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Well these numbers sound depressing noregrets but looks like an easier time in the cities you mentioned. Which isn't surprising. I used to live in one of those cities and it was way easier to attract wealthy men there then it is where I currently live. I was going to try to online sites but from all the negative reviews I may scrap that idea. Guess an upcoming move is in order for me!
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miss.a.p1600, there are a few ways to stack the odds in your favor. As you said, moving to places where there are wealthy men will help greatly. Another possibility is to look for 2 guys that can afford $2,500 a month. There are many more guys that can afford that than 5k for example. Keep in mind that even though there are few very wealthy guys, these guys are often juggling 4-5 or more girls if they're single (i.e. no official girlfriend). And even though there are women happy to be with them for free, they come with tons of strings attached. You just need to play to your strengths: fun NSA, no drama, no games, etc. Dating regular girls when you're wealthy is like playing chess all day. That can get very stressful.
As most people have said, online seems to be lots of work filtering out the fakes. You could always make a trip to one of the larger cities, dress up, and hit charity event circuit. If you meet the right guy he could help you with the apartment/move to that city. This time of year is great. There are quite a few events for children's charities in November and December.
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I feel quiet silly in sharing this, have no much experience in this field, work as dancer.. last year met a sd that wanted a relationship that I couldn't give, as we leave opposite sides of the world. So eventually I agree to meet him once a month, he pays for travels, no much extra money tho.. Just me experiencing traveling. The worst... We have love fir each others. But I course he met other sb and me I did my life at the club. So looks like I have no really understood how this business works.
I guess I need to see it only as business, that comes v easy when I striping.. But the other works which I am trying to explore no really...
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Tried a few of these sites in the past. sd4me I had bunk sucess but I did meet one guy who have me a pettily 100 bux to listen to him describe a "mutually beneficial relationship" as if I didn't already know. On SA I had a good lead with a guy who'd I know through an ex as a surgeon but never followed through because the connection weirded me out. I'm going to give it a go again though. I have a girl friend who's willing to go with me to ensure my safety in these endeavours. I'll keep y'all posted...
Hope this wasn't a Threadjack but didn't wanna start a new thread on this being so vague and kinda off point
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yeah i tried this type of arrangement and it was full baloney. i can make more money escorting. try freestyling a sugar daddy, i hear that's a much better option.
what i WILL be doing soon, is sending a bunch of messages about my escorting business to men on Seeking Arrangement. i'm sure i'll be able to get some interest, and just call it pay per play.
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I had the most success on craigslist. The sites catering to sd attract delusional hobby guys.
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That awkward moment when you're wondering why SA sucks and then you realize that you turned down soooooo many legit sugar daddies in real life cuz you weren't bout that life......before lol. Searching through my phone now looking for the ones I've ignored. I had a super old guy once that I met while he was with his sb, it was years ago. He begged me to come spend time with him on his yacht. He was probably too old to even want sex and his sb looked very happy and well taken care of.... I still have his email... but after 5 years he might not still be on this earth *facepalm
Then the extremely well dressed guy I met at a high end mall.... he made it clear without saying it in words that he was looking for a SD/sb relationship.... I bet he jumped in a luxury car when he left....
Oh and I can't forget the guy I accidentally found on a vanilla site (not even a dating one lol) that has declared and proven his place as a potential SD. We now have a long distance GFE type relationship.
The list goes on and on. Saying all this to say, I've had more success just bumping into SD's while not looking. At my job, at the mall, everywhere. Shit just walking down the street. On SA tho? You have to go through the initial guess work on if a person is first of all financially stable enough to please you. If they are right in front of your face, 9 times out of 10 you can get a grasp on their financial status if you know what to look for. So I totally agree with everyone who said freestyling is the way to go. I think just sitting back and letting things happen are how to land the big fishes. (Not saying fuck and see where things go hell no) But there are serious SD's out there that also want to bypass the initial part of feeling like an ATM right off the back in initial conversation. And the ones I've met are straight to the point whithin that first convo. You know how men like to think that everything is their idea. It's an ego stroke for them. okay I'm done lol
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meme88
That awkward moment when you're wondering why SA sucks and then you realize that you turned down soooooo many legit sugar daddies in real life cuz you weren't bout that life......before lol.
I FEEL THIS SO HARD! DAMMIT! I've wasted so many opportunities ;)
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Yes I have and I'm going to make a topic about my experiences soon. The vast majority were liars, flakers, or men that would have been blacklisted by escorts. 70% cancelled or rescheduled multiple times, often last minute. Many tried not to pay me after the first date, and many shorted me to my face stating that I was asking for too much. I didn't ask for that much. I asked for slightly more than the market rate for escorts, only most of them tried to spend more time with me for the money than they would have with an escort. Its best to avoid.
