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My bum aka sphincter hurts like a bitch!!! Anyone relate?
Hey there - so since you lovely ladies turned me onto Streamate I have basically won the lottery. Since Sunday - I earned $800 so $200 a day. I am only going on for an hour or two at a time because Gaping and fisting is my specialty and frankly - It hurts like a bitch after awhile. I am all curled up in Jammies watching Modern Family smoking weed and trying to rest my ass but my sphincter is aching like crazy.
Any tips or hints? If I was able to do this full time aka 9-5 I would literally be loaded. This is life changing money. My goal is $1000 USD a week which comes to over $1200 Canadian. I am free to travel, go back to UofT, Buy myself some Louboutins etc etc. I am elated but cannot tell anyone in my life. None of my friends or family would want to know that I am camming and to this extent. I hinted to my sister last year I merely "flash boobs" on Cam but she said it was degrading and disgusting. So yeah,
How do u girls rest your assholes. Am I the only one doing Anal? And are there any more sites more lucrative than Streamate for this fetish? (Inflatable Butt Plug Torture to 35 pumps, Sphincter Stretching, Enema, Fisting, ETC ETC.
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Re: My bum aka sphincter hurts like a bitch!!! Anyone relate?
Kinklive.
Certified Kinky. Charge $10/minute for that, and you'll get it.
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Re: My bum aka sphincter hurts like a bitch!!! Anyone relate?
You're kidding. I'm fairly sure that's more than what a lot of the actual Kink.com models make!!! So is peeing allowed? I know most girls look down on watersports but you know what? If someone wants to pay me $50 every time I need to go to the bathroom, by all means I am not stopping them!
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Am i the only one who thinks this is crazy? Seriously, guys will pay stupid money just to see you sit there fully clothed, or doing something whacky. You really, REALLY don't need to be doing such extreme physical stuff, especially if it hurts you. Have a care for your body x
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Re: My bum aka sphincter hurts like a bitch!!! Anyone relate?
I don't make anything just sitting there clothes or naked. Just a lot of boring talk from cheapos.
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I don't really have a pretty face or body. And I have short blue hair and look really androgynous so I gotta be the "freak show".
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Re: My bum aka sphincter hurts like a bitch!!! Anyone relate?
Maybe start offering anal in exclusive only if you do it in both premium and exclusive? Give your butthole more a rest. Also what are your prices at? You can make more doing less shows with higher rates.
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Re: My bum aka sphincter hurts like a bitch!!! Anyone relate?
If my androgynous ass can make $2k a week, I'm sure you can too. :D
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wow really you do???? that is amazing! what do u do??? Right now I am charging $3.50 per minute in reg PVT and $4.99 in Exclusive - so a bit more than the site recommended.
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audritwo
If my androgynous ass can make $2k a week, I'm sure you can too. :D
And when she says androgynous ass, she actually means fantastic ass. Oh, and that when she shaved her head, the dudes actually seemed to start throwing even more money at her.
I swear, she's using hypnosis. :p
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Re: My bum aka sphincter hurts like a bitch!!! Anyone relate?
This sounds soo extreme to me, most sites dont even allow fisting, peeing or other body fluids on cam, extreme hardcore shows, u mean u do all these on Streamate?
If u go this extreme route u'll hurt urself after a while, u cant do this forever with no consequences, i think u can add some more performance type to ur 'menu'.
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If your making good money and in private a lot raise the prices. I raised my prices I do less work now and make the same amount .i know your making good money but I also think you need to consider this in the long run you health and safety ...how long can you keep doing this to yourself before you burn out ... Have pernament health issues that mess with your everyday life?
I do anal as well and was pressured to do all those things ... N now I only offer certain anal toys that's it .. Take it or leave it... Well they still take it... The way I see it is whatever you offer they will always push for more , so it's up to you to set that limit .
I am at 5.99/7.99
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Re: My bum aka sphincter hurts like a bitch!!! Anyone relate?
OMG RAISE YOUR PRICES. I do anal and dp but not at the extremes you do and I charge 5.99/9.99. In fact, if I were you, I'd go even higher.
Are you using lots of lube? It also helps to sit around with at least a buttplug so you're already stretched out.
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Also, even if it's easy for you to go big right away, work up to it, build up to it. Start small and then the guys who will be seeing the "big show" will be the ones who've been in private for 15 min or more. or just offer the extreme stuff in block sessions. Like Hyori said, your prices are too low. Streamate customers tolerate relatively high prices for quality shows.
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I think you are really pushing the anal angle too much.. I mean, peeing, fisting and enemas aren't even allowed on SM, soooo? Lots of girls specialize in anal and don't do anything super crazy. Also, please for the love of god never EVER do ATP. EVER.
If I were you and you wanted to offer extreme anal shows on SM then I would up my rates and only offer them in Exclusive Block sessions. There is one girl on front page that does extreme anal shows (I'm sure you know who I mean), and she usually does the same ~6 shows in her topics. You can also do a big toy anal gold show, and then offer your anal fisting video to top tipper or something like this.
But seriously girl, I've read some of your posts and my honest opinion is you need to either charge waaay more for what you offer or offer more vanilla anal more often. If you charge more per minute, then you will make more for your specific fetish, and it will also mean more money for less amount of time spent working a private show.
And other thing, don't think that your look will deter guys from viewing you, as if! Whatever you look like, own it. I mean, think about how many guys have already taken you private. ::)
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Re: My bum aka sphincter hurts like a bitch!!! Anyone relate?
