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how to get more paid chat in streamate?
I get tons of guys coming into my free chat, then they log off after a few minutes. I've tried everything, no bra, sitting and talking/flirting/being friendly/smiling, moving my body around like a strip tease with only a thong on, etc. I can't seem to get that many paid chats for how long I spend in free time. Are there any tips/tricks/ways to get guys hooked instantly to take you to paid? Thanks!
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Re: how to get more paid chat in streamate?
You might be giving away too much for free. Don't sit there topless for free. It gives guys ZERO incentive to pay to see your tits, or to take you private. Also, dancing around all sexy and being flirtatious might be giving them material to jerk off to for free. This was my mistake too. I am still new to camming, but my mistake I think is that I was trying too hard. I was expending way too much energy for no profit. I have to find a balance between luring them in, and not giving away too much entertainment for free.
Another mistake I made is answering too many questions for free. I will answer a few basic questions at first. But after basic chat for a few minutes, it's a good idea to push for private or exclusive. I need to get comfortable with the kick/ban button too.
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Go to hustling section and there are many links to great threads where you can hustle better! :)
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I did a little experiment with my own hustle. I sat for 2 hours during the same hours on 2 different Wednesdays on Streamate. The first time, I did it topless and the second time I did it with a strapless top.
I made more money topless, I didn't get the annoying "open tits", but I did get "show ass bb". When I was clothed, I got way more annoying requests and made LESS! I couldn't believe it either.
Now, I don't know if it was because I just got more annoyed by the requests that I made less or if it was because of the topless factor that I made more.
I guess if I acted very hard NOT to get annoyed by requests I would get the same amount of earnings as I did when I was topless.
Now, I don't think this would work well on token sites but for private sites, being topless might work better for some girls. Even so, I don't stay topless for very long even with these results simply because I get cold.
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amberlicious2323
I get tons of guys coming into my free chat, then they log off after a few minutes. I've tried everything, no bra, sitting and talking/flirting/being friendly/smiling, moving my body around like a strip tease with only a thong on, etc. I can't seem to get that many paid chats for how long I spend in free time. Are there any tips/tricks/ways to get guys hooked instantly to take you to paid? Thanks!
I'll say it like this, the more you struggle to make them take you private, the lower chances you have. People can smell when you are desperate to make them pay you and therefore, they don't.
You need to find your camming style, if I can call it like this. Have fun while you are online and guys will want to join you.
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euro_princess
I'll say it like this, the more you struggle to make them take you private, the lower chances you have. People can smell when you are desperate to make them pay you and therefore, they don't.
You need to find your camming style, if I can call it like this. Have fun while you are online and guys will want to join you.
I definitely agree with this. It's all about mindset for me. If I log on and know that I'm going to make money, then I always hit my high goal. The fact is that in general, people don't know what they want, and they don't want to make decisions. They have all this money that they don't know what to do with, but it is your job to convert them into sales. If they aren't being converted then adapt and try a different hustle. I don't think there is a "secret" per say, different hustles work for different people. There are a ton of books on sales and persuasion that you can learn a lot from. I also highly recommend "HO Tactics: How to mindfuck a man into spending, spoiling and sponsoring." One of the best books I've read to date that has changed the game for me. :)
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I don't heavily push for privates. If they talk dirty or mention they are hard, I mention we should do something about that. I can show you A LOT more in private. And that's it. There is my pitch, and open invitation. They can take it or leave it.
Lately I've been objectifying the SHIT out of members. And it's working for me. I got this idea by watching The Fall.
https://cdn1.cdnme.se/3053800/6-3/tu...027934e5dc.gif
My husband said, "God fucking dammit. That's hot." Total light bulb moment.
Members are here to see YOU! If they are becoming aroused its because of YOU! You turn them on, they don't turn us on.
Have a tip menu in your room topic, have a saved chat with your tip menu. If it's quiet and I see there are several people in my room, I just talk to myself a little. "Thanks it's a great ass! If any of you guys want to see, just tip me $x gold and I'll be happy to show you and make those dicks perk up."
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So I went from 30% paid chat to about 40-50% consistently. I'm not sure if that's good or not, but I'm happy with my earnings. I noticed when I say, "Hey, there, I've noticed you've been popping in/out of my room. Do you want to get naughty in private?" It often works, to my surprise. Sometimes people have a hard time initiating a private.
