the other girls to see how they are doing and you conclude that "wig" is the only one making money. We have all seen it, but no one knows why it happens.
My theories range from: men think they can get her, they like being the one that's more attractive in an exchange for once, they think she is really interested in them, they think she will do extras, she puts off such a weird vibe that's it's a turn on. Of the guys that go to clubs, many of them are really weird so maybe they are attracted to that wacky vibe.
What do you guys think?
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Re: Everyone has seen it, why does it happen- THAT girl making bank
Because they have that sort of voice/way of talking that is persuasive. I worked with a girl like that. She even admitted she was fat lol. But when she talked to you, you just nodded and agreed. It was like being in a trance. Remarkable really.
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Re: Everyone has seen it, why does it happen- THAT girl making bank
Look at the comments: " I like the one on the left better"
I am starting to believe guys don't like makeup.
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Everyone has worked with one before, when I started dancing, there was a crazy old lady like 40+ working with her head shaved with a mangled wig on her head, and she would make 2000+ per night
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youd think something superficial like look SHOULD always win in things like stripping or camming etc right?, I mean thats how guys work in theory! but just talking to people and such, turns out that ones demeanor/attitude/disposition and ability to engage verbally in a good manner or showing high degree of intellect can also be a major factor. Not the ONLY factor and not in all cases obviously- but one that can help when one lacks other attributes. Again in a club you can see it, even on cam you can see it- someone who is a 4 or a 5, at their best or even lower but their rooms are loaded, there in and out of shows constantly, and their not undercutting on cost, and ontop of it there not really doing anything overly unique in said shows. You wouldn't think they should by all rights not be doing as well- but they manage to do it somehow, and useually watching them in action is almost all in how well they hold themselves socially/personality wise
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We had one at my old club. She had the gift of gab. She was also good in sales and worked in other sales related jobs, and I'm sure that worked to her advantage.
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I chalk it up to them being highly agressive. THey don't even ASK for a dance, they just do it and the guy pays them to go away.
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i worked with a girl like that..probably late 40s by the looks of her ( and she was not one the hot cougar older women either), she had a horrendous figure, a drug addict's face, she would slouch her shoulders, and she was the most ridiculously awkward looking stripper on stage you've ever seen.. she would wear low, cheap, unflattering shoes that her shoes stuck out of..yet this girl was one of the top earners, and she had only started a month earlier. she was probably the most unattractive stripper in the club but damn would she bank.
her secret was that she wouldn't take a break, eat, smoke until she had talked to every single guy in the place and she was VERY aggressive. she was fearless when it came to groups or grouchy looking old guys. she would talk dirty to the customers to get them back there, and once they got back there she would definitely give them a little more than was allowed.
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A lot of times it's because the girl looks cheap and nasty, so they think she'll be more permissive.
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Those types either: 1. Have a magnetic personality that can charm a snake, or 2. They are an extras girl. Just my observation, anyway. I'm sure there are other reasons...
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Law of attraction. She subconsciously expects to make money, and for some reason, you subconsciously don't.
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^The one at my old club mentioned this. She would picture in her mind the money she expected to walk out with that night.
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I am that girl. I do wear nice outfits/makeup, but I'm 45 and my body is showing the wear and tear. My advantage is that I approach even the biggest jerks with love in my heart. Most people in strip clubs are lonely, and having a pretty young thing dance for them is nice, but the fake smiles and knowing that these girls would never, ever consider dating them can be even more depressing. I'm the attainable one. I treat my customers well, listen to them, give them cards on their birthdays, greet them enthusiastically and lavish attention on them even if they don't have enough $$ to buy dances that day. They will come back and spend on me later.
I also dance for the men that most of the girls find too boring, or too unattractive. I don't currently do extras due to my club's current political climate, but have no problem with it in an extras-friendly atmosphere.
Long story short, I make my customers feel handsome and wanted. That is why they pay me.
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^The love attitude towards these men is really important. Sure, many of the guys are gross and rude, but ignore those ones and save your love and attention for the sweethearts. I spent all night with one guy the other day, and he kept taking me back for 5-10 dances at a time because I just really enjoyed his company. Whether or not he will be a regular, I really don't care. I am just glad that I was able to make someone's day brighter because I genuinely enjoyed myself and he could tell. And, making bank in the process doesn't hurt. Love vibrations, yo.
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In my experience, it's because they are pushy and will not take no for an answer. There's a girl at my club that banks every day from noon to 4pm; she's the cutesy little girl next door but has a big belly (like, pregnant big) that most guys would not be down with IF she wasn't so pushy.
She jumps on guys as soon as they walk in, gives them a huge hug, acts like they're her long lost friend, etc. She "love hustles" them into VIP. If that doesn't work, she essentially wears them into submission: I actually found out from my old regular that she would buy VIP bands with her own money so they no longer had that reason to say no. He thought she was actually socially retarded (pardon me if that's not the right term); said he said no multiple times but she refused to leave, and he relented and got several songs in VIP with her.