RAISE THOSE RATES BB! Seriously. If you're getting too many shows to handle, bump those rates up. I do a lot of anal in my shows, but I have my rates high enough that I don't wear myself out. When you're in Private, use smaller toys and sloooowly work your way up to the larger toys...or don't use any big toys at all! Save it for Exclusive. Or Exclusive blocks. There are lots of ways to limit your time with huge toys in your ass while still making money. Not every guy is going to want that anyway, so it's a good idea to offer a variety of different things to bring in new customers.
I know it's really exciting to be making a ton more money than usual, but you could potentially make a lot more than 1k/week. Know your worth. What we offer is a luxury service. It's custom, personalized, porn on demand. I only offer more extreme shows in Exclusive blocks and I make 2k+/week by mostly using normal toys and the power of dirty talk.
Extreme shows are hard on you and require recovery time, which is time where you're not earning money. They should have to pay extra for that, and 99% of them are happy to do so. Be nice to your body - you won't make *anything* if you've hurt yourself and can't get on cam!
EDIT: I wouldn't count on working 8 hour days. Most camgirls work about half that amount of time because this job is HARD on you. Even if you're just doing vanilla shows it will absolutely exhaust you. Go easy on yourself and take the time to rest your body. It's worth it in the long haul!
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Originally Posted by
miss_sub
wow really you do???? that is amazing! what do u do??? Right now I am charging $3.50 per minute in reg PVT and $4.99 in Exclusive - so a bit more than the site recommended.
That's insanely low for what you are offering.
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Originally Posted by
miss_sub
You're kidding. I'm fairly sure that's more than what a lot of the actual Kink.com models make!!! So is peeing allowed? I know most girls look down on watersports but you know what? If someone wants to pay me $50 every time I need to go to the bathroom, by all means I am not stopping them!
I was messing around and forgot I set my rates that high on KL at one point. I didn't understand how I made nearly $1000 in 3 days after I finally looked at my earnings, then I remembered :) For extreme stuff, charge more. If your butt hurts, it means you aren't charging enough...double your rates means the same money for half the recovery time.
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Yes! My ass is tight, and I'm damn proud of it. Anal is very special and I only do anal in exclusive. I also agree with higher rates. I should raise mine again soon anyway after reading this thread. Lots of lube yes! I only use small toys for anal, I just tell the guys, "my ass is special, it's tight and pretty, I'm gonna keep it that way." They don't mind at all when I'm sweet about it. I also take a week or even a few days every once in awhile and don't offer anal at all. Give it a rest some time. Treat it well and it'll be good to you.
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Raise yo' rates, raise yo' rates, raise yo' goddamn rates! For what you're doing you should be charging a loooooooooot more. Listen to these fine ladies, you'll be thankful later for the less-work-and-more-pay thing.
And definitely follow the rules on SM, all sites play favorites but you don't want to find out one day that you're unable to stream for breaking rules.
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BluJ
Raise yo' rates, raise yo' rates, raise yo' goddamn rates! For what you're doing you should be charging a loooooooooot more.
Second this. Also, I noticed that the cheaper the shows, the more hagglers and abusive custies you get. Whenever you see people haggle or rush you for hardcore action in pvt hardly giving you any time to undress and lube up, or want you to hurt yourself or break the law or the site rules - it's time to raise your rates. You are getting these guys because your low rates make them think you are desperate and will put up with their BS and do whatever they tell. So if you raise your rates not only will you be doing less work for the same money, but also getting easier shows.
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I'm thrilled for you that Streamate is working out so well! Damn woman haha I think that was only like a week ago that I mentioned it, you move fast. Good job!
You are filling niches that lots of girls won't fill (but I would double check the SM TOS, you wouldn't want to get kicked off), so you need to be charging $$$. What you're charging is simply not enough for what you're doing, even if you just enjoy doing it. You can contact SM and ask permission to raise your rates, all the way up to $19.99/min., I believe. You will get longer shows with better customers if you raise your rates, giving you both more money and time to rest. Definitely consider some less strenuous options for your shows too. You don't have to do ALL anal all the time. And seriously be careful with all that, I'm sure you know you could run into issues, like anal prolapse, for example.
Another thing you might wanna look into is selling videos! Find a site that allows the stuff you do and I bet you will bank. For example, try Clips4Sale, but I'm not sure about their rules. You can easily make site-approved vids, no problem, I'm sure. Anyway, don't be afraid to jack up your prices! You're doing physically taxing sex work- you can command a higher price for yourself.
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Originally Posted by
miss_sub
wow really you do???? that is amazing! what do u do??? Right now I am charging $3.50 per minute in reg PVT and $4.99 in Exclusive - so a bit more than the site recommended.
Just cunt fuck, deepthroat, ass worship, and a shit ton of fetish and domination shows.
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Originally Posted by
audritwo
Just cunt fuck, deepthroat, ass worship, and a shit ton of fetish and domination shows.
Girl, PREACH. I did anal for a year and decided that my chapped asshole wasn't worth the assholes who asked for it and I make double the money telling them to fuck their ass ;-) DON'T assume you aren't attractive and you don't fit a niche. If you enjoy anal do it, but raise those rates. You should be charging at LEAST $9.99 a minute for that.
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Please be careful doing fisting and other fetishes on Streamate. While there is nothing wrong with these fetishes, a lot of it is against their rules. I'd hate for you to get kicked off for a mistake!
Alos, I see that you're submissive. People will respect you more as a submissive if you charge more. I'm serious. I used to do submissive shows on cam (before I figured out my cam preference is Dominant) and the quality of clients I got was so terrible at low rates. If you charge higher, the guys respect you more.