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Kimber here... did my 2nd day on SM (Streamate).... but JUMPED right off
Ugh!
I have had really sick kids since my 1st night on SM. So, today, I logged on, with intention to stream for 2 hours -- could only do a short stay since I had to get off to cook dinner for kids.
Anyway... got 2 pvt chats that went well :) --- I was only online 37 minutes and made $18... BUT.......
But... I saw a name in Free Chat that freaked me OUT! "dannyboy"
***That's the name (Danny) of the man I recently started seeing... and old high school crush***
I JUMPED RIGHT OFF thinking... "OMG! What if that's HIM???"
Has this ever happened to anyone else when you 1st started out? Or even still does now after doing it awhile?
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Re: Kimber here... did my 2nd day on SM (Streamate).... but JUMPED right off
Never have and never will. I don't give any man that power.
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Re: Kimber here... did my 2nd day on SM (Streamate).... but JUMPED right off
^^^ I love Marina's answer.
When I very first started camming (still new to it) a guy took me to pvt and wanted me to moan his name a bunch. He had the same name as my ex. I wasn't worried that it was him, but I did find it difficult to say his name.
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Re: Kimber here... did my 2nd day on SM (Streamate).... but JUMPED right off
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gypsy1
^^^ I love Marina's answer.
When I very first started camming (still new to it) a guy took me to pvt and wanted me to moan his name a bunch. He had the same name as my ex. I wasn't worried that it was him, but I did find it difficult to say his name.
I once got a guy with my DAD'S name...that was one awkwaaaaard session.
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Re: Kimber here... did my 2nd day on SM (Streamate).... but JUMPED right off
I love your screen name because it makes me think of the character Kimber Benton on the '80s cartoon JEM (the red-haired girl on the keyboard). :)
https://espngrantland.files.wordpres...5403388321.jpg
And yeah, some time ago on MyFreeCams a former co-worker of mine came into my public chat, and blurted out "You used to work at ______." I was so fucking annoyed that he said that, and I immediately sent him a PM telling him not to blurt out personal info about me like that on a public site. After that and an incident with another guy who knows me personally, I had decided to just block my state.
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Re: Kimber here... did my 2nd day on SM (Streamate).... but JUMPED right off
Is he paying your bills and taking care of your sick children? If the answer is no then fuck him and get back to work. 37 minutes and making $18 is better than what has been going on on cam sites these last few days. Pull in that money.
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Re: Kimber here... did my 2nd day on SM (Streamate).... but JUMPED right off
my bf decided to come down and have a wank over me camming (yeah i know) unlucky for him my custie had the same name as his brother, and wanted me to moan his name, a lot!!
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Re: Kimber here... did my 2nd day on SM (Streamate).... but JUMPED right off
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innocentindian
I once got a guy with my DAD'S name...that was one awkwaaaaard session.
I know right??? But I guess it's expected because Dave is a really popular name lol (in my case)
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Re: Kimber here... did my 2nd day on SM (Streamate).... but JUMPED right off
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Originally Posted by
MessyChick
my bf decided to come down and have a wank over me camming (yeah i know) unlucky for him my custie had the same name as his brother, and wanted me to moan his name, a lot!!
Totally laughing out loud......
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Re: Kimber here... did my 2nd day on SM (Streamate).... but JUMPED right off
Along the same lines, I did a role play this week where I just so happened to be called my real name. Weird.
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Re: Kimber here... did my 2nd day on SM (Streamate).... but JUMPED right off
The chances that is your Danny, is slim. According to KGBanswers, there are 1,509,311 people in the world with the first name Daniel.
http://www.kgbanswers.com/how-many-p...#ixzz3Zw4SQYii
I had someone come in with my actual name, it's pretty unique and uncommon. I wanted to freak out, but I kept my composure.
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Re: Kimber here... did my 2nd day on SM (Streamate).... but JUMPED right off
Random but I love the gif in your signature! Always got me feeling Cool, Calm and CUNTIE whenever I see it! I call it the three "C".
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audritwo
The chances that is your Danny, is slim. According to KGBanswers, there are 1,509,311 people in the world with the first name Daniel.
http://www.kgbanswers.com/how-many-p...#ixzz3Zw4SQYii
I had someone come in with my actual name, it's pretty unique and uncommon. I wanted to freak out, but I kept my composure.
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Re: Kimber here... did my 2nd day on SM (Streamate).... but JUMPED right off
Thank you EVERYONE for your posts and support!!! Me and "my Danny" saw each other last night (he's a Sr. Network Admin and on 24/7 call supporting Canada, Australia and the U.S.)... so we rarely get couple time.
I figured, if it *was* him... I would see it in his eyes (or he would say something)... but, everything was PERFECT! Normal... dinner, cocktails and some sweet, sweet lovin' :cloud9:
He left a 1:00AM (needless to say, I was way to occupied and way to tired to go back on CAM) :)
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Re: Kimber here... did my 2nd day on SM (Streamate).... but JUMPED right off
dannyboy is a very very common screen name on SM. When I first started I had an abusive customer with that name & I didn't know that thousands of customers can have the exact same screen name. So I kept banning every dannyboy, thinking he was creating new accounts. Oops. By the time I was done, I must have banned 20 guys. So... it's a common name, and don't worry about it.
