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Tips for when it's TOO busy..
I'll keep this short and sweet. My last broadcast yesterday was unusually busy for me and I had shows that required a lot of expenditure..... way more exercise than I'm used to. It's probably nothing compared to a lot of the top girls, but I've never vigorously pounded my pussy and ridden a dildo in different positions for over half an hour without a break. Had to cut my shift off early cause I was a sweaty mess and physically couldn't keep going. The money was so good. The mind was willing, but the body.... well...
What do you do in this situation?? Are there any tricks to making it look like you're putting in more energy than you actually are? Or are all the busy girls out there just secretly terminators?
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You might be doing too much in your shows. Don't give them more than they ask for. I keep teasing for as long as possible while SLOWLY taking off my clothes. Sometimes I can make this last 5 minutes or more depending on the guy and what he's asking for...if he's even asking for anything. I never start masturbation until they specifically ask for it. Learn to draw your shows out and perfect the art of the tease and you won't be working so hard.
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I would raise your rates if you're that busy! You wanna stay busy but not to the point that you can't catch a break or your pussy is in danger!
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Do a slow striptease while asking him questions about what he wants in the show. When naked do some sexy poses, spreadeagle, doggy etc. Use fingers. Don't bring out toys until he asks. Do a bj show if he does want toys until he asks for fucking.
Tease with the toy all over body.
Hold your dildo so that you are hitting your pubic bone with just below the base of your wrist when "penetrating". it sounds like you are fucking yourself really hard but really its not. If you jerk your body and moan it looks absolutely authentic.
If show keeps going, bring out other toys like a vibe, buttplug etc. find creative ways to lengthen the show eg. "Orgasms just make me hornier!"
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Marina Starr
I would raise your rates if you're that busy! You wanna stay busy but not to the point that you can't catch a break or your pussy is in danger!
Yes, definitely raise rates as well if it is too busy!
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All amazing advice ladies! I'm just beginning to figure out how to draw out the stripping part of my shows, taking a bit longer here and there but still very much in the newbie mentality of "wanna please wanna please!"... and the business yesterday only came from two members. My rates are already at 9.99 excl and these guys both just wanted very long shows. I started slow, changed positions, changed toys, changed camera position... they just kept beating it lol! Marathonners, these guys are. I'm slightly worried about seeing them again. X)
*edit to add: Also yes, I definitely wait to do anything until I'm explicitly asked. Unless I'm getting super tired trying to balance on my knees when my legs are gonna fall off for example, then I'll go ahead and ask if they want an easier position or something (though I don't call it easier haha). I take every shortcut I can, like when I'm riding my dildo I don't actually pound myself at all cause you can't see the difference when I'm bouncing up and down (don't have a mounting one so I keep it in my hand) but then the bouncing wears me out. I probably just need to find a slower "sensual" rhythm and stick to it. It's hard when they're begging for harder and faster... and not in that rude rushed way. I wanna give my money's worth.
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doublerainbow
All amazing advice ladies! I'm just beginning to figure out how to draw out the stripping part of my shows, taking a bit longer here and there but still very much in the newbie mentality of "wanna please wanna please!"... and the business yesterday only came from two members. My rates are already at 9.99 excl and these guys both just wanted very long shows. I started slow, changed positions, changed toys, changed camera position... they just kept beating it lol! Marathonners, these guys are. I'm slightly worried about seeing them again. X)
Ahhh, marathoners. Lol This is what I do for these types...after I cum once I usually switch to doing a bj on my toy...then slide it between my tits for a bit. Then I will stand up and start teasing with my body again before going into another position to masturbate. This helps break up the show and gives your lady bits some time to rest. If you're getting sore in one show just tell him that. I say my pussy is done and he took such very good care of me that she needs a break. They usually like that and will be fine with being teased some more.
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doublerainbow
Marathonners, these guys are. I'm slightly worried about seeing them again. X)
One of my best reg is a marathoner. I know when he pops onto my chat that I'll be there with him for at least 90 minutes for non-stop pussy play. He also doesn't like vibrators, which kind of makes getting a break hard. I started using smaller/thinner toys and thicker lube, which helped a lot! If he wants a bigger toy for that period of time, I make him either tip extremely well for it or double my rate. I also make him wait until close to the end of my shift because, as you pointed out, it's a hell of a lot of work! Seriously though, thick lube (like a combo silicone/water gel) helps immensely for all the friction.
