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Ban their ass + geoblock!
Block them, report them to the site/ take screen caps of harassing messages/emails if any and geoblock.
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Well, I don't know about this...if the guy is actually pretty sane about 'stalking' you he could turn out to be a really good regular. First, he can't really blackmail you because he found you and he wants to wank off with you so you have all that material on him. It's even better if he's a taken man eg. married or in a relationship. You would have to weigh the pros and cons of worst case scenario and best case scenario and base your decision on the better situation.
I've already been outed and I'm pretty sure some of my regs already know me IRL but they haven't told me. If I sense they do know me, I always tell them not to tell me or else I will have to ban them completely because my husband would freak out at the fact that I knew them IRL.
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Idk what site you're on but some sites like Streamate geoblocking is weak because they can still access your room via a white label site I believe.
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I am being gangstalked at the moment by my own people nonetheless, its just fucking horrible, i actually have people drive past my flat, and scream obscenities from their cars. I believe they have hacked my mac and phones as i can hear people on the phone too. But apparently I'm paranoid lol sure asshole like I'm imagining people shouting at me. Can last all day and all night sometimes. Check out gangstalking links on the internet. These misogynist bastards are looking to control women through this. Just an example of other things i have to endure are blackmail, threats to put me into the mental home, accusations of being a thief, drug dealer etc which are all lies. These cunts are criminals getting funded by an organisation and bullying innocent people usually women. Also in addition they want me to marry someone i used to know once and insist that i have a baby, life wtf.... these cunts have followed me around the world. I truly hope they rot in hell........
If someone was driving past my home, I don't care if it was cam-world related, or someone from real life... the police would be getting involved.
Someone coming into your room saying they know you in real life, ban them. Ignore them. Report them to the site. If it's someone trying to have fun, they will eventually get bored.
If I found out that someone I truly knew in real life was harassing me online, I'd take it off the web and handle it in real life. I would not be nice about it, just like I wouldn't be nice about someone in "real life" harassing me in real life. If someone I know finds me online, and they are cool about it, then, I'll be cool about it.
I had someone who used to live in the same state I currently do say they saw me online. He made some weird comment, and I just never responded to his message. Waited a few days/weeks, and quietly blocked him. I assumed he forgot and found some other women he was more interested in to take up his time. I don't know if he still watches me online, and I don't care. If he told people we both know... I just accepted that's a possible consequence of what I do. I didn't ask him to keep it quiet, because I wasn't even going to give him the opportunity to even think he could blackmail me; I figured it would be better if I acted nonchalant, and try to take that power away from him.
Like Hyori said, they didn't just randomly stumble across you on the internet. Essentially, you're in the same boat, and if they feel the need to threaten you, it's clear that they view camming/viewing cams as something that needs to be kept secret, so if you felt it necessary, you could throw their game right back at them.
Any person stalking me is going to be unpleasantly surprised. I'm not afraid of being outed. My family is and has always been supportive of my decisions, whether they like them or not. I haven't told them about camming in the interest of avoiding the awkward tension that would follow for about a month, but I'm 100% certain they'd get over it pretty quickly. As for my friends and SO, everyone either knows or has made it clear they wouldn't give a shit one way or the other what I do for living. I like to surround myself with supportive people like that.
As for someone stalking me with the intent of harm, well, good fucking luck idiot. I was raised with boys and come from a military family. I missed sniper qualification for firearm accuracy by one point (thanks for all those lessons daddy!) and keep a lovely collection of hand guns and rifles, at least one of which is within arms reach at all times. Oh, and two very large dogs, the oldest of which I've started training in traditional 'protection work,' as a bonus 'stupid deterrent.' I live less than five blocks from the police station in one of the most heavily patrolled towns in the U.S. and know most of the local cops on a first name basis from previous jobs in the hospitality industry.
You want me? Go ahead and try. I may not still be standing when the cops arrive, but your dismembered dick will be on the ground with me!