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Re: Kimber here... did my 2nd day on SM (Streamate).... but JUMPED right off
99% sure he's one of my custies lol. Doubt he made that name just for you. ;) relax it's going to be okay.
i actually went looking...he's not on my blocked list, and hasn't bought a show from me recently.... BUT i knowwww that fucking name! He must be 99% lurker. Feel special if he's spending money on you :D
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Re: Kimber here... did my 2nd day on SM (Streamate).... but JUMPED right off
I get that sometimes and my bf doesn't have a common name either so it always freaks me out. just because I think "why are you here? are you trying to see if I'm doing something you don't like?"
plus I hate it when people I know want to sign up and get a show with me because uhhh... it's just weird and even though I don't pretend to be someone else on cam, it is still me in work mode and I don't like to mix the 2.
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Re: Kimber here... did my 2nd day on SM (Streamate).... but JUMPED right off
always freaks me out when someone has the same name as my husband. they want a show...and i'm like "i don't want to moan my husbands name while he's in the other room!" i just don't do them. lol
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Re: Kimber here... did my 2nd day on SM (Streamate).... but JUMPED right off
I've had a couple odd instances on cam. Some may be people I know, some may not. I err on the side of caution.
1. Had a guy come in and say he knew me from HS. He then proceeded to message me on facebook and say "when did you change your name to Virginia?" I blocked him on the site and told him that sharing my personal life with everyone else wasn't his business, and he apologized.
2. Had a username come in my room that was my frenemy's gamertag/forum username. I would have banned him had I caught him fast enough, but since we're only online friends, I don't think he recognized my face, and hasn't mentioned it. Haven't seen him again.
3. Had a guy come in and said "this is Mike, I found you." Mike is my step-dad's name. I blocked him immediately and proceeded to block that state. Wasn't taking any risks. Haven't heard from any family about it.
4. Lastly, had a guy come in with the name 'islandfever07.' That happens to be the name of my grandfather's boat, coined in '77. Banned that name without a second thought, don't want my grandad perving me.
Yeaaaaah. That's over the past 2 1/2+ years. I haven't been outed, from what I know. 3/4 of those instances could have been coincidence. But I don't take risks. I'm not at a point in my life where I can afford to be outed without a LOT of shit hitting the fan. I wish I could be blasé about it like the rest of you ladies.
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Re: Kimber here... did my 2nd day on SM (Streamate).... but JUMPED right off
This is funny. I have had dannyboy in my room at least 200 times and I have been camming for almost 3 years. For that matter, I have had Michael, Scott, Steve, hugecock, beercanthick, hugetitlvr and I cannot tell you how many Bobs! ;D I don't get paranoid anymore. I play their game if they act like they know me, I ask them how. I will tell them to fuck off or tell them I have their IP and will be reporting them if they don't leave me alone. I had a guy come in last night and say he was my neighbor, I was like oh really where am I from...he then left. I think they want to roleplay in free chat. Hell no!
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Re: Kimber here... did my 2nd day on SM (Streamate).... but JUMPED right off
I have definitely had a few guys who have the same name as my ex fiancé who I know for a fact goes onto cam sites. Every time I wonder if it's him... its a pretty unusal name, but I figure... oh well, Fuck it. If he wants to pay me then he can pay me for something he used to get for free and then ruined :)
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Re: Kimber here... did my 2nd day on SM (Streamate).... but JUMPED right off
Stuff like that happens sometimes to me...
Anytime I see something that could be personal to me I freak but then I'm like... Hey There are so many people named mike for example... That mike89 or mikewhatever state is almost certainly not the one I know.
My dad has a really common name so that pops up a lot... When I'm in private and someone asks me to moan that name I just tell them I don't moan names, too weird for me.
One of my best c4s customers lives like 40 minutes from me.
One of my best regs when I started on SM lived a town 20 mins from me and did his first show when I had geoblock.... That is the day I said screw geoblock
Now one of my friends exes knows I cam and tries to mess with me sometimes. The way I found out he knew was he came in my cam room with the name...his name + her name(rare name spelling) + the slang name for the college we go to.... I was like really you have to be kidding me *BAN*
He has also come into my room with the screen names my name(rare) + my state.... My town + his name, the area of town I live in and other stupid combos.... I'm just like ban ban ban ban... Last time he did it was like a week ago and I got tipped like $30 before I banned him I wanted to be like haha bitch u got to see me make money and nothing else, but I never acknowledge it... I don't feed trolls.
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Re: Kimber here... did my 2nd day on SM (Streamate).... but JUMPED right off
You are going to see a lot of names in your chat room that remind you of something or someone . IF you freaked out and logged off for every little thing that reminds of this or that you will be logging off a lot and losing money.
If it makes you feel safer then block out countries and states but honestly with the ip changes our there and hola unblocker your not hiding from anyone.
You need to be aware that you are logging on to do a job and if anyone in your room gets out of line you block them and if someone is giving you clues they are someone you know then you block them and move on do your hours you set out to work and stick with your goals.
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Re: Kimber here... did my 2nd day on SM (Streamate).... but JUMPED right off
Don't worry. In fact I get a dannyboy a lot. I think it's a common username. Funny how your room will fill up with customers with similar names too. Like one time I had a bunch of "mike" like usernames, or one day I may have a lot of car related names. I sometimes make it a game, especially if an old school name comes in related to something old..old movie, old book, old anything and i get it. LOL Wish one would come in as my lucky lottery number! $$$$$$