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When they ask for "harder, faster!" (even nicely) I usually start dirty talking the hell out of them about how much I love it harder and faster (in sexier terms obviously) and really ramp up my use of dirty talk, but I actually don't change my pace and do what I need to do to keep my pussy safe and happy. Even using the words/echoing what it is that they are asking for adds to whatever visual I am giving them and not a single person has ever complained when I do things this way. Also, when it gets crazy busy I raise my rates. In free chat I've also asked guys to hold their horses while I take a 10 minute break. They seem to love it when I am all chuffed from fucking. Gets them riled up! Always remember that you are in control!! :)
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caramelcraze
One of my best reg is a marathoner. I know when he pops onto my chat that I'll be there with him for at least 90 minutes for non-stop pussy play. He also doesn't like vibrators, which kind of makes getting a break hard. I started using smaller/thinner toys and thicker lube, which helped a lot! If he wants a bigger toy for that period of time, I make him either tip extremely well for it or double my rate. I also make him wait until close to the end of my shift because, as you pointed out, it's a hell of a lot of work! Seriously though, thick lube (like a combo silicone/water gel) helps immensely for all the friction.
I have a regular like this...I can't take it anymore so I've stopped doing Skype shows altogether because I don't want another guy like this...now it's the big box sites for me only and no more marathoners...if I can't take it anymore, I end the show. It's on the verge of abuse really in my opinion especially when it's daily! o.0
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hyori
I have a regular like this...I can't take it anymore so I've stopped doing Skype shows altogether because I don't want another guy like this...now it's the big box sites for me only and no more marathoners...if I can't take it anymore, I end the show. It's on the verge of abuse really in my opinion especially when it's daily! o.0
Thankfully I've never had to deal with him more than twice a week. at between $5 and $10 a minute profit, I'm more than happy to fulfill the fantasy and cut him off when I'm done, especially considering it normally covers a day off the next day if I need one. every day would be absolute torture... Pretty sure my vag would never forgive me.
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I'd also recommend a, ahem, more flaccid toy for riding. I have a synth skin dildo without any kind of spine to it for that. That way you're not getting tired and poking your cervix out at the same time, you are just literally hopping up and down on the bed. Also, when you get tired just sit back so they can see the dildo and roll your hips and talk about how you are milking their cock with your pussy muscles. Total win win, you get a break and they get a great view.
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This happened to me last night with my indy custies as I had to miss out on an extra $130 because I was too dang tired. I cut those fuckers off. Shit, a bitch needs a break sometime even if it means losing money. I would stop dildoing my pussy if I were you. Light finger play and "smaller toys" or "fake insertion" goes a long way and is less stress on your body.
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Kitcatt
I'd also recommend a, ahem, more flaccid toy for riding. I have a synth skin dildo without any kind of spine to it for that. That way you're not getting tired and poking your cervix out at the same time, you are just literally hopping up and down on the bed. Also, when you get tired just sit back so they can see the dildo and roll your hips and talk about how you are milking their cock with your pussy muscles. Total win win, you get a break and they get a great view.
Me too bb! He's a little hard to "fake" insertion when doggy style but it's much better than the one I had before and he looks more realistic.
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I mostly do finger play and even that gets tiring, though not nearly as much since I don't actually enjoy the feeling of a dildo on its own. More than insertion though it's my lack of stamina - I just am not in as good of shape as I look. Camming will surely fix that lol, but in the meantime it's so difficult without little breaks in between (which I take after every show, thank you pause button!)
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Also, LUBE. LUBE, LUBE LUBE. I lube up between each show, I lube up at the start of each show and I do a looong bj with a shit ton of spit on the dildo before I stick it in. I personally find toys easier than fingers, those bastard suck away moisture. Fuck, I look like my pussy is dripping cum all the way to my asshole because all the spit I've coated it in is running down the toy. #winning.