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I've tried doing it two ways. The first way was being upfront about money. 90% of the men ignored me after that, and many said they were reporting me for being "an escort" because they "don't want this to be a monetary transaction" so they want everything for FREE instead?! LOL no
The second way was to not mention money until they had begun texting me and we had set up a time and place to meet. Men were really excited and 100% of them text me after I said I wanted to meet and hadn't discussed money yet. This is proof that they are scammers because after we set a place and time to meet I would text about my financial expectations in a very nice way, even if I had said its negotiable, only about 10% or less actually said they wanted to meet. Many of them called me a whore or gold digger.
Most of these men think you'll meet them FOR FREE. You can forget any men under 40 too because they are by far the ones most often who expect you to meet them FOR FREE. I was appalled.
Its no coincidence that almost every guy throws out the SAME monetary compensation number, which is IRONICALLY the average going rate for 1 hour of escort's time in my area. The difference is that these men wanted to meet for much longer than one hour. They are trying to find deals and that's gross so I'd rather just be an escort.
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red.velvet
I've tried doing it two ways. The first way was being upfront about money. 90% of the men ignored me after that, and many said they were reporting me for being "an escort" because they "don't want this to be a monetary transaction" so they want everything for FREE instead?! LOL no
The second way was to not mention money until they had begun texting me and we had set up a time and place to meet. Men were really excited and 100% of them text me after I said I wanted to meet and hadn't discussed money yet. This is proof that they are scammers because after we set a place and time to meet I would text about my financial expectations in a very nice way, even if I had said its negotiable, only about 10% or less actually said they wanted to meet. Many of them called me a whore or gold digger.
Most of these men think you'll meet them FOR FREE. You can forget any men under 40 too because they are by far the ones most often who expect you to meet them FOR FREE. I was appalled.
Its no coincidence that almost every guy throws out the SAME monetary compensation number, which is IRONICALLY the average going rate for 1 hour of escort's time in my area. The difference is that these men wanted to meet for much longer than one hour. They are trying to find deals and that's gross so I'd rather just be an escort.
THIS!!!
Some guy said, "The last girl was more than happy to get her $1000 a month and she'd spend the night once a week... In addition to the "I'm snipped, so I want to go raw" BS. I asked why he didn't just give her a call. The online SD world feels like it's filled with hobbiests trying to get a lot for little to nothing.
On the other hand, I did get a guy to hand over $800 to be his texting buddy for about 2 months. Overall though, it hasn't been worth that much of my time. Trying to weed out the real from fake...
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I have to ask. Hope somebody can shed some light on this SA thing. I cam. I don't escort or sugar. Not that there is anything wrong with it. Never met anyone in person from camming. A stock broker that I know personally comes to Vegas and sometimes Laughlin. He is a cheap bastard too. He was a friend of my ex. He knows I cam. Every time he comes to town he wants to meet for drinks. I say no I have to work. He says sure no problem I will pay you for your night. I told him how much on a Friday night. He laughed his ass off at it. He said Ginger if I want sex all I have to do is go to SA and I can get a hot young chick to the hotel for $150/$200. I told him sweetie I won't get out of bed and put make up on for less than $200 let alone drive 3 hours to fuck you. So here is the story. He texted me if I wanted to drive to Laughlin. Laughlin why would I drive there? So no. Not driving to Laughlin. Later I texted him if he found company. Yes SA girl he has met before. This is the part I do not understand. According to him this SA girl that is also a stripper drove from Vegas to laughlin to meet with him, hang out, have sex, and drive back to Vegas for $200. He sent photos, etc. He said she was there from 4pm till 7pm. Asked for another $200 to spend the night. I told him he is a liar. No cute young stripper would do that for $200. He said it was a Sunday. So it was easier to drive to Laughlin for the $200. My question is this. Is this guy telling the truth? $200? Seriously? I contend that there is not a chance in hell a cute young stripper that works in Vegas would do that for $200. Do you?
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^^^ Obviously he's lying in hopes you'll take the bait. And why would it matter what another girl charged. That has nothing to do with you
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Wow-200? What an awesome deal, I sure hope that site of wannabe hobbyists takes off. <Sarcasm
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What an F'n charmer he sounds like..for 200. I'll hit his ass w/a broom
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What an F'n charmer he sounds like..for 200. I'll hit his ass w/a broom
LOL!!
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Still laughing my ass off!!
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whirlerz
What an F'n charmer he sounds like..for 200. I'll hit his ass w/a broom
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Many sugar wannabes have ruined the ecosystem with low standards and giving away all their secrets and talking so openly that anyone and everyone thinks they can do it and thinks they qualify being an SB or SD. It's so diluted and mainstream, those major sites are just full of Johns that cant even afford escorts but they'll go on a sugar site hoping to con a young girl that 'really needs the money' and take advantage of the situation.
