Need help with some ideas?
I am been having problems with my periods last couple of months so I haven't been able to get on cam like I would like but I REALLY need the money. I have another wah job that I do but I would like to keep camming to supplement my income. I must be going thru perimenopause something because my periods have been really irregular. I will have a period a month apart and then it will be 2 weeks apart, and sometimes last for almost 2 weeks. Ive been going to see a specialist and he is wanting me to have a hysterectomy in a couple of months but I've got to be making money now cause I am barely getting by with my bills plus I'd like to save up some money in case I am not able to work for a couple of weeks.
Right now I have been working streamate when I am able but I am looking for ideas for shows when I am spotting. What kinds of shows does everybody else do when they are having shark week? I am looking for ideas that I could do without penetration.
Here's a few ideas I've thought about:
1 blow job show and tittie play
2 just using my hibatchi
3 maybe an oil show
My question is this tho, will I be running off guys if I do these kind of shows without penetration? I don't want to get a lot of bad comments or get into trouble with streamate cause I'm not able to use penetration or whatever.
I've also been checking out MFC last couple of days and I've noticed several girls just chatting & selling videos or that have a countdown to just getting topless. I haven't made any videos yet because I've just been using my built in cam with my laptop but I am going to order a new webcam tonight so I can make some videos to sell on mfc or other websites. So Ive thought about signing up with MFC. Which site would I have better luck with doing these type of shows, sm or mfc? Or should I try both sites?
Sorry for all the silly or crazy questions but I am desperate...lol. I can make anywhere from $100-120 with my other job but I would like to make atleast $10-20 or more a night with camming until I can have my surgery. I'm also going to call my Dr tmw cause he had said if I kept having problems with my period he would prescribe something to make me more regular altho I am not crazy about taking prescription drugs....lol, but I will if I have to ;-(
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You can definitely make money without doing penetration. Try just playing with your clit and if guys ask you to penetrate, tell them "I'm not feeling up for that right now" and block them if they keep asking. $10-20 a night is totally doable for strip, oil, and clit tease shows. Good luck!
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Are you disgusted at the idea of penetration while on your period? There are ways to do it without the mess. Such as using a sponge or cup.
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I have problems with my period too. Last time I've been on my period for a month (yes, a month)! I went to the doctor, and she said there is nothing to do about it, I just have to let it go. It won't work with Vitamin K or other pills, because my hormones are fucked up. So even if I tried to stop it, will come back after a few days. The only thing she advised me to take was calcium and iron, because they help blood coagulate faster. I took them and waited, apparently worked, kinda slow but still.
I had to work while I was bleeding. I used tampons (I just took them off before I got in pvt/gs and hoped for the best) or a menstrual cup. Was kinda painful with the cup, because it hurt when I moved it inside with the dildo (works as a suction cup).
You can always do some cash by dancing, bj, titty-fucking, oil show, bubble bath show (so they can't spot the blood), hitachi play, or simply just faking the penetration with your fingers (works with a toy too). I don't know if you are into anal, but you could try, maybe a slow start with fingers.
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If you are irregular, get on the pill. It's a great way to control your cycle. I used to be the same way.
I always cam when I'm menstruating, I use a softcup and only use fingers for penetration. I never put in my room topic that I'm not offering penetration. I always privately type it if someone asks during free chat, or explain I can't and offer something else to their liking in paid. Some guys will run away, but if you act like its no big deal, they usually don't care. Most dudes understand this because they've lived with a woman most of their life. Also you may get period fetishists who are really loyal. I have about 10 regs who like period play. I message them right when I start. My period weeks are usually pretty profitable.
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well I work my whole period.. I just tell them no dildos in there.. that time of the month.. but I wear tampons and I use fingers.. to rub clit and shallow in the va jay jay.. most guys seem to not really care!.. I use my toys for blow jobs and titty fucks during that time.. and fingers.. it's not really a big deal .. other than having to say no a lot, can't
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pebbles45112000
I am been having problems with my periods last couple of months so I haven't been able to get on cam like I would like but I REALLY need the money. I have another wah job that I do but I would like to keep camming to supplement my income. I must be going thru perimenopause something because my periods have been really irregular. I will have a period a month apart and then it will be 2 weeks apart, and sometimes last for almost 2 weeks. Ive been going to see a specialist and he is wanting me to have a hysterectomy in a couple of months but I've got to be making money now cause I am barely getting by with my bills plus I'd like to save up some money in case I am not able to work for a couple of weeks.