It's personality and not being afraid to tell guys what you want/expect. I never HAVE to rock that angle, being a stereotypical Barbie stripper, but when I do I make more money.
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I wouldn't dare call myself ugly or the most unattractive girl in my current club but I'm def prob bigger than most working there which is going to hinder me to some extent. The way I get them back there & get them to spending $$$ is simple: I'm aggressive as fuck & persistent. In the old days I wouldn't make shit just by sitting & wasting time, but in the last few years I've learned that my look works best if I am aggressive & pushy. I don't care if they want me to go away, I won't until I have them in the back :) Ya at first I'll chit chat whatever but if we've sat for 2 songs MAX & I can't close that sale, I'm gone. I'll usually try again later if they're still around.
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i either assume gift of gab or extras explicitly offered off the bat.
what do you guys mean by being "pushy" in a good way? at my first club i really had no idea what i was doing and did more one line sale tricks than sitting with customers chatting, which obviously did not earn me much. so wondering how so many of you can earn by being "pushy"??? maybe i'm missing out.
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Re: Everyone has seen it, why does it happen- THAT girl making bank
i either assume gift of gab or extras explicitly offered off the bat.
what do you guys mean by being "pushy" in a good way? at my first club i really had no idea what i was doing and did more one line sale tricks than sitting with customers chatting, which obviously did not earn me much. so wondering how so many of you can earn by being "pushy"??? maybe i'm missing out.
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I am one of the top earners @ my current club most of the time but there are 2 girls that are just way better than me at hustling, one is pretty the other one not so much but I am figuring out what they are doing. One is super pushy and then lies about how many song to scam more money. When she takes them back she will sit on the guys lap to force him to stay in the VIP as long as possible without telling him how many songs and then tell him that it's 600 for example instead of the actual price of 200 etc. The other one is homely and just sad looking, but she puts off a weird vibe that makes her appealing somehow. I guess she is one of those middle of the road girls that guys feel like they could bang because she isn't out of their league. I don't earn as much as I could because
1. only approach guys that don't make me want to vom, so I miss out on money from disgusting guys
2. I am nice and just hang out with guys to have fun and the money comes, but sometimes I forget to close the sale and someone more aggressive closes after I primed them up
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I worked with a girl like this last night. She's a plain Jane..but she is aggressive. We were sitting at the bar talking and she practically bullied this lurker to buy us drinks.. He even somewhat insulted her by saying I was hotter than her but she just laughed it off and kept working him. she ended up ordering drinks and shots for us then demanded him to pay for them. This is a guy who NEVER spends $ on the girls or buys dances. I know aggressiveness works because when I can get into that mood I always bank. It just doesn't come naturally to me....I'm laid back and can't be bothered to approach everyone or bully them. This girl usually makes triple what I make and then complains that it isn't "that much." Haha
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Being a bully pays off much quicker than being a sheep... just sayin
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Re: Everyone has seen it, why does it happen- THAT girl making bank
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KaraLynn
lol this reminds me of an exact scenario at a club I worked at for awhile. My first night working I sat with a guy who was definitely into me but I was doing the slowly reeling him in thing. It was slow so this woman who is nice but not so attractive and looks older than her age came and sat with us and was very pushy and had him buying us drinks and double dances in like 2 seconds of her sitting down. The guy was very interested so I know I would have gotten him to spend, but she definitely sped up the process a lot more than I would have because I tend to be on the laid back side as well, and I'm not very good at being THAT aggressive lol. Later he said he preferred me because she wasn't his type and was too pushy for his taste but still, he was spending on BOTH of us lol. Some customers are put off by her because she was one of the less attractive girls in the club but once she had them paying attention she would get them spending a LOT of money.
The level of persistence that her and some other girls have seems to be something that comes naturally to them, I've never been able to pull it off to THAT level, but shit, it works. Guys might bitch about it later and wish they never spent that much money but it doesn't change the fact that their money is still in her pockets lol.
hahaha ^ true that! I don't give two fucks if guys don't like me bc I'm aggressive as hell, I look back & laugh all the way to tha bank :)
I wanna work with you one day girly, I wanna teach you some of my gypsy ways :p
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A girl I used to work with was a 6 in the face and a 5 in the body like if I ever saw her on a porn I'd immediately turn the tv off but this b*tch could sell ice to an eskimo.
She was the coldest private dance seller. Not only could she sell herself a dance but she always sold double dances. I happened to sit with her while she sold a triple dance with me her and another dancer. I kinda miss this broad.
At first I couldn't understand cause she was not physically attractive but then I realized she is aggressive and talks like a phone sex operator. She also had her numbers down pat and did not really give dudes time to think they just had to act.
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I really wish there were videos of these top hustlers in action. I would study it, and be that girl!
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I know right! I thought about getting a discreet listening device so I could eavesdrop on their hustle but I don't think it would work with the loud music in the background.
I do notice some of them doing extra stuff like rubbing on their crotch with their hand. Which could explain it.
I also notice that the best hustlers can easily get money out of customers at work but in their personal lives they shack up with pimp like boyfriends that suck them dry. Weird?!?!