I never am nude or topless on SM in public chat. Ever. Sometimes I'll be in my panties, but that's as revealing as I get. No one gets to see me for free.
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Seriously one thing that works for me, I treat them like children. I tell them exactly what to do, "if you would like to see more click the button below my cam blah blah blah" or "click the button that says GOLD to give me a tip to see my ass" I find that a lot of guys, for whatever reason, can't seem to figure it out. And honestly, many of them don't even realize that they have to pay to see you naked because they are new to cam sites or because they are used to other sites where they get more for nothing. This week I've seen a big increase in traffic, and many times I've had to tell guys "if you want to see more, you have to tip or go private" and usually someone does. Some guys just need hand holding.
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missyamaya
I noticed when I say, "Hey, there, I've noticed you've been popping in/out of my room. Do you want to get naughty in private?" It often works, to my surprise. Sometimes people have a hard time initiating a private.
This too. If I see the same guy coming in, I will make a note on his profile. Then after a couple times I will privately say hi to him and tell him I've noticed he's been coming in a lot lately and ask if he wants a show. If he says no or does not reply, I kick him out. If he says not right now or maybe later, I ask him to please come back when he's ready. Next time he comes back, I ask him if he's ready now. This works a lot for me too.
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I've found that guys can blow their load even when I'm standing up, so I won't even show them my body anymore unless they tip me for it. And that goes with every request they make because there are multiple fetishes guys are into. It makes them remember they are there to see me, I'm not there for them. If they stay in free chat for more than five minutes, I give them the boot as a reminder as to what I am actually there for. I am not there to chat, or make new friends, or provide free services. I am there to do my job. I don't tolerate dirty talk in free chat. I am a raging bitch, and that's how I get my money. Everyone is different.
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We are taught it is impolite to ask for money, but remember these guys have no manners & feel free to ask for sex, your email, your number, your real name and many other things without paying a dime.
You have to value yourself. It is up to you to train them, you are new so they are trying to train you to do it all for free. Don't be afraid to have boundaries, to ask to go private to ask for money. Ones who type the most & have the most compliments 95% of the time never spend a dime.
Flirt, emoting, keep in your mind at all times that they want to spend money on you. :)
Sam
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What works for me is to show as little as possible in free chat. I'll use what they compliment me on in free chat and convert them into privates. I always get compliment on how beautiful my smile and face are. So I'll say 'Thank you. You should take me private or exclusive to keep the smile on my face going' or 'I have so much more to show you. I am ready to play NOW' almost always works for me.
PS-sorry for the bad grammar. I came to the US by boat so I'm a little slow in the learning department.
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euro_princess
I'll say it like this, the more you struggle to make them take you private, the lower chances you have.
Thank you. I needed to read this. Pushing and pushing to be taken private might convert to noone taking you private, lol. So it's about the balance of always trying to close, but doing so in a not-so-obvious way, I suppose. Desperation is never sexy. I need to try to get these guys to be desperate for ME, not the other way around!
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I think the only time it worked for heavily pushing privates, was last year when I was working with laryngitis. I had no voice and only was using chat. I think people felt sorry for me, but I did end the week making goal. Would I do it again. Probably not, because its a lot of work and I just stayed sick longer, when I should of been in bed.