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I hate doggy, that is the hardest position for me because 1. I have to look over my shoulder the whole time and get a neck ache and 2. the chances of enormous queffing is eminent. I avoid any insertion in this position unless requested. And when I do it, I generally bounce my ass cheeks up and down and fake pounding (aka I bend the toy back to my ass and the straighten it simulating movement). I love this position in RL, but this isn't RL.
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I love super long shows even though the do drain slot of your energy... But next time I have one I'll just keep going..sometimes I keep checking like wow the guy is still here after 30+ min which makes them wonder why I stopped but after that I just do teasing
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Raised my rates so I never had to feel like that again!.. what are your rates?
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Originally Posted by
doublerainbow
I'll keep this short and sweet. My last broadcast yesterday was unusually busy for me and I had shows that required a lot of expenditure..... way more exercise than I'm used to. It's probably nothing compared to a lot of the top girls, but I've never vigorously pounded my pussy and ridden a dildo in different positions for over half an hour without a break. Had to cut my shift off early cause I was a sweaty mess and physically couldn't keep going. The money was so good. The mind was willing, but the body.... well...
What do you do in this situation?? Are there any tricks to making it look like you're putting in more energy than you actually are? Or are all the busy girls out there just secretly terminators?
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Doggy is the WORST!.. I don't do it unless they ask for it.. and if they ask I tell them go to exclusive hahaha.. and riding to.. can't fucking stand that .. that's even more worse
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Originally Posted by
Kitcatt
I hate doggy, that is the hardest position for me because 1. I have to look over my shoulder the whole time and get a neck ache and 2. the chances of enormous queffing is eminent. I avoid any insertion in this position unless requested. And when I do it, I generally bounce my ass cheeks up and down and fake pounding (aka I bend the toy back to my ass and the straighten it simulating movement). I love this position in RL, but this isn't RL.
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I hate riding .Since i have a big butt thats all they want.GOd forbids they take me on a block session to ride.Welppppppp
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^^ Ladies thank you. I always feel like some sort of fraud cause I hate riding so so so so much! If they ask me to ride I die a little inside. When they are like harder faster Im at a loss cause its just impossible and I have big tits that hurt if they bounce too much so I just kind of up the moaning.
This is true for my sex life as well. I really thought I was alone in this. I thought everyone here preferred to be on top and I was just weak with a small ass muscle until I read this. Thank you!!! Feels good to know im not alone! **HUGS**
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NOPE all I like is missionary style.. and spooning (IRL)
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DeepThoughts
^^ Ladies thank you. I always feel like some sort of fraud cause I hate riding so so so so much! If they ask me to ride I die a little inside. When they are like harder faster Im at a loss cause its just impossible and I have big tits that hurt if they bounce too much so I just kind of up the moaning.
This is true for my sex life as well. I really thought I was alone in this. I thought everyone here preferred to be on top and I was just weak with a small ass muscle until I read this. Thank you!!! Feels good to know im not alone! **HUGS**
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Originally Posted by
Kitcatt
I'd also recommend a, ahem, more flaccid toy for riding. I have a synth skin dildo without any kind of spine to it for that. That way you're not getting tired and poking your cervix out at the same time, you are just literally hopping up and down on the bed. Also, when you get tired just sit back so they can see the dildo and roll your hips and talk about how you are milking their cock with your pussy muscles. Total win win, you get a break and they get a great view.
What kind of dildo? I always have a problem with every dildo I get... too hard, too stiff, too veiny/textured, not flexible enough... feels like my vag is climbing up and down a step ladder.
I too hate doggy on cam. Neck pains, back pains, and I can't get the dildo in at an angle that doesn't hurt.. i think maybe because I am arching my back, but it -looks- better that way, and feels better IRL like this so IDK wtf I am doing wrong.
I'm a ride and grind kind of person so that is what I usually do on cam. Do just the head, go up and down slow, bounce some, do it again, switch it up.
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ArynAdams
What kind of dildo? I always have a problem with every dildo I get... too hard, too stiff, too veiny/textured, not flexible enough... feels like my vag is climbing up and down a step ladder.
I can't recommend the Bad Dragons in soft firmness highly enough. I have a very sensitive vajay and it's shallow too, these things are soooo comfortable no matter how long I use them for. Just remember to check and double check the size when you order, the 'small' is usually more of an average and the large is frightening.