Anyone else experience this?
Why do posters ask for information about clubs/cities to work and you answer them with information but then when you ask them for info about their clubs/cities to work they don't even reply back or don't want to tell you anything? If you want to know info you gotta be willing to give it too. I'm not telling anyone shit from now on lol.
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I give info to girls who pm me. I get probably 3-4 pms a week. What area are you wanting to know about? Also starting a whole thread is a bit excessive since you just started a thread contradicrting this. But where are you looking for info. Also girls in this biz are idiots so I wouldn't rely on them for anything. Like you said in your other thread...
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Also, and yes I've helped out tons of girls on here who haven't helped me and can't even be bothered to come say hello when I've worked with them after I've taken my time to give them tons of info over the years...
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A girl asked me for information about PHX, when I told her I asked about her club that she is working at and I never got a reply back but I see that she has replied to threads on here since. I'm actually going to New Orleans this weekend and I am thinking of going a few days early to work just to see whats its like. Any recent info would appreciated!
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I worked at ricks and hustler. If you do a search there is updated info. yeah that's pretty shitty when you help someone out they come back and don't do the same. That's why basically I just respond to pms now.
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I've noticed that too. There's someone on here who was asking for info for clubs that you could easily find search results for, so I gave her the link to one of the threads. Of course she doesn't acknowledge my post. If you're too lazy to read thru a link that most likely has the info you just asked for, you don't deserve to be helped...
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Hi Christina--
That was me that you were referring to... I posted asking for info on Phoenix before I went out there, and the only replies is got were asking for info AFTER I got back. Basically asking for a trip report on how things went for me. I explained in follow up posts that I worked at Bourbon Street and Christies. It was my first time and probably last time traveling to Phoenix. I was just kinda burnt out on SF since that's where my home club is, and wanted to visit PHX anyways to see my friend who moved there from Cali. So kinda killing two birds with one stone. Sorry if you felt that I ignored your post, I just didn't really feel the urge to elaborate since I wasn't interested in returning. I definitely don't want to look ungrateful by asking for info and not giving info in return. I do give plenty of info on clubs in SF that I've worked at :).
Also you didn't actually say which club YOU worked at. You just said you were making a grand a night at least twice a week.. I don't have any info on New Orleans clubs since I have never worked there, and you also didn't ask me about Bay Area clubs or I would have responded. So there was definitely a miscommunication. Again, I apologize. If you did happen to ask me about my clubs in another thread, I just didn't see it, because I definitely would have responded. I also have been traveling, not for work, a lot recently, so haven't been on the boards much. But always happy to contribute when I can!
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^ Oh that's funny, I was 90% sure she was posting this lovely passive aggressiveness about ME. Because I didn't answer a PM right away, I was on my phone when it came in and can't open them very well, and then I forgot about it. Most of my SW usage is on my phone, so that's how I was responding to posts on here and not opening her PM. I then got 2 more PMs, was REALLY not inclined to open them because I know it's usually nastiness when someone keeps PMing you without being answered, and then I saw this post.
I've been keeping my mouth shut, trying to be civil, but this is ridiculous. I was unaware she had asked what club I worked at, since I hadn't read the messages, but at any rate I am not 'entitled' to tell anyone what club I work at... especially when said person claims to be making $400-$1000 a night at her club (I know which club it is... and by the way, some of their goons came into MY club recruiting and most of the girls laughed at them and told them the place blew chunks), and then directs me to 2 other clubs, one of which is by all accounts a dive in the middle of nowhere. Felt a lot like misdirection, to be frank. Then to ask what club I'm at on top of that? Why? Because she's really not making bank every night? She's already taken a cheap shot in another thread about how my club's "VIP" area essentially sucks and that there's no way to make good money in that setup, so why would she care to know what club it is?
I've been an active member of this forum for 2.5 years, I try to help anyone who comes to Phx, and I don't appreciate somebody who hardly ever posted until last week getting upset over a frickin' PM and posting this kind of thing. It's rude and uncalled for. Christina is going on my ignore list, so don't bother PMing me anymore or responding to this post.
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Selina M
^ Oh that's funny, I was 90% sure she was posting this lovely passive aggressiveness about ME. Because I didn't answer a PM right away, I was on my phone when it came in and can't open them very well, and then I forgot about it. Most of my SW usage is on my phone, so that's how I was responding to posts on here and not opening her PM. I then got 2 more PMs, was REALLY not inclined to open them because I know it's usually nastiness when someone keeps PMing you without being answered, and then I saw this post.
I've been keeping my mouth shut, trying to be civil, but this is ridiculous. I was unaware she had asked what club I worked at, since I hadn't read the messages, but at any rate I am not 'entitled' to tell anyone what club I work at... especially when said person claims to be making $400-$1000 a night at her club (I know which club it is... and by the way, some of their goons came into MY club recruiting and most of the girls laughed at them and told them the place blew chunks), and then directs me to 2 other clubs, one of which is by all accounts a dive in the middle of nowhere. Felt a lot like misdirection, to be frank. Then to ask what club I'm at on top of that? Why? Because she's really not making bank every night? She's already taken a cheap shot in another thread about how my club's "VIP" area essentially sucks and that there's no way to make good money in that setup, so why would she care to know what club it is?
I've been an active member of this forum for 2.5 years, I try to help anyone who comes to Phx, and I don't appreciate somebody who hardly ever posted until last week getting upset over a frickin' PM and posting this kind of thing. It's rude and uncalled for. Christina is going on my ignore list, so don't bother PMing me anymore or responding to this post.
Yeah. You were actually the one who gave me all the info on the clubs in phoenix. I did get messages from Christina after I was already there asking were I was working and how it was going like the other poster. I do help girls who pm me but the 20 million threads about the same place get a little annoying when one can just do a search.