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thank you SO MUCH for this reply! today I tried a few different things, and one thing that really caught a guy's attention was a tight strapless club dress that has some shimmer in it. he spent 17 minutes in exclusive and i spent the majority just stripping it off sloooowwwwwwly. i also read a bunch of other threads and tried raising my rates from 2.84 to 2.99 and then 3.99 for exclusive, and there is a difference of about 4 dollars from what i was making before. (at my old rates if i was in paid for 15 minutes, i would get 16 dollars. Now if i'm in it for 15 minutes i'm getting 20 dollars). I also backed up from the camera and sat on my side balancing on my arm, and that drew a bunch of guys in. Thank you for your help! I'm so excited to keep camming now that I know this secret:)
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thank you SO MUCH for this reply! today I tried a few different things, and one thing that really caught a guy's attention was a tight strapless club dress that has some shimmer in it. he spent 17 minutes in exclusive and i spent the majority just stripping it off sloooowwwwwwly. i also read a bunch of other threads and tried raising my rates from 2.84 to 2.99 and then 3.99 for exclusive, and there is a difference of about 4 dollars from what i was making before. (at my old rates if i was in paid for 15 minutes, i would get 16 dollars. Now if i'm in it for 15 minutes i'm getting 20 dollars). I also backed up from the camera and sat on my side balancing on my arm, and that drew a bunch of guys in. Thank you for your help! I'm so excited to keep camming now that I know this secret
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Please read the thread on raise your rates challenge. :)
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I show enough to have a good screenshot (that little 3-2-1 countdown that shows up periodically) that is either a closeup of my big ass, or I lounge, covering most of my body with my arm, but showing that I am indeed curvy. Currently, I am new, and even newer to having gold show status, which right now is fucking up my earnings, but I think I can work it to my advantage. I have been building a base of regulars that have seen my moves and I am withholding them until enough show up and pledge to get the gold show going. I would much rather do 2-3 gold shows in a session than do tons of little privates with turtles popping their heads in and out, or the quickie guys that don't last long enough for me to get off too. (I know I can fake an O really well, but honestly, I don't even feel like doing that quickly. I want the dudes to get used to me taking my damn time.)
If I am frisky, and not trying for gold shows, I will grab my ass and maybe sway for a split second to my music, then do some flirty thing and talk about how much I want to dance and wiggle all my curves in private/exclusive. I need to slow down my stripping because I would say about 80% of the guys leave after they've seen my bush for 30 seconds. "Cummin hard bb thx bye" No self control dudes.
What amuses me is that most of the guys say it takes them a "long time" to cum. Um, yeah, I was just warming up and you can't handle shit, while you're talking about how my pussy couldn't handle your big cock. LOLLLLLLs.
I am still developing my strategy. Being newer to camming, I am finding that SM provides me with more consistent customers that understand paying. There will always be freeloaders and trolls, but they reveal themselves quite easily.
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Re: how to get more paid chat in streamate?
You can email customer service and have them set you to a static image.
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LaLaLaLazer
I show enough to have a good screenshot (that little 3-2-1 countdown that shows up periodically) that is either a closeup of my big ass, or I lounge, covering most of my body with my arm, but showing that I am indeed curvy. Currently, I am new, and even newer to having gold show status, which right now is fucking up my earnings, but I think I can work it to my advantage. I have been building a base of regulars that have seen my moves and I am withholding them until enough show up and pledge to get the gold show going. I would much rather do 2-3 gold shows in a session than do tons of little privates with turtles popping their heads in and out, or the quickie guys that don't last long enough for me to get off too. (I know I can fake an O really well, but honestly, I don't even feel like doing that quickly. I want the dudes to get used to me taking my damn time.)
If I am frisky, and not trying for gold shows, I will grab my ass and maybe sway for a split second to my music, then do some flirty thing and talk about how much I want to dance and wiggle all my curves in private/exclusive. I need to slow down my stripping because I would say about 80% of the guys leave after they've seen my bush for 30 seconds. "Cummin hard bb thx bye" No self control dudes.
What amuses me is that most of the guys say it takes them a "long time" to cum. Um, yeah, I was just warming up and you can't handle shit, while you're talking about how my pussy couldn't handle your big cock. LOLLLLLLs.
I am still developing my strategy. Being newer to camming, I am finding that SM provides me with more consistent customers that understand paying. There will always be freeloaders and trolls, but they reveal themselves quite easily.
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LaLaLaLazer
I show enough to have a good screenshot (that little 3-2-1 countdown that shows up periodically)
Support can give you a static profile picture. It will get rid of that screenshot.
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Thanks, I might just do that - less work! Is there a way to switch between the two? When I am high-energy, I kind of like it, it feels like voguing.
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Wow- I can't believe I posted this only a few months ago. Since then I've done quite a bit of research, including obsessing over SarahTime's blog- cammingsecrets.com
Now my lowest percentage in paid chat has been 39% a few weeks ago, comparing to 26% right before I posted this. My highest paid chat percentage has been 60%, and I have discovered that I am consistently on the front page of streamate. I have raised my prices to 5.99 exc, and 4.99 pvt. My highest week was been $700 when I was busting my ass to make money for EDC, but I am really happy with how camming is going! Thank you so much for all the replies and advice, it helped SO MUCH