Right now I have been working streamate when I am able but I am looking for ideas for shows when I am spotting. What kinds of shows does everybody else do when they are having shark week? I am looking for ideas that I could do without penetration.
Here's a few ideas I've thought about:
1 blow job show and tittie play
2 just using my hibatchi
3 maybe an oil show
My question is this tho, will I be running off guys if I do these kind of shows without penetration? I don't want to get a lot of bad comments or get into trouble with streamate cause I'm not able to use penetration or whatever.
I've also been checking out MFC last couple of days and I've noticed several girls just chatting & selling videos or that have a countdown to just getting topless. I haven't made any videos yet because I've just been using my built in cam with my laptop but I am going to order a new webcam tonight so I can make some videos to sell on mfc or other websites. So Ive thought about signing up with MFC. Which site would I have better luck with doing these type of shows, sm or mfc? Or should I try both sites?
Sorry for all the silly or crazy questions but I am desperate...lol. I can make anywhere from $100-120 with my other job but I would like to make atleast $10-20 or more a night with camming until I can have my surgery. I'm also going to call my Dr tmw cause he had said if I kept having problems with my period he would prescribe something to make me more regular altho I am not crazy about taking prescription drugs....lol, but I will if I have to ;-(
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get into roleplays!.. a lot of roleplays don't call for using toys or playing with yourself.. such as SPH and Domination!.. those guys mostly don't care to even see you naked..
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I rarely use toys, but up my emoting & teasing factor. Takes a lot of energy, but if you are on auto-pilot & always reach for the dildo & fuck yourself silly. Then you might not be really reading for clues as to what they really want out of a session.
Sam
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Most of the advice people have given is great. I would try roleplay and getting sea sponges for the blood. Someone once said on here that they use black toys so if there is any blood it won't show.
You could always try getting the mirena IUD for many women (myself included when I had one) it will stop your period entirely.
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Try focusing their attention on your butt or tits rather than pussy (oil is a good idea). Talk more, move around, change angles. Most guys are happy with rubbing/spreading and closeups. If you offer anal but don't want to go too hard on your butt, you could get one of those pretty rhinestone plugs and just let it sit in there and show it off at different angles. Keeping in mind your condition I personally wouldn't recommend using a Hitachi (at least not too often) because it can induce cramps and increase the flow (judging from my experience with a Lelo SmartWand during periods - from what I know, Hitachi is even more powerful).
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Thank you for all the great ideas :D
Unfortunately I cant take the pill ;-( Does anyone else use the sponges? Where's the cheapest place to find them? I looked on ebay but didn't see any there?
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pebbles45112000
Thank you for all the great ideas :D
Unfortunately I cant take the pill ;-( Does anyone else use the sponges? Where's the cheapest place to find them? I looked on ebay but didn't see any there?
http://www.amazon.com/Jade-Pearl-Spo.../dp/B000VV27OU You have to use natural actual sea sponges, NOT synthetic make up ones. I love them for my cycle in general. You just put them out & rinse them before putting back in, depending on flow how often you will have to rinse it.
If you lose one, just be patient & feel for it.
Sam
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If you lose one, just be patient & feel for it.
I used chop sticks once to pull it out. lol
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Once after an intense session with a partner I had to get help getting it out lol. I cut up my own. Only use natural sponges. on my period is when I am the horniest.
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For those of u that use the sea sponges, where do u find them? I found these online but they are $20. http://gladrags.com/product/240/Jade...ge-2-Pack.html
Can u find them in the store any where?
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I used chop sticks once to pull it out. lol
You found an alternative use for chopsticks, I found an alternative use for forks:
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I like these ones:
http://www.seaspongecompany.com/prod...sponge-tampons