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Selina M
^ Oh that's funny, I was 90% sure she was posting this lovely passive aggressiveness about ME. Because I didn't answer a PM right away, I was on my phone when it came in and can't open them very well, and then I forgot about it. Most of my SW usage is on my phone, so that's how I was responding to posts on here and not opening her PM. I then got 2 more PMs, was REALLY not inclined to open them because I know it's usually nastiness when someone keeps PMing you without being answered, and then I saw this post.
I've been keeping my mouth shut, trying to be civil, but this is ridiculous. I was unaware she had asked what club I worked at, since I hadn't read the messages, but at any rate I am not 'entitled' to tell anyone what club I work at... especially when said person claims to be making $400-$1000 a night at her club (I know which club it is... and by the way, some of their goons came into MY club recruiting and most of the girls laughed at them and told them the place blew chunks), and then directs me to 2 other clubs, one of which is by all accounts a dive in the middle of nowhere. Felt a lot like misdirection, to be frank. Then to ask what club I'm at on top of that? Why? Because she's really not making bank every night? She's already taken a cheap shot in another thread about how my club's "VIP" area essentially sucks and that there's no way to make good money in that setup, so why would she care to know what club it is?
I've been an active member of this forum for 2.5 years, I try to help anyone who comes to Phx, and I don't appreciate somebody who hardly ever posted until last week getting upset over a frickin' PM and posting this kind of thing. It's rude and uncalled for. Christina is going on my ignore list, so don't bother PMing me anymore or responding to this post.
Yeah. You were actually the one who gave me all the info on the clubs in phoenix. I did get messages from Christina after I was already there asking were I was working and how it was going like the other poster. I do help girls who pm me but the 20 million threads about the same place get a little annoying when one can just do a search.
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Christina2013
Why do posters ask for information about clubs/cities to work and you answer them with information but then when you ask them for info about their clubs/cities to work they don't even reply back or don't want to tell you anything? If you want to know info you gotta be willing to give it too. I'm not telling anyone shit from now on lol.
You don't want to share info... sure. Go right ahead.
Do you want to be practical? Cast a wider net. Ask more people. Eventully, someone will help you find the info you seek.
I had a lot of luck asking ex-dancers that worked in the clubs I wanted to try out at. I also had very generous dancers currently working in clubs help me out with up to date information. I am thankful for their help every fucking day. But keep in mind, it was their choice to help me. Nobody owes you, me, or anyone ANYTHING. You aren't doing yourself any favors by acting entitled.
Sorry it doesn't come easy. But folks play their cards close to the vest sometimes. It's stripping... things work a little differently than in most industries...
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weren't you the one who just started a thread saying how stupid it was to care what other clubs other girls did well at because no two dancers are the same??
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simone87
weren't you the one who just started a thread saying how stupid it was to care what other clubs other girls did well at because no two dancers are the same??
That's what I said in my first post. Lol.
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weren't you the one who just started a thread saying how stupid it was to care what other clubs other girls did well at because no two dancers are the same??
Exactly. "We shouldn't care what other people think of our money!" etc. etc., and then I read posts with bitchy overtones like "Um the average in Phx is $400-$1000 only if you're a HUSTLER" and "Some girls are just better than others".
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Your dumb. Just because I ask what club you work at doesn't mean I don't make money. I can say the same thing about you - why did you want to know where I worked if you were making money? I guess we were both just curious then right?
I asked you what club you were working at only because you asked me what club I was working first and you never replied back after. Why would you ask me for info and I cannot ask you. So what club sent goons to your club to recruit? It's a simple question...because there is no way it was club girls have to be super hot to work here and they are known to even turn away some goodlooking ones.
Why is it being bitchy to say some girls make more than others its true duh! How is that being bitchy?
Lets see if she can answer the question
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Selina M
^ Oh that's funny, I was 90% sure she was posting this lovely passive aggressiveness about ME. Because I didn't answer a PM right away, I was on my phone when it came in and can't open them very well, and then I forgot about it. Most of my SW usage is on my phone, so that's how I was responding to posts on here and not opening her PM. I then got 2 more PMs, was REALLY not inclined to open them because I know it's usually nastiness when someone keeps PMing you without being answered, and then I saw this post.
I've been keeping my mouth shut, trying to be civil, but this is ridiculous. I was unaware she had asked what club I worked at, since I hadn't read the messages, but at any rate I am not 'entitled' to tell anyone what club I work at... especially when said person claims to be making $400-$1000 a night at her club (I know which club it is... and by the way, some of their goons came into MY club recruiting and most of the girls laughed at them and told them the place blew chunks), and then directs me to 2 other clubs, one of which is by all accounts a dive in the middle of nowhere. Felt a lot like misdirection, to be frank. Then to ask what club I'm at on top of that? Why? Because she's really not making bank every night? She's already taken a cheap shot in another thread about how my club's "VIP" area essentially sucks and that there's no way to make good money in that setup, so why would she care to know what club it is?
I've been an active member of this forum for 2.5 years, I try to help anyone who comes to Phx, and I don't appreciate somebody who hardly ever posted until last week getting upset over a frickin' PM and posting this kind of thing. It's rude and uncalled for. Christina is going on my ignore list, so don't bother PMing me anymore or responding to this post.
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Yes I did but what does that have to do with asking someone what club they worked at? That's a simple question. I never asked how much they made.
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simone87
weren't you the one who just started a thread saying how
stupid it was to care what other clubs other girls did well at because no two dancers are the same??
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I at times have not responded simply because they have asked me stuff that they should already know. I even had someone find one of my very long posts on a particular club and then PM me saying she saw the post, and proceeded to ask questions already in the post. I'm not a life coach. #ByeFelicia