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people leave my privates after just a few minutes, are my shows not good?
When people take me private, more often than not they sign off after just a few minutes! This makes me feel self conscious, like my shows might not be good :( Does this happen to anyone else?
It is also really annoying because it gets tiring putting my clothes on and off over and over again
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Re: people leave my privates after just a few minutes, are my shows not good?
It's totally normal, it's not you at all, usually you'll have a bunch of short shows interspersed with longer ones. It helps if you wear clothing that is really easy to take on and off.
You will eventually find ways to stretch out your shows to keep them longer, that comes with experience. Here are a few good threads to read up on:
https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...ht=longer+show
https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...ht=longer+show
https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...ht=longer+show
https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...ht=longer+show
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Re: people leave my privates after just a few minutes, are my shows not good?
are you on Streamate? they could be taking advantage of the 30 seconds that they dont have to pay -- I didnt know about that when I first started on that site - I would rip my clothes off to get down to business and - poof - they were gone - I can just imagine the pitiful look I had on my face - I was all butt hurt and sad wondering why they didnt like me on SM - then I found out about the 30 seconds and I was so pissed
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Re: people leave my privates after just a few minutes, are my shows not good?
Are you moving too fast? You don't have to completely take all your clothes off right away. You can still be flirty and suggestive fully clothed. Ask questions such as name, age, location, single, married, etc.
Men will pump it and dump it on and off cam if things are moving too fast.
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Re: people leave my privates after just a few minutes, are my shows not good?
Some men are "budget bitches" and have a price in mind which they will never go over. ^^^ listen to marina about moving too fast but if ur not much of a talker just learn to strip very very SLOW and tease in the first few minutes.
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Re: people leave my privates after just a few minutes, are my shows not good?
I don't even strip until being asked to, LOL! I'm one of those cam girls that ask a lot of questions!
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Originally Posted by
Ms.Lacey
Some men are "budget bitches" and have a price in mind which they will never go over. ^^^ listen to marina about moving too fast but if ur not much of a talker just learn to strip very very SLOW and tease in the first few minutes.
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Re: people leave my privates after just a few minutes, are my shows not good?
some guys leave after cumming without saying "ty bb". Sometimes guys won't type anything, but they'll rate you or leave a comment after the show.
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Re: people leave my privates after just a few minutes, are my shows not good?
Well my problem was, I would take my clothes off much too fast lol. I did not stay with camming for long, but as soon as someone would take me private, I would rip my clothes off and show them what they wanted right away. My nerves go the best of me and camming just was not for me lol.
If you are doing that, of course they are going to be done soon. It is good to do a sort of virtual lap dance, strip off slowly, tease them a bit first in whatever ways you can think about. They can be patient. It is your time anyway.
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Re: people leave my privates after just a few minutes, are my shows not good?
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Originally Posted by
Nikki_Fox
are you on Streamate? they could be taking advantage of the 30 seconds that they dont have to pay -- I didnt know about that when I first started on that site - I would rip my clothes off to get down to business and - poof - they were gone - I can just imagine the pitiful look I had on my face - I was all butt hurt and sad wondering why they didnt like me on SM - then I found out about the 30 seconds and I was so pissed
Thank you! I didn't know about the free 30 seconds either and thought I must either totally suck or my feed was really bad.
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Re: people leave my privates after just a few minutes, are my shows not good?
I have a timer on my phone set at 30 seconds - as soon as I go into private I hit start and the count down begins - I use that time to inquire what type of show they want - do you have c2c etc....
I had an awesome timer on my old computer called Cool Timer I think - you could pre set it for various times - great for indy shows and the 30 second - it would fade out too so it didnt interfere with your screen view - but - the last time I tried to down load it onto a different computer it put a bunch of malware crap on my computer - fuck you cnet - I really need to search for another one - it was way more convenient to click my mouse than using my phone
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Re: people leave my privates after just a few minutes, are my shows not good?
Statistically it takes most men 2-3 minutes to make themselves cum.
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Re: people leave my privates after just a few minutes, are my shows not good?
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Re: people leave my privates after just a few minutes, are my shows not good?
No, because these are minute men.
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Re: people leave my privates after just a few minutes, are my shows not good?
i still get them and I've been on Streamate 2.5 years. They don't even talk really and abruptly leave as quick as you remove your underwear.
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Re: people leave my privates after just a few minutes, are my shows not good?
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Originally Posted by
Marina Starr
I don't even strip until being asked to, LOL! I'm one of those cam girls that ask a lot of questions!
Me too!! It took some practise to get here but I generally don't start stripping now until 10 mins or so into a show. Just get to know them a bit, take an interest, work both of you up to the saucier stuff... Set the scene.
Also if it keeps happening all the time I would check your connection and feed. I sometimes have nights like that and 9 out of 10 times its because my feed is lagging, sound is poor etc.
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Re: people leave my privates after just a few minutes, are my shows not good?
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bbwbrianna
No, because these are minute men.
Well most of them already are jerking off. I rarely see a guy soft then get hard. When they turn their cam on, boom I see dick and they are already stroking.
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Re: people leave my privates after just a few minutes, are my shows not good?
I have a preset auto text message that tells him if he stays 5 minutes, or more, rate 5, and add a comment, I will give him 2 videos( u can do pix, or 1 vid).( and you can put any amount of time that you like, obviously.
This works.....Every time!
The ONLY time it doesn't is if they get disconnected, or hit their limit, and they always come back to tell me, or they will send me a message.
I learned this helpful tip from another cam girl who charges $19.99 per minute.
If it's good enough for her, it's good enough for me.