You're better off finding an SD through escorting, you'd be getting a girls half month allowance relaxing at a regular's summerhouse for 2 day weekend.
The only tip I will ever give with sugaring:
Most high rollers wouldn't be caught on sugar sites, they're going out and enjoying life. Go to a high end gym, it's full of older wealthy men, expensive malls, bar at a 5* hotel. If you're not ready to do that. You're def not ready for an SD.
Ask to go by his place. Ask his address. (Don't actually go). Look it up on google maps? You can rent an expensive car to fake wealth but your abode tells all.
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^^^ Tell me about it. I wasted more time and got less in return sugaring than I ever did as an escort. And yes, these fuckers will very well be wealthy but are cheap as fuck hence why they're on SA. But hopefuls still go on there like they're gonna hit the jackpot.
Fuck this thread and anyone else that keeps making them about this oversaturated industry. Bye
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Take a look at my thread because it answers your title question https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...tes-experience
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FUCK S.A
Where i live a guys idea of an "arrangement" is a quick meal, a cheap motel room and 300 dollars once a week
Nopeee not having it. would rather sell a half hour vip room and make 240, no sex with a nasty old man involved....
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This has absolutely been my case. The two sugardaddies that I've had in my life where it amounted to allowances, cars, rent paid and hi-end vacations came when I was an independent escort. They started off as regular clients in their 60's (the older the better for me), but just as ThisIsBliss says that only happened because they bonded with me. They would ask me to lunch or dinner (I'm never one to turn down a free meal lol) and no I wouldn't charge them for that, I felt they were regular clients and if you don't exhibit the "moneygrabby" behavior they will take care of you in the end. Yes, you will have to hold their hands sometimes, give them affection and treat them like a person and not your personal ATM (unless their into financial domination and that's a whole other ballgame), but for me that was the only way I got to that "sugar daddy" promise land.
Well said! I am excellent at what I do and have a handful of clients who love my company but their more working class types. I've had just a few higher end clients but nothing has clicked or else I'd think by now they'd be wanting to fly me out. I'm also learning to be more mysterious as a worker. Sometimes I do too much to make the client feel as ease (being open about myself (while still lying but still saying too much) allowing texts, emails, etc. The more unavailable the better.
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Hk
FUCK S.A
Where i live a guys idea of an "arrangement" is a quick meal, a cheap motel room and 300 dollars once a week
Nopeee not having it. would rather sell a half hour vip room and make 240, no sex with a nasty old man involved....
Yup. And I'm shocked at how many girls think the online game will eventually work in their favor. I have a friend going on POT dates at least a couple times a week.. she's been texting "pics" to one dude in another state for an entire year. I'm like "a whole year you've been texting this guy and he's shown / offered you nothing?! You do know that I used to charge for pics when I was a pso right?"
Oh yeah, this thread has to DIE. And all the others too. The Online Sugar Baby Industry is DOA
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I have just signed up to SA and it has been a time wasting website from day one.. I have been getting frustrated with the men on there with no photos for a start.
One expected me to give him my personal mobile number so he could send me photos through WhatsApp and I said no, I don't want to give you my private number would prefer you to upload them instead, so off he went. Second guy made out he was really rich on his profile and obviously had no photos again but wanted free fun, I told him to shove it and join a free sex site! a few of them blocked me for no apparent reason unless they knew I was on to them!
SA used to be good years ago it just seems it is attracting the types who don't want a relationship or an arrangement but want free sex basically. There is a option to pay monthly fee to find real background verified SDs but is it worth it?
Sugardaddie.com isn't what it used to be 5 years ago, lots of fake men pretending they are wealthy.
The only SD I ever had was on Craigslist. I put a ad up looking to be spoilt I was upset as my cat passed away, at the weekend some guy got in touch wanted to take me shopping and go for lunch! I said ok then, I really wasn't expecting him to buy me stuff!! I thought yeah right!! He insisted he took me shopping and he asked me what would you like me to buy you? I said ok... I was looking at the most expensive Balenciaga bag and I said , that one over there! I thought for a second it cost $3,000 it was a gorgeous purple leather bag it was limited edition so pretty! he purchased it for me and handed me the bag, then he bought me 2 pairs of shoes, 1 Christian Louboutin Bianca heels and Jimmy Choo Sparkly sequin silver heels, perfect ooh and he bought me a lingerie set Agent Prov which was pricey.
It was a dream come true!
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It'd be nice to actually find a real, legit sd on some of these sites. MillionaireMatch suspended my account (I didn't even do anything wrong). I had to block this clown on WhatsYourPrice who kept going back and forth rejecting my price, and then he'd counter with $69...then $96...$69...$96. Not in the mood for games from cheap losers who are basically treating these sd sites as though they're the Craigslist adult section. And real sd shouldnt be opening up with "You can come shower with me..."